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My Funeral — Poem

I     penned a poem in case !     in   August 2019.           See the POEM that follows the                                             ” Point To Ponder ”   – a quote by Leonard Cohen.

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Points to Ponder

From Readers Digest September 2019 edition:

” I think poetry is a verdict.

    It’s a verdict that we give

    to something that moves

    us – that has authority

    and music and resonance ”

a quote by Leonard Cohen

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POEM    – My Funeral     (lyrics)

My Funeral

It’s time to own up

This is no time for if or but

A moment in one’s life

That we cannot escape

What I cannot understand

Why we bother !

When I go I want no disturbance

I know , I know it’s not in my hands

We are at the mercy of destiny

Safe smooth passage or with medical hiccups

The end is waiting

For me it is a safe harbour

I do not have anything to lose

The garden left behind is wonderful

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My Funeral

Rejoice as I cross the line

I do not bemoan

I have had wonderful family

All loving grandchildren

Ready to take on the world

Improve and make it comfortable

View from the window very comforting

My garden left behind is satisfactory

Why we need more

That I cannot understand

I am happy with my effort

Understood my limitations

Have not stopped though

My service to community

Appreciate others who do much more

Humble gratitude to all

Let us bow our heads to good souls

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My Funeral

I am a speck in the world

Fluttering here and there

My   Guardian Angel gave me moorings

Shree Jalaram remains steady

Always present to provide support

He made my life so colorful

Providing pull and push as needed

All barriers eliminated when necessary

Passage in life made easier

From one continent to another

Shree Jalaram remained steadfast

What a delight and comfort

So rejoice – when I cross the line

I then can humbly be with Shree Jalaram

That’s the best prize anyone can have

From young age to now

I experienced Shree Jalaram’s presence

It’s time that I gracefully go

To directly thank my Saviour!

Rejoice and celebrate the life experienced

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This Week – 2 (01 October 2019)

The following   was sent for information to Deep River & Area East Indian Group   on                               01 October 2019.

deepem@googlegroups.com

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This Week

1)   The 9-day Navratri festival starts on Sunday 29th September to Monday 7th October .

The  ”  navratri ” festival  started with a bang here in the Renfrew County East Indian Community  – with a  get -together for Garba night at the Lions Hall in Petawawa on Saturday 28th September 2019.   Many people attended the function – all attired in fancy dresses and smile on the face.   There were many young ones in the crowd -all having a jolly time.

The organizers worked   hard and very professionally – preparing a good meal as well as having appropriate music to go with  the Garba dancing . One can feel the vibrations and excitement of all those who participated in the Garba.       Many Thanks.

Navratri is a major festival  in Hinduism held in honour of the divine feminine.

Navratri is dedicated to all the nine forms of Goddess Durga.

Navratri festival  often ends with the Dussehra (also called Vijayadashami) celebration on the 10th day.

For more information about what 9 colours people wear  during   9 days of Festival

See Link:   https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/navratri-9-colours-for-9-days-and-their-importance-2110182

Title :-  Navratri: 9 Colours You Should Wear During 9 Days Of Festival

2)  On Wednesday 02 October 2019 is Mahatma Gandhi’s birthday anniversary.

Mahatma Gandhi’s birthday (Gandhi Jayanti or Mahatma Gandhi Jayanti) is a gazetted holiday in India on October 2 each year. It marks the anniversary of Mahatma Gandhi’s birth on October 2, 1869.

For us who are residing overseas – this anniversary is very important as it reminds us of our Indian values in life about peaceful and constructive role   we should play wherever we reside – and community participation for everyone’s benefit is critical to propagate equality and respect for each other.

We should also remember Mahatma Gandhi’s teachings which influenced many people around the world  — such as Martin Luther King Jr. in USA and  Nelson Mandela in South Africa in their peaceful and non-violent struggle against racial injustices and colonial domination.

3) Last week we show a wonderful  “Howdy Modi ” spectacle in Houston USA.

Prime Minister Narendra Modi of India was accorded a rousing welcome on

Sunday September 22 , 2019   when he arrived at the crowded NSG stadium to address the  Indian- American community along with US President Donald Trump.

More than 50000 Indian Americans gathered there for this function .

I kind of liked the theme –   ” Shared Dreams Bright Futures “.     In life , we all should dream of success but we should also have in our heart our community where we live – to share our good fortune with them. That will invariably bring  bright future for our next generation.

