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Diwali Play I wrote & directed Jashoda Shah – 1987

The following play   I wrote for Diwali Program of   Deep River / Pembroke Area East Indian Community   – Saturday 24 October 1987.   The Play was called   ” Ram Recital ”

The Play   was created /written such that almost  all   kids (of the community )  can participate in the play.

The play had music , dances, drama and dialogues   as well as historical Ramayana Theme.

I recently found my hand written script   – and now I have type – written it for posterity .         Please note I have a video of the actual play – somewhere around the house.     Both my kids (Nina & Sunir)   participated in the play   along with other kids of the Esat Indian Community.

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The play

 

Deep River/ Pembroke Area – Diwali Program –   Saturday 24 October 1987

A   Play – playwright / written by Pravin Shah   &   conducted by Jackie Shah

Play title   :   RAM   RECITAL

Actors :   All children from the East Indian Community

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PROLOGUE

Stage : All actors on the stage .    See Sketch 1 for positions.

Curtain :  Opens

Narrator :       To celebrate victory of   ” good over evil ” .

The story of Rama and his victory   over forces of Ravana is depicted

in the drama played by our young people ,The drama is called

” Ram Recital ”

Ram   (echo ) Ram   Ram Ram

Distinguished brothers of Ancient times

Trail Blazers ! Path Finders !

Ram   Laxman   Bharat and Shatrughna

Raghuvanch   family of Ayodhhya

Holy Vibrant land of India

Ancient Rishies and Prayers

Ram   (echo ) Ram   Ram Ram

Banished Ram at shores of Ganges

Lovely Sita and Laxman at side

Brilliance of Yonder years

Forbearance of Vishnu and Brahma

Ram   Sita   and   Laxman   in forests

For   obedience   to father’s wishes

Bharat   anointed   King of   Ayodhhya

With   schemes of   mother   Kaiykai

Pioneering   Bharat   with   brotherly   love

Ultimately   to   rule for brotherly Ram

Lanka   the   pearl of   Indian   ocean

Lustful   powerful   King   Ravana

Sita   Royal   loyal   wife   of   Ram

Beautiful   Arya   Sita   abducted   by Ravana

Ram   Laxman   battle   against   wrong

Ravana   and   cronies slained

Rishies   Hanuman   and   all   peoples

Rejoice   honour   justice   and   peace

World   a   stage   full   of   right   and   wrong

Players   we   are !   with   Ram’s   teachings !

Ram  our  hero   saviour  of  honour

Instill  in  us  love   for   family and   justice

Curtain :    Closes

Act I

STAGE :     All actors move to New Positions   or out of stage

These remain on the stage :

Dasrath       <-     Body gurad

Qeens                         ( Kaiykai, Kausalya, & Sumitra)

Princes                     ( All   princes except   Bharat )

Bharat   goes to Kaiykai       ( off the stage)

Sita

Narrator :

King   Dasrath and Ayodhya kingdom   were   happy since the return of     Ram and Laxman   from their   service to Visvamitra  in his fight     against Demons       and     Rakhshsha.  Ram   was  married to Sita.

One day Dasrath thought he was growing old and he decided to hand   over the throne   to Rama and go to forest for prayers in the Hindu   tradition.

Act 1   is the scene of court when   Dasrath announces this decision.   At   this time Bharat  was away   from Kingdom to visit his mother’s   relatives in Kekaya.

 

CURTAIN :           Opens

Act 1 (contd)

 

Dasrath   :         I am pleased to be with my family.

My sons , my eyes are filled with   joy   to   see   you.

Bharat   is   away   but he is in my thoughts .

Sita is like my daughter.

Ram,   you are a good prince.   You are   helping   me   in the   Royal   duties very ably.

(   Ram   comes   forward   and   gives   his   greetings   by   bowing   )

Ram :           I am your son, a   Prince   of   Raghuvansh.

I am proud to be able to   carry   out   your   commands.   My   brothers   help   me always.

Dasrath :           That is good .   I   am   getting   old   and   I   want   to   spend   time   in   prayers.

And   so,   therefore   I   am announcing   and   it is   my wishes   and   command that   Ram takes over the Kingdom and   pronounced   as   the   King of Ayodhya.

The coronation will be tomorrow.

(   Ram   again comes   forward   and   bows   )

Ram :                       I am   duty bound   to   do   as you command . My brothers are with me.

(   Laxman   comes   forward   and   bows   )

Laxman   :           We   all   brothers   are   very   happy   and we   will   be   with   Ram   at   all   times .

CURTAIN :       Closes.

Act II

Stage :       All actors off   the   stage.

– Ras /   Garba / Dance   Group   come on   stage

Narrator:

With   the  announcement of   Rama’s   coronation , there   was   joy   and

dancing   in   the   street of   Ayodhya.

CURTAIN:               Opens

Ras   /   Graba / Dance

CURTAIN :               Closes   at   the   end   of       Ras   /   Graba / Dance

Act III

Stage:       All   dancers   etc.   off   the   stage

Kaiykai   in   disheveled   attire       lying   on   the   floor with her ornaments   on   the floor

Dasarath   enters   as curtain   opens

Narrator :

When   the   news   of   the   coronation   of   Rama   was   announced ,

Manthra – Kaiykai’s   personal   maid –  was agitated.   She  influenced   Kaiykai  badly and prompted  her to seek kingdom for her son Bharat   instead   of   Ram.

Kaiykai had  won  two  boons  from  King  Dasarath     earlier before by saving his life during a war with  Rakshasas.   Now   Kaiykai  asks  for fulfillment of  those   two boons.

Act III

CURTAIN :              Opens

Dasarath     enters

He   sees Kaiykai   – lying   on   the   floor   and   all   her   ornaments   on     the floor.

Dasarath :       What’s   the   matter       O,   my   Queen

Tell   me   who   has offended   you

Kaiykai   wails   and   beat   breasts   and   rolls

Dasarath :       My Queen,     please   tell   me.   I   swear   in the   name   of   my     beloved Rama,   I   will   do   anything   to restore   your   peace   of   mind.

Kaiykai :           Do   you   remember   two   boons   you   promised   me.

I   want to   ask   them   now.

Dasarath :           How   can   I   forget ?   You have my word.

You   may ask   for   them

Kaiykai :               Oh!   Indra, Oh!   Varuna.     He   has said   I   can   have   my   boons .

I  ask                                        

                                       One :    My  son  Bharat  shall  be  crowned  as  King

Two :      Ram   is   asked to  go  to Dandaka  Forest   for   14 years.

Dasarath     looked   thunderstruck ,   speechless   and   falls   on   ground .

Dasarath :       Oh! God, Oh! Visnu,       is this punishment   for what I did to Shravan   and to his parents when I was young  ?

I can live  without Kingdom , without  comfort   but   I   cannot   live     without Ram.   Oh !   my Ram.

Shravan , what   happened   when   I   was   young   was   an   accident,   a   mistake .

CURTAIN :                 Closes

Act IV

Stage :   Shravan   lies   near   river   with   arrow   in   his   heart

King   Dasarath (at   younger   age )

Shravan’s   blind parrents

Narrator:

When   Dasarath   was   a   young   prince   he   had   gone   out hunting   in     the   forest.   Dasarath   was   a   very   good   marksman.   From   far   he     heard   a   sound   that   of   an   elephant   drawing   water   through   his   trunk.   He ( Dasarath) shot an arrow assuming it was an elephant.

