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POEM – Nina at 45 – 14 December 2019

 

Nina at   45 – 14 December 2019

Today is a very special day

 

It is your birthday but it’s the day

when we first saw our angel.

You are God’s gift to us

Shree   Jalaram   we thank you

It is time in your life for adventure

You with Sunjay at your side

Sitara and Sachin enveloping you

Love of   Sunir and Shannon

Blessings of your parents

 

You have launched   Deep River’s Pharmacy

 

What   a thrill !   It’s your trophy

It’s a journey for success

Hard work and Professionalism

That you exude so confidently

 

Your smile and charm will win laurels

 

We walk in the air for your giant step

We are proud  , the whole family

We are with you all the way

This birthday is a very special day

 

We wish a very Happy   Birthday

We pray for your success always.

 

Family Christmas Celebration -2019

I penned the following article on Christmas celebration and have sent it to our local newspaper (North Renfrew Times) for publication – on 12 December 2019 . They may or may not publish. It is their xprerogative . However, as per every year , I will circulate and send by e-mail the article to my family members, friends , colleagues , contacts and social groups I am associated with.

12 December 2019

Family Christmas Celebration

Come November, cold season starts and mood changes for Christmas holidays.

One by one houses get lit by outside lights and strings of lights add festive mood to the populace. There is magic in the air.

At night the whole street becomes heavenly – sometimes with snow on the ground.

The Christmas holidays are secularized with decorated Christmas tree, artful display of lights and Santa Clause doing his Ho! Ho! Ho! Even those of us who are not Christians by faith are also celebrating Christmas with gusto. Christmas is celebrated around the world in many countries with or without large Christian population.

Kids are looking forward to have Santa Clause bring gifts for them and their friends – there would be laughter with caring and sharing. One need not be a Christian in partaking in the festivities. There is the underlying message of love, sacrifice and being compassionate for all when we celebrate the birth of Lord Jesus. These values are the foundation of caring and sharing society for peaceful and progressive existence.

For us, the family start xpreparing for visits and family get together. My son’s family phoned from Toronto early in November that they will be coming over to Deep River during Christmas. This is our family holiday tradition since many years. My daughter& family are nearby – thus we have a very nice get together. All grandchildren – 3 from Toronto and 2 nearby – have wonderful time. They are so loving and playful with each other – making grandparents very ecstatic.

The children love to see each other and spend the day playing games and sharing their new gifts and toys that Santa Claus brought for each of them.

We feel fortunate to have our family together during Christmas holidays.
Every year, we are fortunate to attend a Christmas Party at Ken and Leela Philipose”™home here in Deep River. This has become a cherished annual family holiday tradition within the local East Indian Community. Ken & Leela have been hosting this celebration of Christmas since long – since many years as I remember – more or less from the year we settled in Deep River in 1986.

Their Christmas Party is open to people of all faiths. The guests attend with gusto and excitement and join the hosts in carol singing, enjoying snacks and drinks and warmth of each other”™s company. There is much laughter and merriment during the Party.

I understand that both Ken and Leela are Saint Thomas Christians, also called Syrian Christians of India, who trace their origins to the evangelistic activity of Thomas the Apostle in the 1st century. According to history, Saint Thomas, one of the disciples of Christ, came the South Indian Kerala coast in in the 1st century. Kerala is known for their paddy fields, coconut trees, rivers, backwaters and houseboats. People of Kerala have a literacy rate, the highest in India.

As Deep Riverites for many years both Ken and Leela are socially active and have philanthropic hearts. Recently they contributed a large sum ($19,000.00) to our Hospital Foundation towards capital equipment purchase.

The main focus of Christmas celebration is the birth of Lord Jesus or Christ. We know that historically Jesus existed and the baby was born to change the world. The basic teaching of Christ is to love your Lord, your God with all thy strength, love your neighbor as thyself and be a peacemaker and pray for your enemies. He also teaches, what you do for the poorest of the poor, you have done for me.
I am not a Christian by faith and I do worship the Almighty under Hindu tradition – which encourages all to be a spiritual person and believe in a higher power. I pray that Christmas 2019 is observed by us keeping in mind the sacrifice and the most illuminating message of Hope that Lord Jesus has brought to the human kind. This will keep us from despair and encourage us for helping actions.