 

 

This week – 1 (20 August 2019 )

To     ;—         deepem@googlegroups.com

The following was posted   for   information by e-mail to Deep River and Area East Indian Group on 20 August 2019.

A couple of heartwarming events happened this week.

1)   We had a wonderful picnic at Petawawa Point last Sunday on 18 August   .

Many of our East Indian group – from Deep River to Pembroke – participated in the picnic.

The weather God contibuted a very nice weather .

The organisers ( specially Usha & Subhash Sutradar   – a nice committed couple) did a wonderful job – had a picnic place laid out so well – all in shade but also open.

So much food – all testy yet nutritious .     Was pleased to see lots of kids – especially the young ones . All relaxed and playing freely around.

While picnic started at around 2.00 pm and finally ended after 7.00 pm – still bright sun around.

I am sure all enjoyed the camaraderie ,   chatter, and having fun and being outdoors in a sunny day.

Many thanks to all for being relaxed and contributing to food and camaraderie , and being generally with smile and cheers.   That is what life is about.

2)   Finally we all heaved a sigh this Tuesday 20 August   – when Indian scientists successfully maneuvered the   Chandrayaan-2 spacecraft into the lunar orbit.

India’s Chandrayaan-2 spacecraft entered lunar orbit on Tuesday   in a small but important step on its journey towards the moon.     Precisely at 9.02 a m Indian Time

Chandrayaan 2 lifted off on July 22, onboard Isro”™s most powerful launcher, the 640-tonne rocket Geosynchronous Satellite Launch Vehicle-Mark III (GSLV-Mk III), from the country”™s only launch site Satish Dhawan Space Centre.   The mission will send an orbiter, lander and rover to explore the moon’s south pole. Chandrayaan-2’s Vikram lander is expected to land around Sept. 6.

This is a moment of pride for all of us when we see the   scientists   in our ancestral home coming of age.

Indirectly , this has an impact on our lives here in Canada and elsewhere   – as Indians are contributing towards the future .

I am a Canadian but when I see a step forward in human progress – and more so by Indians – that gives me so much   happiness   and comfort.

regards

Letter to Editor – An Article titled ” Health of The Planet “

My article on the subject of Health of the Planet – published in the North Renfrew Times on Wedneday   24 July   2019

17 July 2019

Health of the planet

We are all concerned about the health of the planet.   We have a challenge to build a sustainable future .   I am glad that lately this   subject is touched upon in the North Renfrew Times .

It is nice to talk about the   health of the planet.   We should all be constantly focused on that.

Recently I wanted to buy a large balloon with “Happy Birthdays ” inscribed for my grandson’s birthday and also other balloon with his age inscribed .   All helium filled . This would make good colorful decoration   and ambience.

Believe it or not I got vetoed out for that . I was told that the grandson does not want balloons – as that would add to pollution .   Modern day balloons are made from materials such as rubber, latex, polychloroprene, or a nylon fabric .

Balloons are fun and make great decorations. But balloons can be a big problem when they are deliberately released into the environment. The litter is not only a blight on landscapes, waterways, trees and power lines, but balloons and balloon strings can entangle, choke or kill marine life and other animals.

That’s not to mention the wasteful use of helium, a non-renewable resource.

I am proud that my young grandkids are aware of the need for safeguarding the planet. They are the ones who will inherit the world.

When we talk about saving planet – we go on spending thousands of dollars on fireworks during Canada Day or other major festival events. This add pollution in the atmosphere   and we spend our tight tax dollars.

I think there is something morally wrong here.

What   astounds me most is the demoralizing story about how some Canadians have behaved wrongly over last few years – sending our garbage (& used plastic materials ) to other countries of this planet on false documentations (it seems). Canada is losing prestige and trust. This is not the way to improve the health of the planet.

Now we have such Canadian trash coming back from countries such as  Philippines, Cambodia, and Malaysia.

Research  ” on-line  ‘ will bring out the following stories reported in our various national newspapers .

  • Containers of Canadian trash that festered in the Philippines for years arrived back in Canada just in time when Canada was to celebrate the country’s 152nd birthday.

The arrival brings nearly to a close the nearly six-year long garbage saga that led to a

diplomatic dispute with the Philippines and drew attention to the growing global problem

of plastic waste.

  • 83 shipping containers of plastic garbage were discovered in the main Cambodian port of Sihanoukville, with what Cambodian media reports say were fake import documents labeling the containers as recyclables.