He   heard a human cry.   ‘ O Dear God ‘   and   found   Shravan   at   the   river bank – hit by his arrow

The   young   boy   was   on a pilgrimage   taking   his   blind   parents   to     various   places   that   they wanted   to   go . Shravan   was   respectful   to   his parents and carried them around .   At this time he had left his parents   to   a   secure   place   and  came to  the  river to  get water for them.

CURTAIN   :                     Opens.

Shravan :           Oh!   Dear   God .

Who   has   shot   this   arrow?

I   have   no   enemy !

Dasarath   heard   the   cry   and   trembled   with   an   unknown   fear

He   comes   to the river   and   looked   at   Shravan

He   became   speechless

Shravan   looks   at   Dasrath   and says:

O,   Why did   you   commit   this   sin?

Who   will   look   after   my   parents?

Dasarath :         I   am   very   sorry .   It   was   a   mistake.     Honest.

Shravan :             Go   to   my   parents .   Give   them   water.

Dasarath :       I   will .     I   am   so   sorry

Shravan :       And   beg   their   forgiveness .

Dasarath   takes water and goes to the blind parents

When the old couple heard the footsteps ,

Old Man :   Dear son , why   did   you take   long     ?

Old woman :   Were   you playing   in   the   water ?

Dasarath :       Holy   father,   Mother

Forgive me . I am not your son

But Dasarath

My arrow accidently hit your

son     and   killed   him

Old man, old woman   :       O, Shravan         O, Shravan

Dasarath :       He   asked   me   to   bring   this   water   to you

Please   forgive   me .   I am   at   your mercy.

Old man :       Your   sin   is   very   grave   indeed.

Old woman :   But   it   was   committed   unknowingly

Old man :       One   thing   is   certain   that   you   too  will   suffer     pangs   of   separation

from   your   beloved   son.

Old woman :     Our   curse   is   that   you   will   also die as we will die with   our son

CURTAIN :           Closes.

Act   V

Stage :                 Ravana   and   Army

Hanuman   and   Army

Sita

Ram   and   Laxman

Narrator   :

Ram went away to forests to keep his father’s word. Laxman and Sita joined him.

King  Dasarath  died  with the pain of separation from his   Ram.

Bharat comes back from Kekaya to find Ram, Laxman and Sita   gone to forest. He tries to get Ram   back but Ram fulfils his father’s   promise and stay in forest , Bharat runs kingdom on behalf of Ram.

Meanwhile in the  forest, Ravana , the King of Lanka kidnapped Sita     and asked her to marry him. Sita  refuges .   Ram went to defend   honour  and bring  Sita  back.

Hanuman  and his   army joins Ram in war against demon Ravana and   finally victory comes.

Act   V (Contd)

CURTAIN :               Opens

( Sita is   sitting   under   a tree guarded by Ravana’s army   )

Hanuman :        O, Ram we   are   with   you.

You   are   protector   of   all   good .

Ram :                    We   have   to defend   our   family, .

Our   nation and   honour .

We   will destroy the   Raksasa   and   evil force.

Your help is timely.

Ravana :             I   have   magic

I   have   heavenly   help.

I   am   invincible

Hanuman :       You   cannot   fight   with   Lord   of   the good .

War   starts

Rama   gives     a   blow   to   Ravana   and   he   dies

There   was   joy and happiness.

CURTAIN :             Closes.

Act   VI

Stage:                     All   actors   on   the stage

See   Sketch   2   for   positions

CURTAIN :             Opens

Narrator:

Ram   returns   to Ayodhya     after 14 years in   forests and   winning war   over   evil .

He   assumes   the   throne   from   Bharat

He   rules   his   kingdom   with   love,   justice   and care   for   common   people.

A   ” Ram Rajya ” followed   and everywhere   there   was   peace,

non-violence   and   respect for   each   other

CURTAN :   Opens

FINALE               —                   with   the   following   songs

1)         Violence   Violence   Go  away

2)               Raghupati   Raghav   Raja   Ram

(Audience   join   in   singing)

3)               Jana Mana   Adhi Nayak   – India’s national song.

(Audience   join   in   singing)

ALL     ACTORS   STAND     AND   CURTSY

play   finishes.

Building Bridges ( in the Indian Sub-continent)

I wrote this article as a response to one of the comments on our chat room ” namaskar” online   -where I posted it

26 December 2019

Building Bridges  

It is always nice to be positive .

With all   the discussions on the subject of   Citizen Amendment Bill in India   – a lot has been said and finally we are encouraged to   ”   In this SEASON OF GOODWILL, all our efforts need to be directed at UNITING and NOT DIVIDING   people.   Let us build bridges to unite peoples rather than barriers to divide them.”   by Mervyn Maciel in his post on “Namaskar”.

This is an exceptional thought .

However , being a Professional Civil Engineer and also having designed and built a few bridges , I can vouch that to build a good and safe bridge one needs good foundations at   each side and a bridge which is correctly designed and built . That need a lot of effort and   also various techniques / technology .

In my outlook,  for those of us who are of   Indian ancestry   , there are two main bridges which need to be built .

1) Between   Pakistan and India   and

2) between   the majority community (the Hindus) and minorities (mainly Muslims) in   India.

Note :   You will all agree that the issue of relation between a majority community and a minority is an   burning issue in all countries of the sub-continent but only in India -this is discussed freely as it is an open society and mature democracy   and   politics plays a part leading to  everyone getting on the bandwagon tooting his or her opinion with a clarion call.   No other country in the sub-continent   (including Pakistan) allows unbridled free expression .

Building bridges  

For the subcontinent the two shores   1) Pakistan and 2) India   are   ” seemingly ”   fractious and weak in their perception of reality – depending on from which side the problem is looked at.    So to build solid foundations  at each shore   — one requires  special preparations and  different approach . That requires special knowledge and experience of previously  built bridges elsewhere.

All other countries of the sub-continent   are small and remain aloof in helping to build the most important bridge  – that is the  friendship between these two big countries.

We need the Indian sub-continent   to move towards peace and prosperity .

 

 

 

 

  • There is a lot of history in the partition of India , before, during and after.   I cannot cover all – as it is the my   article (given below)   is long and thus I have not touched on nuclear weapons , Chinese assistance to Pakistan   for its nuclear and missile capabilities , and betrayal of Vajpayee   after his visit to Pakistan for peace ( remember the Kargil   invasion by Pakistan)   etc.     In India,   many riots resulting in many deaths .

We only hope that peace will happen and bridges will be built by overlooking the past and thinking of the future and progress of all the South Asian countries.   Some adjustments are needed and some patience is needed and  elimination of terrorism is   a must – willingly rather than by use of force.   Extremism in religious dogmas   in 21st Century is a pain in the rear end.

Now let us look at the ground reality – as I see it  .

Unfortunately , I am not an expert nor an academician to properly or correctly assess or talk about this reality.  What I have learnt is from many years of following events    and issues of the sub-continent .   Again   my understanding may be coloured or prejudiced   from my being a Jain/Hindu and a descendent of an Indian Kenyan – whose roots were removed from India almost a century ago.   Remember , In Kenya   – all Indians ( pre-partition) remained friendly and supportive of each other   without wearing their faith/religion   or caste on their sleeves.   Same is true for   those who migrated (away from East Africa)   subsequently to other countries   especially to western countries.

Right now , it appears that a possibility for building  a bridge between these two countries  is remote though not impossible .  They have gone a long way opposite from mutual trust and confidence in each other .

The India partition is the British Empire’s Child .

 

In my opinion , India should thank United Kingdom for its imperialistic move towards partition of its Indian domain.  At the time of independence , this was   not visible or perceived as most Indians ( mostly Hindus) were dreaming of   ” Akhand Bharat ” – their ancient country many millennium ago.  Akhand Bharat (or Akhand Hindustan) is an irredentist term meaning “Undivided India” .