Let yearly Christmas celebration become a pointer to peace and a reminder that there is more to life than fights and arrogation of power and wealth. When we meet our family and friends (during Christmas holidays) let us seek forgiveness for any misdeeds done to them by us and forgive them for any perceived or real misdeeds done by them to us. This will be a gift par excellence!

Pass it on and see the magic!

My wife Jackie and I wish you all a very uplifting Christmas and a Happy New Year. Happy Holidays to all.

Zoey & Timmy – A wonderful 2013 Labour day Long Weekend with Zoey & Timmy

A wonderful   2013 Labour day Long Weekend with Zoey & Timmy

These are names of two pets – one a big dog with orange/white coat (Zoey) and another a beautiful furry black cat (Timmy).   These are pets of our neighbours     – a good patriotic family . The husband served in Afghanistan with the Canadian Army   with a dedication that is the mark of our Canadian Army personnel.

A loving family – who have a daughter who had to go to her university at Waterloo, Ontario during the Labour day long week-end.

So parents decided to drive her there and bring her comfort in settling down at her place in Waterloo.

The pets   were to be left home.   So to take care of them they approached us if we can look after them when they are away on the road – from Thursday to Sunday .   Of course we said yes . First because it is our nature to help others – specially our neighbours – if we can . Second this neighbour had always been helpful to us whenever we needed any help.

Only hitch to this plan was that in our 73 years of life on this earth – we had never had a pet nor we are familiar with dogs and cats – their habits and needs . To a certain extent, we are also a bit scared of dogs if not of cats. Complicating the situation is our fear of allergy   – specially from Cat’s hair .

But we (both my wife and I ) were proud to be asked – to take care of two pets – when the family was away.

The situation was exciting – as the trust shown by our neighbours in their pets to behave well when they were away – remember two diverse specimen of pets – one a dog and the other a cat – each to co-habit with another without trying to tear   each other out in the absence of their human masters. Also trust shown for their neighbours – us – not from the same cultural background and sufficiently senior in age to take care of their precious pets in their absence.

We duly said yes – our main task was to take the pets out each day in the morning for about 2 hours and in the evening also for about the same number of hours. Along with that , to check the fullness of feed dishes and water bowls .   A note (on a small white board)   in the neighbours living room mentioned that Zoey be offered doggy treat as thought necessary   (my words).

Well Thursday  (2013 August 29) – just after lunch or around that time – the neighbours were on the road taking their daughter for university life in Waterloo.

The main responsibility to check on the pets and bringing them outdoors fell on me while wife providing support (moral and otherwise) with great happiness and satisfaction in her heart.

Thursday 2013 August 29

Being a bit apprehensive as to how the pets will respond to me, on Thursday morning , I had gone over to neighbours (before their departure to Waterloo) to get proper instructions as what care needs to be looked after. At that time , I got the opportunity to pat Zoey and also to tickle the cat (Timmy) on his tummy – in that way both pets got to know my body smell and me .

I have not known Timmy (the cat) before -in fact did not know that the neighbours had a cat . I knew Zoey – the big amazing and sweet dog.   Mostly had communicated with him across the fence from our backyard .   I do not remember I had ever gone out and patted him – I may have earlier – over the last couple of years but I cannot recall such   connection.

4.15 pm   – went to the neighbours’   house   – from the backdoor ( crossing the porch) . The backyard is fully fenced   with automatic latch door .

Both pets were lazing around in the house – very peacefully – in the corridor behind the back door.

The evening – outdoors – was warm and somewhat humid.   The pets were just compliant – no whimper of protest or anything that can frighten me.

NOTE:   As a precaution, I did not wear my sandals but shoes – in case there was any untoward menace from the pets – especially from the dog.   Nada.

They were on their the best   behaviour and an example of friendliness between themselves and towards me.

I surveyed the food dishes and water bowls – they were still full – a little had been eaten as yet.

The pets   were let out in the backyard.  Timmy had to be lifted out   but Zoey did come out by himself – all proud and sure of himself.

In the backyard , they just lounged around – not much activity . I guess they were missing the family

I went back at 5.15 pm and   let them in the house – they were ready near the backdoor to get in.