Cambodia says 11 containers of Canadian trash were among illegal garbage shipments.

  • Malaysian officials  opened a shipping container  filled with plastic bags from major Canadian chains, as well as product packaging stamped with “Made in Canada” labels from recognizable  brands.

Please note as far as I understand – Canadian officials have not yet explained how the garbage is leaving Canada without permits or what, if anything, can be done to halt the practice.

And we say for us the health of the planet is important   and we want to save planet – whose planet ?

Let us be not coy. Let us accept the reality that saving planet is not easy and every small step by individuals is worthy of admiration specially our children’s view is important .

Also   our honesty will win the day – and let us stop the practice of sending our trash to other countries of the world .

POEM – Sitara 12th Birthday

Poem for our granddaughter Sitara on her 12th Birthday on 05 August 2019.

Sitara —   mother   Nina (our daughter)   & Father Sunjay

Dearest Sitara!       05 August 2019   –  12th BIRTHDAY POEM

Hello Sitara – our angelic princess

your cool attitude

your responsible behaviour

your care for all of us

reflects your angelic heart

Hello Sitara – our angelic princess

your constant seeking of knowledge

your practical approach

your work habits

reflects your angelic heart

Hello Sitara – our angelic princess

your quiet manner

your reserved nature

your genuine sweet smile

reflects your angelic heart

Hello Sitara – our angelic princess

your varied sports activities

your art and craft pieces

your loving attitude

reflects your angelic heart

Hello Sitara – our angelic princess

You growing up fast, our teenager

Your   world   is   transforming

We love you sooooo much

Your angelic heart is our blessings

Hello Sitara – our angelic princess

Happy 12th Birthday to you, Sitara

You are incredibly perfect

We wish you the best

You are our angelic princess

nana / nani

Poem – Maya 8th Birthday

POEM penned by   her Bapuji ( paternal) grandpa on   Maya ‘s 8th Birthday   on 07 August 2019     Maya – our granddaughter.   Mother – Shannon ,   Dad   – Sunir (our son)

Hello Maya !       07 August 2019   –  08 th BIRTHDAY POEM

Sweet   Maya – our charming   angel

Your laughter echoes in our heart

Your charm wins our heart

you are sprite and bubbly

you bring sunshine in our life

 

Sweet   Maya – our charming   angel

Your art and paintings

Computer coding and crafts

You are active and bright

You bring sunshine in our life

Sweet   Maya – our charming   angel

Your keen   perception

Your social norms

your caring for Kieran and Priya

You bring sunshine in our life

Sweet   Maya – our charming   angel

Our caring angel so bright

Our princess is enchanting

We love you sooooo much

You bring sunshine in our life

Sweet   Maya – our charming   angel

Happy 8th Birthday to you, Maya

You are fantastic

We wish you the best

You are our blessing and make us proud

Sweet   Maya – our charming   angel

Ba/ Bapuji

 

 

FSNA advocacy – Database Spreadsheet listing local Service Providers

The following submission was made by me to the FSNA   (Federal Retirees Association) headoffice   during April 2019.   A   copy was   also sent to the Chair &   the Secretary of the local   FSNA Algonquin Valley Chapter .

Title:     Suggested Database Spreadsheet listing local Service Providers   for Senior Assistance /Support         – DRAFT

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22 April 2019

 

Hi   Jessica,

Suggested Database Spreadsheet listing local Service Providers   for Senior Assistance /Support         – DRAFT

 

Further to my e-mail of   16 April 2019 ,   please find below my ” outline ” thinking for    ” a Database for local service providers   ” for the use by the  prospective seniors 75 years or over —   living independently (single or couple) .   This would be more in line with provision of personal assistance/support .

The said Database can also be available for use by independently living   handicap individuals (or couples) of any age.

I am hoping that when using this Database for finding & using listed service providers,   the seniors will be financially supported by the Government (Federal or Provincial) either by tax rebate or direct reimbursement .

I am hoping that Federal Retirees Association (FSNA)   will support the suggested   concept – the details & format of which can be improved or modified . This sort of Database  provides dignity to Seniors   when they need assistance   and obtaining that without chasing help from neighbors or others.

Yes, we are Federal Retirees but   the concept would help all other retirees who sometimes are more financially challenged.

If FSNA support the concept —   I believe there is need for the following initiatives (which do encompass advocacy)   by (FSNA) .    