 

However, after over   now more than 70 years of Independence , it is realized that if India had   remained undivided   territorially at independence , the whole country would have exploded     and splintered into many parts -as Muslim population would have numbered more than   35% of the total and they would have created a very chaotic mayhem –   aided by their Muslim brothers in Middle East and elsewhere .   Besides imperialistic   Britain would have dipped its fingers into the chaos and found a renewed footing in the sub-continent .    Complicating the situation , there would have been disputes galore between many   small   kingdoms ( headed by a   “raja ” or a “sheikh” )   and linguistically   different states   -all   pulling for their own selfish bonanza.

 

 

So in short , India should remain forever thankful  to Pakistan   for its creation – it took away the fundamentalist and arrogant Muslims away from India   and concentrated in a confined space which can   somehow be managed – at least that is the outcome most desired.   There were a sizeable Muslim population which remained in India at independence – which is believed   to  unfortunately   have not harmoniously assimilated in the Indian   ethos or nationalistic fervor and viewpoint.

With Pakistan moving towards radicalization from the very onset of partition   ( immediately after the death of Mr. Jinnah – their   independence leader )   and   its coveting desire for   annexing     Kashmir prematurely led to   wars with India.    Pakistan was under belief that Hindus are weak   – one Muslim is stronger than 12 Hindus – that was the idiom they had   proliferated .

 

Most in Pakistan were (and are even now) so radicalized that they did (do) not want to associate at all with India and looked to Arabs as their ancestors and dumped their Indian heritage – even though most of these have been converted from Hindus by coercion and by inflicting major torturous atrocities on Hindus by various Muslim invaders and their ilk .   Many Pakistanis have propagated   themselves   as descendent of these cruel   invaders .

That’s the rub – How can a bridge be built?

In Pakistan , History books were changed   since many years   to reflect this false narrative for young Pakistanis to   be completely removed from their association from India .

Further, Pakistanis were   also mesmerized by the call for Pakistanis to retake India from the weak Hindus The ambition was  to reestablish Muslim rule in India – similar to what was before during  Mughal  time.

India should thank Pakistan for this unfortunate/unusual   call   – as this probably  resulted in Sardar Vallbhabhai’s success in persuading almost every princely state to accede to India. Sardar Patel was  the first Deputy Prime Minister of India.    He led the task of forging a united India, successfully integrating into the newly independent nation those British colonial provinces that had been “allocated” to India. Besides those provinces that had been under direct British rule, approximately 565 self-governing princely states had been released from British suzerainty by the Indian Independence Act of 1947.

The state of Jammu and Kashmir, which had a predominantly Muslim population but a Hindu leader, shared borders with both India and West Pakistan. The argument over which nation would incorporate the state led to the first incursion by Pakistan forces into Kashmir which led to India-Pakistan War in 1947”“48.

Now most of the Indian forces were diverted   to Kashmir sphere –  with the backdrop of  India’s   foreign policy of non-alignment   along with effort to   develop friendship with China   and   the coinage of  “Hindi-Chini bhai bhai ” dictum.    However, China betrayed that dictum and attacked India in 1962 over border dispute and defeating India badly .

 

This encouraged Pakistan to start a war with India in 1965. The conflict began following Pakistan’s Operation Gibraltar, which was designed to infiltrate forces into Jammu and Kashmir to precipitate an insurgency against Indian rule.   No one won this war   but   with Line of   Control established dividing Kashmir into two parts.

All that pushed Nehru’s doctrine of peaceful   friendly relations with nations of the world out of the window.     So with Gandiji’s pacifist doctrine and Nehru naiveté –India was not prepared for wars and its army was ill-equipped. This all was finally dumped and India moved to   procure sophisticated   armaments and equipment including   air force planes.   Of Course America was NOT happy to help India and that led to India – Soviet Union   coming together on military supplies.   It must be realized that Gandhiji’s   constant  refrain in favour of Pakistan after the partition led eventually to his untimely and unfortunate   assassination by a Hindu zealot   in 1948.

Gandhiji ‘s motto always was to Hindu Muslim amity and he had integrated Alla in his prayers along with Jesus and Ram.     in !915 he started the India’s struggle for India’s independence with many twists and turns but always keeping  human dignity and love for all as  the pillar of his struggle,     Unfortunately, most Muslims of India ( and that include those in present day Pakistan & BanglaDesh ) never quite reciprocated his call for amity.  They used his humanity as   a joke   and played to have a separate   homeland and ridicule Hindus for their so-called weakness.     Gandhiji was  a non-violent & peace loving person   and not like Mao of China   or Stalin of Russia who knew who were their enemies and eliminated them . Gandhiji would go to any length to placate the Muslims so a united India can be had.   These people fooled him and also Nehru too.   So the partition .

After partition , the   Pakistan’s   political situation   was shaky and military government took over   . Pakistan has spent several decades under military rule (1958 ”“ 1971, 1977 ”“ 1988, 1999 ”“ 2008).

Gen. Ayub Khan     —     1958 – 1971

General Zia-ul-Haq —- 1977-1988

Gen. Pervez Musharraf   —- 1999-2008

During   Gen Ayub Khan’s time –     the Pakistani military junta based in West Pakistan launched Operation Searchlight against the people of East Pakistan on the night of 25 March 1971. It pursued the systematic elimination of nationalist Bengali civilians, students, intelligentsia, religious minorities and armed personnel.   A genocidal   attack on their own people !     Indian military intervened and   aided the Pakistani Bengalis   to fight the barbaric   attack on civilians.  The war ended on   16 December 1971 with some 91000 Pakistani soldiers s surrendering to the Indian military.  This was despite American siding with the genocidal regime in Pakistan .

East Pakistan separated from Pakistan and became a new nation – Bangladesh

This   resulted in   the destruction of   the notion perpetrated by Pakistan (and some Muslims in India)   that 1 (one) Muslim is stronger than 12 Hindus.   What a come down !     This humiliation of defeat and surrender of Pakistani   military personnel to the Indian military – is still a strong resenting issue within Pakistan.   India  should thank Pakistan for  this opportunity  to remove the myth in their collective narrative.

During General Zia-ul-Haq time –  the Russians took over Afghanistan (in 1979) and American wanted to remove them   – for this the radicalized Pakistan got an opportunity   to join the Americans .   The   Indians had proclaimed itself to be non-aligned at early years of independence   and Americans   took it wrongly and bracketed India with Russians.

For Americans   Pakistan was   a friendlier   country and an ally. This led to Pakistan   becoming stronger with infusion of latest American weapons and also training of Mujahideen fighters for Afghanistan.

Once the Russians   quit Afghanistan in 1989 , the Americans   left Pakistan in the lurch – with   thousands of Mujahideen fighters   left loose.   There was fundamentalist development   and Pakistan had many these Mujahideen fighters and Pakistan   took the opportunity to divert them to Kashmir and sent them as terrorists   to disrupt Indian rule in their part of Kashmir.    However, the Mujahideen fighters also   created havoc in Pakistan   with thousands killed within Pakistan – more than what they could inflict on India .       This situation In Pakistan was God sent to India   because it showed to the Indian Muslims   as to the real nature of Pakistanis and it was not worth siding with Pakistan – as the Muslims of India would not be spared from   abuse.   Already Pakistan under   General Zia-ul-Haq had declared Ahmadis as not Muslims and Mohajirs (Muslims from Indian   Bihar) settled in Pakistan Sindh province  were   being harassed and also the shias   in Pakistan were   killed many times by Mujahideen terrorists.