Friday 2013 August 30

9.20 am – went in the morning to let both Zoey and Timmy out in the yard. I found both of them waiting inside near the back door – to come out in the yard. They came out on the porch very nicely. I went in the house to check on the food consumed . At that time I saw the note on the small white board against one wall of the living room – saying that Zoey can be given a treat during the day.

I searched for the doggie treat and found in the kitchen two bags – one for doggie Milk Bones and another   of Chicken strips   – suppose to help dogs for their joints etc.

When they were outdoors, Jackie had gone out in our yard to watch over the pets and at that time she found Zoey was having a pow-wow   (communication by barking ) with another dog in the park . He seems to be enjoying the experience.

I went back to neighbours at 11.20 am and let the pets in the house. They were both quite ready to get in the house – sitting on the porch near the back door waiting for me.

I gave Zoey his treats for the day .

During the afternoon the sky had become dark and there was some rain outburst but then there was a constant rain falling. So at 5.00 pm when I went to have the pets come outdoors – it was raining and neither Zoey nor Timmy wanted to come outdoors . I decided to let them remain indoor at that time.

I went back at 6.00 pm and at that time I stroke both Timmy and Zoey . Timmy just rolled over for me to stroke (tickle) him more on his belly .   At that time I also gave Zoey a few treats of Milk Bones and a couple of chicken strips.   They definitely wanted to remain indoor. So I let them as outdoor was wet .

Saturday   2013 August 31

8.30 am – went in the morning to let both Zoey and Timmy out in the yard. Zoey was ready waiting inside near the door – so I let him out. I could not see Timmy around . It took a few minutes to find him – he was well ensconced on the big bed – in the corner where two walls meet and close to the walls.

It took a while to coax him out – I had to carry him outdoors .

Cat food and water in the dish near the door ( to the living room) were finished and also over the drawer too. I filled those and at the same time I topped the dog food in the bowl near the fireplace.

At about 10.00 am Jackie went in our backyard to see that both pets are doing okay.   She found both of them quiet and lazing on the porch – seem to her that they were sort of sad – for I guess missing the their human family.

I went back at 10.30 am   let them in the house – they were ready near the backdoor to get in.

I went back at around 1.45 pm to let the pet out for the afternoon as we had to go out for a social in the evening   .

Zoey   was sprawled on his cushion in the bedroom and came out on calling but   Timmy was not found immediately.   I had to look around and almost got panicked where he had gone . I am sure he did not go in the basement as I had closed the door the previous day and he cannot go upstairs as all doors there were also closed too.   But in my third look around, I found Timmy perched so quietly over the sofa (along the window in the front of the living room) backstand.   So I had to coax him and carry Timmy outdoors to join Zoey there.

At about that time I saw some pet turd on the living room carpet . ( possibly due to rain – they did/could   not go outdoors on Friday evening)

Also   gave Zoey some treat outdoors   . The afternoon was pleasant – not much hot – a bit cloudy .

Brought them back indoor at about 4.15 pm . They were glad to come indoor . Again Zoey got some treat of Milk Bones and Chicken strips.

Also at that Time I removed the turd  from the carpet and a couple of other places in the corridor and flushed that in the toilet .

Sunday 2013 September 01

9.00 am – went in the morning to let both Zoey and Timmy out in the yard. I found both of them waiting inside near the back door – to come out in the yard.

Went back at 11.00 am and brought the pets indoors. Patted and stroked them . Timmy liked that .

Also gave Zoey his treat   – all the last remaining Milk Bone and Chicken strips

Said adieus to the most lovely pets   – now they wait inside for their human family to return back from Waterloo.

At 3.00 pm I phoned (from Petawawa – where we had gone to attend the FSNA picnic) the neighbours on their home phone –   they were back from Waterloo at about 1.30 pm and glad to be united with their pets   after a sojourn/separation   of   about 3 days .

Conclusion:

This had been a wonderful experience and an excellent learning about pets and the joy one derives from   having them.   All our 73 years of age -we never had pets and never before baby sat or looked after any pets but these two (Zoey and Timmy – a dog and cat) showed how living beings can live together   and enjoy each other.  

I appreciate this opportunity which came suddenly and we took the assignment with open hearts and without any fear – though we were not sure how the pets will take us – but they were magnificent and obedient and showed no displeasure being looked after by me directly and Jackie otherwise.