 

These are:

1)  Concept   Coordinator

 

There is need for a coordinator for such a task.  I  request that FSNA establish a central coordinator for helping to generate/develop such a Database and then once finalized – the coordinator can oversee launch and   monitor proper use of such a Database.

 

 

2)   Develop a format for the Database.

 

Note:   I am enclosing (with this e-mail) my DRAFT version of such a format for your perusal.   You may note I have identified and included in my DRAFT format few common items of needs for consideration. I I believe that these ” items of needs” are essential for daily living by independent seniors   or handicap individuals.       I think   keeping the database simple and readily useable is essential.

Note:   I have reviewed   your   suggested databases  in your e-mail of     16 April 2019   –     ” 211 Ontario is another database of community and health-based services https://211ontario.ca/ ”  and also   the Champlain Health Line online directory that lists local health and social support services that fall within the eastern Ontario region, including Pembroke https://www.champlainhealthline.ca/listServices.aspx?id=10883

I   find that these are more like   ” Telephone Directory ” for some specific Health related   areas – useful for   certain search needs but not useful at all for daily living needs.

 

3)   Field Coordinator.

 

Need for identifying and appointing a Field Coordinator for each   area in a Canadian  province   – for canvassing and surveying from the seniors their needs and then to identify service providers and the details pertaining to their operation.     Brainstorming and interfacing with Seniors would help   to identify “Items of needs ” and also some good Service Providers that some Seniors may have already have used

Note: A Field Coordinator   may be appointed by a   Government body   – if FSNA advocacy is successful in promoting the said Database concept to a Government body   (say Ministry of Seniors) .

Note:     I take liberty to state that the Field Coordinator may not need to canvass and survey the seniors’ needs as the list generated and provided by me , I believe , is quite comprehensive   and for a start is adequate.   A sample survey in any one or couple of localities would confirm   the ” items of needs” list.       And furthermore , the list can always be upgraded as and when new needs come forth and are identified.

The primary responsibility of   the Field Coordinator would be to identify as many as feasible prospective service   providers ( including contact & other relevant details ) for each of the listed needs. This may require advertising in the local newspapers or on – line social media for seeking out such help for the seniors.

The content of an advertisement will require a professional look see and wording for mobilizing                                         ” community   minded ”     service providers.

 

 

4)   Advocacy

There is definitely a need   for Advocacy initiative by FSNA   for promoting the concept  to the Government (Federal and/or Provincial)  for   the Government to take over the project and/or   providing some financial support.  I understand that the Canadians now have a Ministry of Seniors.

Note   FYI :   Please note I am not forwarding this memo to the Ministry of Seniors   or any other Government   or political   officials.

5) An app

To investigate and promote a development of an app   ( for use on a computer/tablet ) or easy access/use by the relevant seniors or   handicap persons.

I hope the above is useful .

My apologies for a bit long-winded memo.

 

regards

 

Sentiments expressed on Sunir’s birthday 01 June 2019

The following was sent by e-mail wishing Sunir Happy Birthday on 01 June 2019

Hi   son

Hey Sunir, you are our dream come true

Your subtle   smile captivates us

Your energy in life keeps us going in our   old age

Maya , Kieran & Priya add so much life to us

Shannon’s warmth enhances   our family

Happy Birthday to our son – most proud to have

We are blessed

Wishing you many more years full of love and happiness !!!

mom & dad

Sentiments expressed on Shannon’s birthday 23 May 2019

The following   was   expressed in an e-mail to Shannon on her birthday :

Hi Shannon

Your smile captivates us .

Your ready action-packed moments delights us

Your   laughter and fun mean so much to us

Maya , Kieran & Priya add so much life to us

Happy Birthday to the best daughter-in-law anyone could have.

We are blessed to have you in our family.

Wishing many more years full of love and happiness !!!

Ba and Bapuji

Poem – Sachin’s 9th Birthday -2018

Sachin’s 9th Birthday 20 July 2018

He has the style

He has the grip

His soccer his ice hockey

A playful young boy with a smile

He is only 9 years old boy

Plays Sudoku ,   Board games

Has keen interest for Pokémon icons

Sachin is adorable and loving

He has twinkle in his eyes

Sachin brings sunshine in our lives

Our grandson strong and kind

His chat, his words are uplifting

His manners, his delightful hugs

His happy dance moves

So joyful and heartwarming

Hey, Sachin – We wish you

a Very Happy Birthday

and many more to come

nana/nani