For some years after India’s independence, the Indian Muslims  acted like a 5th Column in India for Pakistan . They would cheer loudly Pakistan cricket teams against India , help in many terrorist activities that Pakistan perpetrated in India   and bullied Hindus whenever they desire . They   talk   with ” in your face ” attitude.   They carried on their shoulders – the glow of Mughal rule in India and look down on The Hindus.   They   missed the part that Hindus are the majority community in India and they are their neighbours   and for them to live peacefully it is in their interest to be friendly   with the neighbours – especially those who are in power   . In fact they went opposite for many years – deliberately rioting,   creating mayhem and killings of Hindus -all copy of what Pakistanis were encouraging.   However, slowly but definitely Hindus   started retaliating , and with Pakistan   itself in dire state it did not or could not provide any meaningful support to Indian Muslims .    So thanks to Pakistan for their inhuman behaviour   -which discouraged Indian Muslims to relay on these monsters.

If Muslims of India consider themselves as Indians than what is stopping them to be Indians. India is   free society. There are many political parties in India (including Congress) who are acquiescing to Muslims’   demand   for hajj Support, jobs , money for education,   Allowances for Imams etc. -all for getting their   democratic Votes      But what Muslims need is to be fair and go for equal demands for others apart for Muslims only and also fight for the Hindus   need.

They cannot be parochial and expect all to   look after Muslim interests   only . Why can a Muslim not stand up openly and say freely Jai Hind.   Why Can   a Muslim not stand up openly and say freely   that Kashmir belong to India . Why can an Indian Muslim not stand up openly and say that they are annoyed that Hindus from Kashmir have been thrown out by radical Muslims   (and terrorists from Pakistan) .   Why can a Indian Muslim   not stand up and recognize their largest neighbours  and their   traditions and culture — when living in India.   Why an Indian Muslim cannot be an Indian and a proud Indian   rather than looking at Pakistan   and   so called Umma?

The Muslins who got space in India should openly accept if not apologize for Muslim atrocities toward Hindus and Sikhs over millennia and  hope that the Hindus have already put   that behind them .

Muslims should note of the modern day revival of the Hindu culture and traditions with integrating with modern education and technology and be   proud of that development –   like they would be proud for the revival of their own   culture and traditions within the bound of Indian   diversity.

Hindus should follow their age old dictum of   ” tolerance” and acceptance of other cultures , of diversity and mosaic of India.   Inclusivity is the stepping   stone for  development   and   living in modern 21st Century.

Then  you will see   a bridge being established between the Hindus and Muslims .

And that would,  possibly ,   lead to a bridge being built between India and Pakistan .

And hopefully peace can shower on the Indian Sub-continent.

Family Christmas Celebration -2019

I penned the following article on Christmas celebration and have sent it to our local newspaper (North Renfrew Times) for publication – on 12 December 2019 . They may or may not publish. It is their xprerogative . However, as per every year , I will circulate and send by e-mail the article to my family members, friends , colleagues , contacts and social groups I am associated with.

12 December 2019

Family Christmas Celebration

Come November, cold season starts and mood changes for Christmas holidays.

One by one houses get lit by outside lights and strings of lights add festive mood to the populace. There is magic in the air.

At night the whole street becomes heavenly – sometimes with snow on the ground.

The Christmas holidays are secularized with decorated Christmas tree, artful display of lights and Santa Clause doing his Ho! Ho! Ho! Even those of us who are not Christians by faith are also celebrating Christmas with gusto. Christmas is celebrated around the world in many countries with or without large Christian population.

Kids are looking forward to have Santa Clause bring gifts for them and their friends – there would be laughter with caring and sharing. One need not be a Christian in partaking in the festivities. There is the underlying message of love, sacrifice and being compassionate for all when we celebrate the birth of Lord Jesus. These values are the foundation of caring and sharing society for peaceful and progressive existence.

For us, the family start xpreparing for visits and family get together. My son’s family phoned from Toronto early in November that they will be coming over to Deep River during Christmas. This is our family holiday tradition since many years. My daughter& family are nearby – thus we have a very nice get together. All grandchildren – 3 from Toronto and 2 nearby – have wonderful time. They are so loving and playful with each other – making grandparents very ecstatic.

The children love to see each other and spend the day playing games and sharing their new gifts and toys that Santa Claus brought for each of them.

We feel fortunate to have our family together during Christmas holidays.
Every year, we are fortunate to attend a Christmas Party at Ken and Leela Philipose”™home here in Deep River. This has become a cherished annual family holiday tradition within the local East Indian Community. Ken & Leela have been hosting this celebration of Christmas since long – since many years as I remember – more or less from the year we settled in Deep River in 1986.

Their Christmas Party is open to people of all faiths. The guests attend with gusto and excitement and join the hosts in carol singing, enjoying snacks and drinks and warmth of each other”™s company. There is much laughter and merriment during the Party.

I understand that both Ken and Leela are Saint Thomas Christians, also called Syrian Christians of India, who trace their origins to the evangelistic activity of Thomas the Apostle in the 1st century. According to history, Saint Thomas, one of the disciples of Christ, came the South Indian Kerala coast in in the 1st century. Kerala is known for their paddy fields, coconut trees, rivers, backwaters and houseboats. People of Kerala have a literacy rate, the highest in India.

As Deep Riverites for many years both Ken and Leela are socially active and have philanthropic hearts. Recently they contributed a large sum ($19,000.00) to our Hospital Foundation towards capital equipment purchase.

The main focus of Christmas celebration is the birth of Lord Jesus or Christ. We know that historically Jesus existed and the baby was born to change the world. The basic teaching of Christ is to love your Lord, your God with all thy strength, love your neighbor as thyself and be a peacemaker and pray for your enemies. He also teaches, what you do for the poorest of the poor, you have done for me.
I am not a Christian by faith and I do worship the Almighty under Hindu tradition – which encourages all to be a spiritual person and believe in a higher power. I pray that Christmas 2019 is observed by us keeping in mind the sacrifice and the most illuminating message of Hope that Lord Jesus has brought to the human kind. This will keep us from despair and encourage us for helping actions.

Let yearly Christmas celebration become a pointer to peace and a reminder that there is more to life than fights and arrogation of power and wealth. When we meet our family and friends (during Christmas holidays) let us seek forgiveness for any misdeeds done to them by us and forgive them for any perceived or real misdeeds done by them to us. This will be a gift par excellence!

Pass it on and see the magic!

My wife Jackie and I wish you all a very uplifting Christmas and a Happy New Year. Happy Holidays to all.

Zoey & Timmy – A wonderful 2013 Labour day Long Weekend with Zoey & Timmy

A wonderful   2013 Labour day Long Weekend with Zoey & Timmy

These are names of two pets – one a big dog with orange/white coat (Zoey) and another a beautiful furry black cat (Timmy).   These are pets of our neighbours     – a good patriotic family . The husband served in Afghanistan with the Canadian Army   with a dedication that is the mark of our Canadian Army personnel.

A loving family – who have a daughter who had to go to her university at Waterloo, Ontario during the Labour day long week-end.

So parents decided to drive her there and bring her comfort in settling down at her place in Waterloo.

The pets   were to be left home.   So to take care of them they approached us if we can look after them when they are away on the road – from Thursday to Sunday .   Of course we said yes . First because it is our nature to help others – specially our neighbours – if we can . Second this neighbour had always been helpful to us whenever we needed any help.