 

 

Another Opportunity to look after Zoey & Timmy

Note: after the neighbours return home on Sunday 2013 September   01- next day they were at our home to thanks us – at that time they were given a copy of his article.

On subsequent day, they mentioned that they liked the article   except that they were the ones who kept the basement door open – for Timmy’s litter box was in basement.

Becoming the pets’ grandparents.

Thursday 2013 September 12 – the neighbour came over to our home – he wanted us to look after the dog & cat ( Zoey & Timmy) during the upcoming week- end   as they were going to Brockville .

So it fell on me to bring Zoey & Timmy out of the house on Saturday   2013 September 14 and see that they are well fed etc.

Saturday   2013 September 14   — Went at 4.30 pm to let the pets out. Timmy was snuggled up on the main bed &   Zoey was lying down in the vestibule at the front door.   Zoey was enticed out with a show of a couple of treats   (both given outdoors) and Timmy had to lifted out. Also gave Timmy the cat’s treat to munch (outdoors).

It was sunny and bright outdoors at 4.30 pm.

Brought them back inside at about 5.45 pm – it   was still bright and somewhat sunny.   Both Zoey & Timmy were lying quietly on the back porch. A dog and a cat – so peaceful and acceptance of each other –   as companions.

I am sure they are missing     the human parents -who have gone off to Brockville for a night.

I gave each one   their treat when indoors.   Zoey got two types and Timmy one type

This time there was no light left on in the bathroom but only one in the kitchen   ( wall light).
Sunday 2013 September 15

Brought the pets out at 9.20 am – a dull morning .

Also left some treats for them on the back porch.

Went at 12.00 noon – to bring them back into the house.   Both of them were lying and waiting near the back door to get in.     Both of them are so docile and seemed well trained. No whimper or a sound !!.

Inside, I gave each one a   treat , filled the tray (near the door to the Living room) with cat food and topped off the water.

China and Canada Conundrum

The following article was sent to our local newspaper (on Sunday 01 December 2019) for publication in their ” Letter to Editor ” section.

30 November 2019

China and Canada Conundrum

 

Its Christmas time & it’s time to remember and have in our thoughts our Canadian detainees in China.

We Canadians are believers  in law and fair play . Our laws are transparent.   We care for each other.

I believe that the detention of two innocent Canadians and the  sudden court rulings of execution against two others  is in disproportionate retaliation for the arrest by Canada  in Vancouver of  Huawei executive Meng Wanzhou.

As we can recall –   on December 1, 2018, Meng was arrested at Vancouver International Airport by the Royal Canadian Mounted Police at the request of the United States for allegedly defrauding multiple financial institutions in breach of US imposed bans on dealing with Iran.

The two detainees ,   Michael Spavor and Michael Kovrig  have not yet been charged . Neither has been given access to a lawyer during more than 11 months of incarceration, nor have they been allowed to see family .

The other Canadian detainees Robert Schellenberg and Fan Wei have   had their sentences upgraded suddenly   to   execution sentences   as a retaliatory measure by China after Miss Mang Wanzhou was charged by the Canadian   law agencies.

Canada stands firmly opposed to the use of the death penalty everywhere around the world        We should be particularly concerned when it is applied to Canadians.

This is unfair and against human rights .   One can relate to genuine charges but the arbitrary detention of innocent Canadians by China   as a retaliation is definitely in the realm of bullying.

Miss Meng, the Huawei executive definitely requires fair hearing and justice – which the Canadian courts will provide, She already is free on bail and allowed all movements and activities.

In Canada, the judicial proceedings for Ms. Meng will play out as they should. She has the best lawyers money can buy.

The detention of Mr. Kovrig in particular warrants naming, as he is a Canadian diplomat who was on leave when he was kidnapped ”“ a gross violation of the Vienna Convention of 1961.

Further , China has also put a halt in the purchase of   the Canadian Meat products and also of canola seeds – to put political pressure on Canada for withdrawing the case against the   Huawei executive Meng Wanzhou.

It seems that Canada is not getting any traction with   the Chinese authorities for release of the Canadian detainees.   With four Canadians languishing in Chinese prisons, Canada has the need to persuade China , by whatever means ,   to return them.       Due to trade impact – our policy so far seems to be  “see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil” appeasement of China – which can impact Canada”™s domestic and global interests .