Only hitch to this plan was that in our 73 years of life on this earth – we had never had a pet nor we are familiar with dogs and cats – their habits and needs . To a certain extent, we are also a bit scared of dogs if not of cats. Complicating the situation is our fear of allergy   – specially from Cat’s hair .

But we (both my wife and I ) were proud to be asked – to take care of two pets – when the family was away.

The situation was exciting – as the trust shown by our neighbours in their pets to behave well when they were away – remember two diverse specimen of pets – one a dog and the other a cat – each to co-habit with another without trying to tear   each other out in the absence of their human masters. Also trust shown for their neighbours – us – not from the same cultural background and sufficiently senior in age to take care of their precious pets in their absence.

We duly said yes – our main task was to take the pets out each day in the morning for about 2 hours and in the evening also for about the same number of hours. Along with that , to check the fullness of feed dishes and water bowls .   A note (on a small white board)   in the neighbours living room mentioned that Zoey be offered doggy treat as thought necessary   (my words).

Well Thursday  (2013 August 29) – just after lunch or around that time – the neighbours were on the road taking their daughter for university life in Waterloo.

The main responsibility to check on the pets and bringing them outdoors fell on me while wife providing support (moral and otherwise) with great happiness and satisfaction in her heart.

Thursday 2013 August 29

Being a bit apprehensive as to how the pets will respond to me, on Thursday morning , I had gone over to neighbours (before their departure to Waterloo) to get proper instructions as what care needs to be looked after. At that time , I got the opportunity to pat Zoey and also to tickle the cat (Timmy) on his tummy – in that way both pets got to know my body smell and me .

I have not known Timmy (the cat) before -in fact did not know that the neighbours had a cat . I knew Zoey – the big amazing and sweet dog.   Mostly had communicated with him across the fence from our backyard .   I do not remember I had ever gone out and patted him – I may have earlier – over the last couple of years but I cannot recall such   connection.

4.15 pm   – went to the neighbours’   house   – from the backdoor ( crossing the porch) . The backyard is fully fenced   with automatic latch door .

Both pets were lazing around in the house – very peacefully – in the corridor behind the back door.

The evening – outdoors – was warm and somewhat humid.   The pets were just compliant – no whimper of protest or anything that can frighten me.

NOTE:   As a precaution, I did not wear my sandals but shoes – in case there was any untoward menace from the pets – especially from the dog.   Nada.

They were on their the best   behaviour and an example of friendliness between themselves and towards me.

I surveyed the food dishes and water bowls – they were still full – a little had been eaten as yet.

The pets   were let out in the backyard.  Timmy had to be lifted out   but Zoey did come out by himself – all proud and sure of himself.

In the backyard , they just lounged around – not much activity . I guess they were missing the family

I went back at 5.15 pm and   let them in the house – they were ready near the backdoor to get in.

Friday 2013 August 30

9.20 am – went in the morning to let both Zoey and Timmy out in the yard. I found both of them waiting inside near the back door – to come out in the yard. They came out on the porch very nicely. I went in the house to check on the food consumed . At that time I saw the note on the small white board against one wall of the living room – saying that Zoey can be given a treat during the day.

I searched for the doggie treat and found in the kitchen two bags – one for doggie Milk Bones and another   of Chicken strips   – suppose to help dogs for their joints etc.

When they were outdoors, Jackie had gone out in our yard to watch over the pets and at that time she found Zoey was having a pow-wow   (communication by barking ) with another dog in the park . He seems to be enjoying the experience.

I went back to neighbours at 11.20 am and let the pets in the house. They were both quite ready to get in the house – sitting on the porch near the back door waiting for me.

I gave Zoey his treats for the day .

During the afternoon the sky had become dark and there was some rain outburst but then there was a constant rain falling. So at 5.00 pm when I went to have the pets come outdoors – it was raining and neither Zoey nor Timmy wanted to come outdoors . I decided to let them remain indoor at that time.

I went back at 6.00 pm and at that time I stroke both Timmy and Zoey . Timmy just rolled over for me to stroke (tickle) him more on his belly .   At that time I also gave Zoey a few treats of Milk Bones and a couple of chicken strips.   They definitely wanted to remain indoor. So I let them as outdoor was wet .

Saturday   2013 August 31

8.30 am – went in the morning to let both Zoey and Timmy out in the yard. Zoey was ready waiting inside near the door – so I let him out. I could not see Timmy around . It took a few minutes to find him – he was well ensconced on the big bed – in the corner where two walls meet and close to the walls.

It took a while to coax him out – I had to carry him outdoors .

Cat food and water in the dish near the door ( to the living room) were finished and also over the drawer too. I filled those and at the same time I topped the dog food in the bowl near the fireplace.

At about 10.00 am Jackie went in our backyard to see that both pets are doing okay.   She found both of them quiet and lazing on the porch – seem to her that they were sort of sad – for I guess missing the their human family.

I went back at 10.30 am   let them in the house – they were ready near the backdoor to get in.

I went back at around 1.45 pm to let the pet out for the afternoon as we had to go out for a social in the evening   .

Zoey   was sprawled on his cushion in the bedroom and came out on calling but   Timmy was not found immediately.   I had to look around and almost got panicked where he had gone . I am sure he did not go in the basement as I had closed the door the previous day and he cannot go upstairs as all doors there were also closed too.   But in my third look around, I found Timmy perched so quietly over the sofa (along the window in the front of the living room) backstand.   So I had to coax him and carry Timmy outdoors to join Zoey there.

At about that time I saw some pet turd on the living room carpet . ( possibly due to rain – they did/could   not go outdoors on Friday evening)

Also   gave Zoey some treat outdoors   . The afternoon was pleasant – not much hot – a bit cloudy .

Brought them back indoor at about 4.15 pm . They were glad to come indoor . Again Zoey got some treat of Milk Bones and Chicken strips.

Also at that Time I removed the turd  from the carpet and a couple of other places in the corridor and flushed that in the toilet .

Sunday 2013 September 01

9.00 am – went in the morning to let both Zoey and Timmy out in the yard. I found both of them waiting inside near the back door – to come out in the yard.

Went back at 11.00 am and brought the pets indoors. Patted and stroked them . Timmy liked that .

Also gave Zoey his treat   – all the last remaining Milk Bone and Chicken strips

Said adieus to the most lovely pets   – now they wait inside for their human family to return back from Waterloo.

At 3.00 pm I phoned (from Petawawa – where we had gone to attend the FSNA picnic) the neighbours on their home phone –   they were back from Waterloo at about 1.30 pm and glad to be united with their pets   after a sojourn/separation   of   about 3 days .

Conclusion:

This had been a wonderful experience and an excellent learning about pets and the joy one derives from   having them.   All our 73 years of age -we never had pets and never before baby sat or looked after any pets but these two (Zoey and Timmy – a dog and cat) showed how living beings can live together   and enjoy each other.  

I appreciate this opportunity which came suddenly and we took the assignment with open hearts and without any fear – though we were not sure how the pets will take us – but they were magnificent and obedient and showed no displeasure being looked after by me directly and Jackie otherwise.

 

 

Another Opportunity to look after Zoey & Timmy

Note: after the neighbours return home on Sunday 2013 September   01- next day they were at our home to thanks us – at that time they were given a copy of his article.

On subsequent day, they mentioned that they liked the article   except that they were the ones who kept the basement door open – for Timmy’s litter box was in basement.

Becoming the pets’ grandparents.

Thursday 2013 September 12 – the neighbour came over to our home – he wanted us to look after the dog & cat ( Zoey & Timmy) during the upcoming week- end   as they were going to Brockville .