I pray that this issue is resolved soon and the Canadian detainees can come safely home  before Christmas.

The Pharmacy Store – Deep River’s Pharmacy

The newest pharmacy in Deep River is set to open its doors   today – Friday 29th November 2019.   No,   this is yet not the opening day for business but for trying out all systems -computer, credit card , security, dealing with Insurance Companies as well as dealing with local medical personnel and also understandinf the flow of customers.

The actual date the store will be officially open is marked for Monday 02 December 2019 .     The grand Opening Day is planned to be Thursday   19 December 2019.

A chronical describing the evolement of this store is prepared – which is currently kept in private files.

Our Canadian Diversity – Diwali celebration

This article was published in our local Newspaper North Renfrew Times (   a bit edited   to shorten it ) on Wednesady 13 November 2019

3 November 2019

Our Canadian Diversity   – Diwali celebration

The Lions Hall in Chalk River   was buzzing with excitement as more than 200 people, in festive mood,  gathered there   on the evening of   Saturday   2nd November 2019   to celebrate the annual Diwali festival.

The event was organized by the East Indian Community of the Renfrew   County . Many participants came in wonderful  traditional dresses which added color to the event.   It was very heartening that many friends (belonging to different cultures ) also joined in the celebration.   India is a land of diversity   – which is  complementary   to our Canadian society with multi-cultural ethos.

The evening reverberated with cultural entertainment program   lasting for just a little less than two hours.   There were stage dances ,   songs and instrument playing adding to the festivities.     The Indian classical ” Bharat Natyam   ” dance amongst others  was   cheered   and applauded by all .  Young as well as high school kids along with adults (both male and female)   performed   variety   of    musical and dance performances .   The talent of   budding performers was very visible.   That cheered the participants –   and the time just flew by.

After the entertainment program   all   settled down to enjoy the delicious and tasteful   catered Indian food  –   with a number of   traditional choices .    It must be noted that at an Indian / Hindu festival /event – food is always   vegetarian as many in India do not consume meat and when it is devoted to any deity the non-vegetarian food is a no no   – because many Indians do consider all living beings as sacred .

Once coffee/tea and dessert was consumed ,  the participants relaxed, intermingled   and chatted with each other.   In fact they did the intermingling and chatting even before the entertainment program started .    They wished each other Happy Diwali .

This year Diwali,  in fact,  was on Sunday October 27

The finale of the evening started after the meal /dinner , that was when the floor was open for anyone who wants to dance to the rhythmic beats streamed out by the DJ.     Some of recent  Bollywood   as well as Bhangra   tunes   were offered . The floor was thronged by young and old -all freely dancing with so much fun and tempo.   The program started closing down slowly but definitely at about 10.00 pm.  and one by one families started   to return to quiet of their homes

I am sure all celebrated the evening’s Diwali festival with gusto and reverence in heart.

Coming back to Diwali festival – this is celebrated in India since many millennia .

Diwali, the “festival of lights” is the most important festival for Hindus around the globe.

At the present time , it is said that the Diwali is a Hindu festival. However for millennia there was no religion called Hindu religion in India . It was an open society in ancient India   and people were free to debate and decide as to how to further their spiritual beliefs. The free debate and discussions were encouraged,

This then have generated into an amalgam of religious beliefs   – what is in present day known as       Hinduism . Hinduism is unique in that it”™s not a single religion but a compilation of many traditions and philosophies.

The word Hindu or Indu was used by Greeks to denote the country and people living beyond the Indus river. By the 13th century, the word Hindustan began to be used as a popular alternative name for India, meaning the “land of Hindus“.   Eventually, any person of Indian origin who did not practice Abrahamic religions came to be known as a Hindu, thereby encompassing a wide   range of religious beliefs and practices.

The most prominent legend attached to Diwali is that of Lord Rama.  Based on the holy epic Ramayana, the first Diwali was celebrated by the people of Ayodhya to welcome their beloved prince back to his kingdom.

The Ramayana is an ancient Indian epic, composed sometime in the 5th century BCE, about the exile and then return of Rama, prince of Ayodhya;

Lord Rama was a great warrior King who was exiled by his father Dashratha, the King of Ayodhya, along with his wife Sita and his younger brother Lakshman. Lord Rama returned to his Kingdom Ayodhya after 14 years of exile, in which he put an end to the demon Ravana of Lanka.

After this victory of Good over Evil, Rama returned to Ayodhya. In Ayodhya, the people welcomed them by lighting rows of clay lamps  ( ” diyas “)   – when the oil is burnt by the wick .

Over the millennia , the deeper meaning and lessons from Diwali celebration is inferred by the religious leaders   and the public.  Diwali is celebrated for the victory of Good over Evil .

It shows and guides all of us that   good deeds are important and necessary for progress and peace in life.   It is better to be productive and contributory towards progress and   well being of the family, friends and society in general . It is sort of bad and bordering on evil to be disruptive   and vindictive.

This is similar to Christmas. We celebrate the birth of Lord Jesus when celebrating Christmas but the underlying deeper meaning that we celebrate is that God Almighty cares for us and He even would send his only son to earth for our salvation. Christmas teaches us to be sharing and caring.

The   lighting of the ” diyas ” when celebrating Diwali signifies that one needs to get rid of the selfish and materialistic thoughts which frees one from all forms of sadness   and grief.

Diyas” symbolize goodness and purity, and lighting them denotes dispelling darkness and going into light.

Hindus believe that placing a   ‘”diya ” generates positive energy into the environment. The energy generated gives a positive effect on all the living organism. It leads to a spiritual path and provides serenity of mind and soul.

I believe , lighting a candle in a church provides similar serenity of mind and soul. The candle symbolizes light in the darkness of life especially individual life,    Candle light often evokes the warmth of home and family.

As I understand , Hinduism is the world”™s oldest religion, according to many scholars, with roots and customs dating back more than 4,000 years. Today, with about 900 million followers, Hinduism is the third-largest religion behind Christianity and Islam.   Roughly 95 percent of the world”™s Hindus live in India. Because the religion has no specific founder, it”™s difficult to trace its origins and history. Hinduism is unique in that it”™s not a single religion but a compilation of many traditions and philosophies.

So I wish all a Happy Diwali and wish/pray for   spirit of brotherhood and peace.

Here is the thing! – re: my grandson Sachin

Here is the thing.

Well,   Sachin was having a   sleep-over at our house in Deep River on Friday   04 October 2019 while his parents and Sitara scooted off to Ottawa   – as Sitara was attending/visiting  the Carleton University   Faculty of Engineering and Design  next day on Saturday.

We had fun night  enjoying the company of our 10 year old grandson   (Sachin) , enjoyed with him a game of Monopoly   while watching the   Indian TV program called   ” Kaun Benega Crorepatti    ”  in Hindi       — which   translates   to ” Who will become a millionaire   “.       He was well behaved , focused and keen in his game as well as following the TV program   (with English captions given) .   He quietly went to sleep at around 10.30 pm .

Next morning   ( on Saturday ) he   got up ,  freshened   up and   had his breakfast – without any adult interference or help.   He knows where to find his daily needs at his nana/nani place.

What impressed me about him is that right on time – like being on cue –   he disengaged himself from his favourite TV show at 11.00 am and started getting ready for his ice hockey practice .  He put on all necessary   clothing for skating , pads & other gears    including  securing it with tapes where necessary.

So we trotted off to the Deep River Arena at about 11.10 am – him pulling his big bag (with skates, helmet , gloves & other skating gears) out of the house   . He loaded the bag on to the car – saying to his nana that he can handle all that.     Of course his nana helped carrying his Hockey stick and water bottle

At arena, he pulled the bag into the arena building and found the room where he is supposed to put his skates   on and get ready for his practice game.   Well finally he started getting ready -all   by himself – not giving his nana any grief .   However , he did  get stalled   when   trying to put and tying his skates on.   He had realized that though his nana tried to help him tie the skates but really  cannot as there was the need for pushing the skate flaps under the protection pads and then tying the lace tight.   His nana had never done that.   However, as always there are good people around so his nana asked a young man ( who I guess was a skating coach )     to help out   . He did so and had skates on properly . After that he handled himself and put on other gears such as his helmet and gloves   before getting on the   ice.

When the practice   was   over   – Sachin was in the change room   and by himself   removed his skates, gloves , clothing etc   and put these well in the big carry bag   and hauled that to the car and loaded it onto the car by himself.   All so relaxed and without any stress. Nana was really impressed by his independence   and   responsible behaviour.