So it fell on me to bring Zoey & Timmy out of the house on Saturday   2013 September 14 and see that they are well fed etc.

Saturday   2013 September 14   — Went at 4.30 pm to let the pets out. Timmy was snuggled up on the main bed &   Zoey was lying down in the vestibule at the front door.   Zoey was enticed out with a show of a couple of treats   (both given outdoors) and Timmy had to lifted out. Also gave Timmy the cat’s treat to munch (outdoors).

It was sunny and bright outdoors at 4.30 pm.

Brought them back inside at about 5.45 pm – it   was still bright and somewhat sunny.   Both Zoey & Timmy were lying quietly on the back porch. A dog and a cat – so peaceful and acceptance of each other –   as companions.

I am sure they are missing     the human parents -who have gone off to Brockville for a night.

I gave each one   their treat when indoors.   Zoey got two types and Timmy one type

This time there was no light left on in the bathroom but only one in the kitchen   ( wall light).
Sunday 2013 September 15

Brought the pets out at 9.20 am – a dull morning .

Also left some treats for them on the back porch.

Went at 12.00 noon – to bring them back into the house.   Both of them were lying and waiting near the back door to get in.     Both of them are so docile and seemed well trained. No whimper or a sound !!.

Inside, I gave each one a   treat , filled the tray (near the door to the Living room) with cat food and topped off the water.

Our Canadian Diversity – Diwali celebration

This article was published in our local Newspaper North Renfrew Times (   a bit edited   to shorten it ) on Wednesady 13 November 2019

3 November 2019

Our Canadian Diversity   – Diwali celebration

The Lions Hall in Chalk River   was buzzing with excitement as more than 200 people, in festive mood,  gathered there   on the evening of   Saturday   2nd November 2019   to celebrate the annual Diwali festival.

The event was organized by the East Indian Community of the Renfrew   County . Many participants came in wonderful  traditional dresses which added color to the event.   It was very heartening that many friends (belonging to different cultures ) also joined in the celebration.   India is a land of diversity   – which is  complementary   to our Canadian society with multi-cultural ethos.

The evening reverberated with cultural entertainment program   lasting for just a little less than two hours.   There were stage dances ,   songs and instrument playing adding to the festivities.     The Indian classical ” Bharat Natyam   ” dance amongst others  was   cheered   and applauded by all .  Young as well as high school kids along with adults (both male and female)   performed   variety   of    musical and dance performances .   The talent of   budding performers was very visible.   That cheered the participants –   and the time just flew by.

After the entertainment program   all   settled down to enjoy the delicious and tasteful   catered Indian food  –   with a number of   traditional choices .    It must be noted that at an Indian / Hindu festival /event – food is always   vegetarian as many in India do not consume meat and when it is devoted to any deity the non-vegetarian food is a no no   – because many Indians do consider all living beings as sacred .

Once coffee/tea and dessert was consumed ,  the participants relaxed, intermingled   and chatted with each other.   In fact they did the intermingling and chatting even before the entertainment program started .    They wished each other Happy Diwali .

This year Diwali,  in fact,  was on Sunday October 27

The finale of the evening started after the meal /dinner , that was when the floor was open for anyone who wants to dance to the rhythmic beats streamed out by the DJ.     Some of recent  Bollywood   as well as Bhangra   tunes   were offered . The floor was thronged by young and old -all freely dancing with so much fun and tempo.   The program started closing down slowly but definitely at about 10.00 pm.  and one by one families started   to return to quiet of their homes

I am sure all celebrated the evening’s Diwali festival with gusto and reverence in heart.

Coming back to Diwali festival – this is celebrated in India since many millennia .

Diwali, the “festival of lights” is the most important festival for Hindus around the globe.

At the present time , it is said that the Diwali is a Hindu festival. However for millennia there was no religion called Hindu religion in India . It was an open society in ancient India   and people were free to debate and decide as to how to further their spiritual beliefs. The free debate and discussions were encouraged,

This then have generated into an amalgam of religious beliefs   – what is in present day known as       Hinduism . Hinduism is unique in that it”™s not a single religion but a compilation of many traditions and philosophies.

The word Hindu or Indu was used by Greeks to denote the country and people living beyond the Indus river. By the 13th century, the word Hindustan began to be used as a popular alternative name for India, meaning the “land of Hindus“.   Eventually, any person of Indian origin who did not practice Abrahamic religions came to be known as a Hindu, thereby encompassing a wide   range of religious beliefs and practices.

The most prominent legend attached to Diwali is that of Lord Rama.  Based on the holy epic Ramayana, the first Diwali was celebrated by the people of Ayodhya to welcome their beloved prince back to his kingdom.

The Ramayana is an ancient Indian epic, composed sometime in the 5th century BCE, about the exile and then return of Rama, prince of Ayodhya;

Lord Rama was a great warrior King who was exiled by his father Dashratha, the King of Ayodhya, along with his wife Sita and his younger brother Lakshman. Lord Rama returned to his Kingdom Ayodhya after 14 years of exile, in which he put an end to the demon Ravana of Lanka.

After this victory of Good over Evil, Rama returned to Ayodhya. In Ayodhya, the people welcomed them by lighting rows of clay lamps  ( ” diyas “)   – when the oil is burnt by the wick .

Over the millennia , the deeper meaning and lessons from Diwali celebration is inferred by the religious leaders   and the public.  Diwali is celebrated for the victory of Good over Evil .

It shows and guides all of us that   good deeds are important and necessary for progress and peace in life.   It is better to be productive and contributory towards progress and   well being of the family, friends and society in general . It is sort of bad and bordering on evil to be disruptive   and vindictive.

This is similar to Christmas. We celebrate the birth of Lord Jesus when celebrating Christmas but the underlying deeper meaning that we celebrate is that God Almighty cares for us and He even would send his only son to earth for our salvation. Christmas teaches us to be sharing and caring.

The   lighting of the ” diyas ” when celebrating Diwali signifies that one needs to get rid of the selfish and materialistic thoughts which frees one from all forms of sadness   and grief.

Diyas” symbolize goodness and purity, and lighting them denotes dispelling darkness and going into light.

Hindus believe that placing a   ‘”diya ” generates positive energy into the environment. The energy generated gives a positive effect on all the living organism. It leads to a spiritual path and provides serenity of mind and soul.

I believe , lighting a candle in a church provides similar serenity of mind and soul. The candle symbolizes light in the darkness of life especially individual life,    Candle light often evokes the warmth of home and family.

As I understand , Hinduism is the world”™s oldest religion, according to many scholars, with roots and customs dating back more than 4,000 years. Today, with about 900 million followers, Hinduism is the third-largest religion behind Christianity and Islam.   Roughly 95 percent of the world”™s Hindus live in India. Because the religion has no specific founder, it”™s difficult to trace its origins and history. Hinduism is unique in that it”™s not a single religion but a compilation of many traditions and philosophies.

So I wish all a Happy Diwali and wish/pray for   spirit of brotherhood and peace.

This Week – 2 (01 October 2019)

The following   was sent for information to Deep River & Area East Indian Group   on                               01 October 2019.

deepem@googlegroups.com

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This Week

1)   The 9-day Navratri festival starts on Sunday 29th September to Monday 7th October .

The  ”  navratri ” festival  started with a bang here in the Renfrew County East Indian Community  – with a  get -together for Garba night at the Lions Hall in Petawawa on Saturday 28th September 2019.   Many people attended the function – all attired in fancy dresses and smile on the face.   There were many young ones in the crowd -all having a jolly time.

The organizers worked   hard and very professionally – preparing a good meal as well as having appropriate music to go with  the Garba dancing . One can feel the vibrations and excitement of all those who participated in the Garba.       Many Thanks.

Navratri is a major festival  in Hinduism held in honour of the divine feminine.

Navratri is dedicated to all the nine forms of Goddess Durga.

Navratri festival  often ends with the Dussehra (also called Vijayadashami) celebration on the 10th day.

For more information about what 9 colours people wear  during   9 days of Festival

See Link:   https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/navratri-9-colours-for-9-days-and-their-importance-2110182

Title :-  Navratri: 9 Colours You Should Wear During 9 Days Of Festival

2)  On Wednesday 02 October 2019 is Mahatma Gandhi’s birthday anniversary.

Mahatma Gandhi’s birthday (Gandhi Jayanti or Mahatma Gandhi Jayanti) is a gazetted holiday in India on October 2 each year. It marks the anniversary of Mahatma Gandhi’s birth on October 2, 1869.

For us who are residing overseas – this anniversary is very important as it reminds us of our Indian values in life about peaceful and constructive role   we should play wherever we reside – and community participation for everyone’s benefit is critical to propagate equality and respect for each other.

We should also remember Mahatma Gandhi’s teachings which influenced many people around the world  — such as Martin Luther King Jr. in USA and  Nelson Mandela in South Africa in their peaceful and non-violent struggle against racial injustices and colonial domination.

3) Last week we show a wonderful  “Howdy Modi ” spectacle in Houston USA.

Prime Minister Narendra Modi of India was accorded a rousing welcome on

Sunday September 22 , 2019   when he arrived at the crowded NSG stadium to address the  Indian- American community along with US President Donald Trump.

More than 50000 Indian Americans gathered there for this function .

I kind of liked the theme –   ” Shared Dreams Bright Futures “.     In life , we all should dream of success but we should also have in our heart our community where we live – to share our good fortune with them. That will invariably bring  bright future for our next generation.

 

 

This week – 1 (20 August 2019 )

To     ;—         deepem@googlegroups.com

The following was posted   for   information by e-mail to Deep River and Area East Indian Group on 20 August 2019.

A couple of heartwarming events happened this week.

1)   We had a wonderful picnic at Petawawa Point last Sunday on 18 August   .

Many of our East Indian group – from Deep River to Pembroke – participated in the picnic.

The weather God contibuted a very nice weather .

The organisers ( specially Usha & Subhash Sutradar   – a nice committed couple) did a wonderful job – had a picnic place laid out so well – all in shade but also open.

So much food – all testy yet nutritious .     Was pleased to see lots of kids – especially the young ones . All relaxed and playing freely around.

While picnic started at around 2.00 pm and finally ended after 7.00 pm – still bright sun around.

I am sure all enjoyed the camaraderie ,   chatter, and having fun and being outdoors in a sunny day.

Many thanks to all for being relaxed and contributing to food and camaraderie , and being generally with smile and cheers.   That is what life is about.

2)   Finally we all heaved a sigh this Tuesday 20 August   – when Indian scientists successfully maneuvered the   Chandrayaan-2 spacecraft into the lunar orbit.

India’s Chandrayaan-2 spacecraft entered lunar orbit on Tuesday   in a small but important step on its journey towards the moon.     Precisely at 9.02 a m Indian Time

Chandrayaan 2 lifted off on July 22, onboard Isro”™s most powerful launcher, the 640-tonne rocket Geosynchronous Satellite Launch Vehicle-Mark III (GSLV-Mk III), from the country”™s only launch site Satish Dhawan Space Centre.   The mission will send an orbiter, lander and rover to explore the moon’s south pole. Chandrayaan-2’s Vikram lander is expected to land around Sept. 6.

This is a moment of pride for all of us when we see the   scientists   in our ancestral home coming of age.

Indirectly , this has an impact on our lives here in Canada and elsewhere   – as Indians are contributing towards the future .

I am a Canadian but when I see a step forward in human progress – and more so by Indians – that gives me so much   happiness   and comfort.

regards

RTC Reunion Gathering in Trinidad & Tobago (Trini) – 12 January to 21 January 2019

We   recently had a Royal Technical College   (Nairobi) reunion in Trinidad & Tobago – between 12 January and 21 January 2019.     The primary co-ordinator was Arun Buch ( curently 77 years old) – who lives in Trinidad and has a Civil Consultancy firm in Port of Spain.   He was assisted by Bhaskar Patel   (who lives in London, U.K), Vish Vaidya (who lives in Toronto, Canada) and others but also by his office staff.

Lots of photos were taken   by many and some were uploaded on-line by Amin Pattani .   The uploaded photos can be found   at LINK:

The link to the photos is: http://tinyurl.com/RTC-Reunion-2019

Recently I wrote a dissertation   on   the memories of the trip.

This is what I wrote to all participants of the Reunion -while enclosing my dissertation .

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As time passes and we get busy with our own families and grandchildren along with local colleagues and friends, the   RTC Reunion in Trinidad and Tobago will start taking back stage.

Further as we are aging over the years the memories will fade . So   these photos ( put on line )   by Amin become precious for jogging our memories whenever a need arises.

Many thanks   to Amin and also to our many photographers for such a wonderful job.

Recently my wife Jackie and I went through the whole album and enjoyed the happy memories of good times that we had in Trini.

I have written a short ( or long) dissertation about the wonderful memories of Trini and the good thoughts that go through my mind.

I would like to share that with you all and hopefully you will like it.

Please find it attached FYI.

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Dissertation :

RTC   Reunion Gathering in Trinidad & Tobago (Trini)  Photos/Videos

– 12 January to 21 January 2019

Thanks for all the photos and videos from Trinidad & Tobago RTC Reunion gathering.

What Giovanna, Vish, Ed, Pramod, Pam, Naseem , Amin and others accomplished in recording events by way of   photos & videos is very touching and useful.   Thanks guys . These supplement our own personal photos/videos for the good memories.

The photos/videos provide means for enhancing our memories of good times that we have had together in Trini.    Memories fade as time passes or as we grow older but these photos/videos help to revive these memories.

Recently my wife Jackie and I spent a good hour going through the photos and videos – which kind of led me to think of many happenings for which we do not have real photos/videos – though these happenings are etched in our hearts.

While photos are ideal – they really are an assist to our own personal memories embedded within our own hearts.   The photos and videos embedded within our heart will always be with   us – no matter where we go or what our condition may be.

There are also some actual mementos that we received/got while in Trini – which also provide another prop for remembering our exhilarating visit.

 

These mementos can be listed   as below:

a)   A nice well designed Calendar to commemorate our visit   – with birthday of each participant shown at specific date on the calendar.   So much foresight and work has gone into producing this . Kudos to the smart team.

b) A T-shirt   –   with enchanting Bollywood singsong line . The most male colleagues wore this, with    pride, at one time or another   when visiting places in Trini.

c) A shawl and a scarf (with wild life depicted on it ).  All useful for daily use in our lives.  A   mental video  —   of these being distributed by Bhaskar and Vidula on the first evening on the Hotel Hilton terrace —   is still playing in my heart.

Note: Unfortunately we do not have for future memory any photos/videos showing these mementos.

Memories in my heart

I will give a few example of such wonderful memories in my heart – I am sure each one has his/her own.

1) We were pleasantly surprised for various types   of Indian snacks  which got distributed with love on ferry, at airport or beaches etc.    Vidula, Bhaskar and others – I believe all of them from UK – magically conjure up these goodies at all times – especially when we needed something to bite on.   What a pleasant surprise at all times.