Now compare the above story to another 10 year old boy many  moons ago. This boy had gone on vacation   (during school break) to his nana/nani home in Thika from Mombasa . It was exciting visit but the young man had not much to do in those days.   One day he wondered off away from main area of residence to a   store room – all by himself as quietly as he can.    There he sneaked into items in the store   room   – just being curious or being naughty !.   There he found   a pair of scissors . Well what one do with a pair   of with a scissors.   The young man became creative   and what he did was interesting.   Luckily he did not cut or damage any of his nana/nani stuff.     But he did was rather funny yet not very responsible. He   cut his hair on his head – trying to be a barber . He felt so happy and thinking he achieved something .

He then came out of the store area and come over to the main residence and his younger uncle   (   ShantiMama ) saw him – he must have had a great laugh   The younger boy looking  ridiculous .

However,   ShantiMama   was concerned – so he took the young boy to a real barber in town -to at least   trim the hair as best as can be . That’s the end of the story.

Who was that young 10-year old boy   many moons ago in Thika.     Of course that boy was Sachin’s nana (that is of course me)  – who was kind of a bit naughty or adventurous without much thinking .  In those days , kids had not much planned structured activities and not much responsibilities except to play   and find activities – self made -to pass time.

What a change one can see in two generations   !

 

 

Letter to Editor – An Article titled ” Bill 21 – is it racist or standing for secularism “

The following article was submitted to North Renfrew Times on Sunday October 13, 2019 – which can only be published in the coming weeks.

Okay – the article was publised in the local Newspaper (North Renfrew Times   ) in their Wednesday edition dated   16 October 2019 – under the title ” Expand Bill 21″.     I do not know why they changed the title – as my article has not talked about expanding Bill 21but to revise it.

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Bill 21 – is it racist or standing for secularism

During the current Canadian Federal election , the subject of Bill 21 recently passed by the Quebec   Legislature   (on June 16 ) was much debated and talked about.

Bill 21 formally bans teachers, police officers, judges and many others from wearing items like hijabs, turbans, kirpans, and crucifixes in the course of their duties. It also doubles down on pre-existing legislation that requires citizens to uncover their faces when accessing public services like municipal transit and the legal system.

The bill has been met with controversy and confusion. Critics condemn the bill as legalizing discrimination against religious minorities, and proponents see it as Quebec finally making good on its claims of being a secular society.

For those of us not wearing any of the above mentioned religious   items   –   the law would not   really   be of much concern.    I personally do not believe that   It can be called racist   – as the law applies to anyone of any colour   and of any religious belief.     It ,   however, impinges on personal freedom of many citizens in our free democratic society.   That   goes against our Canadian values and tradition.

I think adults should be free to wear   any religious items they would like to in order to profess their   religious beliefs   -so long as they do not do so in order to just be nasty or to show off.

However,   the fate of Bill 21 will be decided in the courts.

However what is  rather unfortunate is   that  many kids are imposed upon to wear such religious items as they are growing up in   the Canadian society .   This is tantamount to be like child abuse.   They are not asked or given a choice   and their religious parents   just   put these kids in untenable situation ..

Because of such garb and attire or symbolism   imposed upon kids they go though school  getting bullied or they   are ignored by their classmates or schoolmates   and   experience   somewhat friendless  growth.

Many cannot take part in some or other sports or other cultural activities .   Girls are more affected than boys .  Let little girls have the freedom to feel the wind in their hair as they tear around the playground with their friends.

This is not good for them or for Canadian society.   Do we want that?

 

I strongly believe that there is nothing wrong in imparting religious teachings – which can be done   freely with Sunday schooling or at any time . But when the kids are in school or   other   activities – they should not be made to wear such religious garbs/items by their parents .

Once they reach the age of 16, they can choose to   wear such religious  items of their own free will and the Government or law should not stop them doing so.

I think   Bill 21 needs to be revised by Quebec and should address   this child abuse that is   knowingly imposed upon the kids by their so called religious parents.   If fact such revised bill is needed right across Canada.     God is giving us freedom and let   us not misuse it on our own kids.

When the kids grow up – they can choose to wear whatever   religious garb/items they want when working at   a public place – so long their faces and smiles are visible.

 

 

 

Letter to Editor – An Article titled ” Near Surface Disposal Facility (NSDF) “

The following article was submitted to North Renfrew Times for publication and was published in their   Wednesday 09 October 2019 edition.

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03 October 2019

Hi

Near Surface Disposal Facility (NSDF)  

Just a thought !   How come this development at Chalk River site is   still pending ?

What is the issue?     What’s the snag?   Why there is a delay in approval by the  Canadian Nuclear Safety Commission ( CNSC )?   The   CNSC’s  quiet is deafening   – to say the least !

It’s been a long while and not much has moved except the much talked about recent   CNL advertisement on the back page of recent edition of North Renfrew Times (NRT) .

Yes,   there have been a few Letters To Editor to NRT   pertaining to be about NSDF but really these were polemics   ( I would say academic polemics) about the definition of a   ” mound ” and  also about the mute point of whether CNL   can claim about many wonderful technologies developed over the   years   at Chalk River nuclear site.

Well let that be as it may be   but it seems the development is stalled.

I   may be wrong   but to my simple mind it (this proposed development)  is  a few years  late   when it should have been implemented for the good & planned development of the Chalk River site  —   impacting   the future of   the local   community and for the good of the country as a whole.

I understand that there is  so much legacy wastes lying around and scattered at various locations at the CNL site – which do present a danger ( both radiological and non-radiological ) to habitat.   Further, CNL site is old and most existing buildings /structures / site services may be somewhat non-code compliant and tending towards being decrepit and building structures seem to be mostly of wooden construction and could be ” tinder ” and thus posing a definite fire hazard.

Added to that –   many of these structures and services are somewhat contaminated  by  radioactivity – the  site being a nuclear site operating nuclear research reactors and related facilities over many years.

So it is in the interest of the safety and environment that   such a facility is built   which would allow engineered operation , monitoring over long period   and   be able to take corrective steps in time , if a need arises .

While I am fully in favour,  in principle , for the development of such a facility at the Canadian Nuclear Laboratories (CNL) site – it is troubling to note the proposed site  is in close proximity of the Perch Lake  close to Ottawa River ( and the Perch Creek which facilitates the flow to the Ottawa River ).  

I believe that the facility will be designed to withstand a very high seismic event   but am not sure about the details .   It  may be safe when fully completed   but would the seismic event be managed when the facility is part complete ?      I understand that that   it will take a long time for the facility to be fully complete.

I am not sure   that   unusual climatic conditions such as   cloud bursts   are   part of the design criteria.   I  assume that this and other   environmental   conditions are considered  when designing the facility .

All this can be assured to public   if   CNL or CNSC or AECL   come out and   step up to the plate   and identify or announce whether the siting, the detail design and operation of the said facility   –   all have been professionally reviewed by identified independent   and qualified reviewers . Their (the professional qualified reviewers ) concurrence may contribute   towards the much awaited approval by CNSC.

I really would not worry about the name   given to the facility.

 

 

 

 

My Life Story – a work in progress ( 4 October 2019)

I have been prompted by my daughter (Nina) to write my life story for posterity.

The work of writing has started.   The story would be   written in 4 parts with some Appendixes.

My   Life   Story – Part 1       ( This is for the period from my birth to completing my High School)

see my private document :   Pravin2019MyLifeStoryPart1.docx

My   Life   Story – Part 2     ( This is for the period   after my High School upto   completing my College education to become a Civil Engineer)

see my private document :   Pravin2019MyLifeStoryPart2.docx

My   Life   Story – Part 3     ( This is the period after my completing my College course and starting work/employment in Kenya – from April 1962   to February 1974 ).

Note :     Not started as yet.

My   Life   Story – Part 4     ( This is the period after my emigration to Canada until present time –   from early March 1974 to now.   It encompasses my work period   from arriving in Canada upto April 2007 and then thereafter enjoying retirement .

Note :     Not started as yet.

I am sure there would be Appendixes     such as

1)   Our family list – with our forefathers in India and in Kenya plus our family here at present.

2)   My various Poems (   Poems from Heart )   –   mostly I love and cherish my Birthday poems for the   grandchildren.

3)   My various write-ups over the years – those which are saved and found in my files. Many are lost over time .