2) Our Colleagues working hard to make all events wonderful. One can see Ed or Vish or others carrying rucksack   stuffed with mike equipment and also lap top computers etc with them wherever we went . And with a smile.

3) Professorial Bus Driver – who gave us very nice account of Trinidad  & Tobago  and fielded questions so easily and well responded.

4)  I was really impressed with the pleasant park lady officer at the Pigeon Point Heritage Park — who when discovered that Arun is a local and senior   — smilingly refunded money to Arun for entry to the beach – without being asked.   What honesty!

5) The walking back to Hilton Hotel from Thai Restaurant.   Late   at night.   It was so invigorating – and we found that it was not so far – Vish knowing the short route.

6)  Oh! the clear sky full of stars and moon – we can see the twinkling stars without having to pull our hoods to protect ourselves from environment.   Such rarity in our lives these days – specially living in cold country Canada .

7) Our conversations with each other – the exchange of life experiences and other warm stories .

Arun Buch with his heartwarming stories of how he had met three (3) great men of the era -Mahatma Gandhi, Mandela and Dalai Lama at different stages of his growth.

8) Late night group gatherings and chit chat with jokes and laughter.

9)    ” My God is awesome ” – an inscription on one of our buses.  So spiritual !   I hope you guys had noticed that.

10)   Fabulous breakfast at both hotels. The omelet chef(s) – so friendly and always with a   smile.

11) For us – that is my wife who is allergic to milk products – we found at both hotels – they had alternative   most times. That was very satisfying to us as it took away our concern .

12)   What we saw and observed – freedom. Men & women together & equal working for the good of the country.

13) Lack of people on both the islands ( Trinidad & Tobago).

14) When we arrived at Piarco Airport (Port of Spain)  on 12 January at 3.30 pm – busses were there to pick us up with Arun & Bhaskar also there. So much care . Promptness was seen all the time .

15) Excellent quality tap water , clean washroom facilities and general cleanliness   – what a pleasant relaxed environment.

16)   We travelled by Caribbean Airlines from Toronto – excellent service – Wheel chair support with smile and added care & concern.

17) Associated with T & T gathering – is the 6 hr drive to Toronto – January cold cold winter weather   & again driving back to Deep River (6 hours) – all during winter time. Luckily for me – the weather both times was somewhat  conducive   – did not have any storm or heavy now fall . What a break! This driving will always remain the high point – for making the trip successful.

18)  Charity – Thanks to Arun Buch & team – for juggling up some spare cash for donating to a Charity in Trinidad.     What a majestic and   satisfying  end.

 

 

Diwali 2018 – Renfrew County

The following is the little note   i wrote and circulated to all members of the Renfrew County Indian Community via deepem@googlegroups.com .

Dear friends ,

Diwali 2018 – Renfrew County

The auspicious Diwali party time arrived with a bang on Saturday 03 November 2018.

The Lions Hall in Chalk River was abuzz with laughter, hugs and shakes of hands between friends and also with strangers (most of who have recently arrived and settled down in Renfrew County).

The old mix of professionals have now transformed into mix of professionals and business community members. What a change we have seen in recent years !  We have now seen rejuvenation of the community with young families and many kids amongst us.   This brings excitement and energetic participation in the entertainment programs .

I was also pleasantly surprised to see many non-Indian friends of our community members joining us in this festival of Lights – celebrating  victory of good over evil.  We enjoy freedom, openness and dignity which behooves us to care for our friends and neighbors  and respect for others’ culture and traditions.  It is the premise on which our community survives.  In this country (where we have settled ) there is much camaraderie and equality and it is important that we respect these virtues .   Let us  welcome participation of many of our friends from the larger Canadian Society.

I being a senior and inching towards the ultimate goal , I found the cheers and just playfulness of many of our youngsters – from babies to teenagers to young adults in our Indian garbs at the Diwali party – to be  very enervating . The dances (individual and group) were varied from young kids to adults.  The dances really brought to the fore our cultural diversity with harmonious interplay. This enjoyment of our heritage  brings delight to my old soul and it definitely identified the colorful garden that is the Canadian society of which we have become one type of flowers amongst many others.  May we spread a scent so pleasing to all and sundry in our society.

What is heart pleasing is the selfless effort by many of our volunteers who devoted time and effort to make this party to become a successful and memorable event. Without these volunteers, the function could not have occurred . So I would like to congratulate all the volunteers for their devotion.   I am rather leaving out names as there are many of you who volunteered cheerfully.

However I would be remiss not to mention and thank my dear friend Ken Philipose and his wife Leela – who have taken initiative not only this year but also previous years to provide impetus and leadership to keep this cultural activity alive amongst our community in Renfrew County. This adds a flavour to ” Unity In Diversity”   in the society.  I am sure , hopefully others are stepping in the responsibility.

Happy Diwali to all and my wife Jackie Shah and I wish you all a very successful New Year . We  pray for the immense growth and progress of our community as part of the larger Canadian Community.

Pravin Shah

Sikh Issues – my perspective

I wrote this article – completing on 16 March 2018 . This is in response to recent trip to India by our Canadian Prime Minister Trudeau and family – which resulted in discussion of Sikh issues in India and Canada.

I presume that the article is self-explanatory.

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16 March 2018

Sikh Issues – my perspective

I   believe if we think coolly and   a bit carefully   about the Sikh issues I guess we   can discern the development of a community – over decades – the Sikhs   were spoilt by all Indians  with overarching admiration and attention.

If we go and sit back and recall in our own   life   experiences ( when we interfaced with many of our Sikh friends and colleagues )   each one of us had   a great admiration for these Sikh colleagues for their wit, humour and sacrifice for their friends and community around   – and this admiration was expressed volubly by many to their face.   This attitude by many of us spoilt some of these Sikhs – and then politically minded section used that to demand our attention/admiration/ along with   various bounties as an entitlement . One of my Sikh friends told me once that in India – many of these Sikhs when travelling on Indian trains would obtain a seat   (as you know in India for a long time travelling by train in India was a   challenge for seats and other amenities) forcefully by bullying especially the Hindus .   This is a small example as to how the Sikhs had stranglehold on Indian   polity and social life   which was prevalent in India – with the background of genuine admiration for the Sikh community as a whole.

Then came Jarnail Singh Bhindranwale in the 80s . In 1982 – he started a   movement   with an excuse for a larger share of irrigation water and the return of Chandigarh to Punjab – a very legitimate demand but such demand was pushed by use of arms and force.   A genuine demand turned into – my way or   I will take it by force. He and his armed men occupied the Golden Temple – for blackmail and threat to Indian Government’s responsibility. The rest is history .   It was clear that he was not supported by most of the Sikh population   – specially for his use of force.

Prime Minister Indira   Gandhi was assassinated by her two body   guards . This goes against the very Sikh (and Indian) values .  A person   (specially a guard) does not use violence against one’s own employer who puts  his/her faith in that person to safeguard him/her.   Besides a valourous  person (specially Sikhs) will never use sneaky violence against a woman. These Sikh bodyguards discarded their honour/principle which was maintained/nurtured   for   centuries fighting Moguls and Muslims.

The morals lost   forever within the Sikh Community .

The effect of this   departure from this principled norm can be seen and experienced many times since this incident. One hear about some Sikhs using violence within the Gurudwaras, against their wives and even against their own mothers. You just have to keep your eyes/ears open and listen to news for incidents like this.   The Sikh culture has been somewhat compromised and anything goes is becoming a new norm   for some of these Sikhs.

Fortunately most Sikhs are upright people and they are not contaminated by such behaviour

Prime Minister Indira Gandhi was a very respected/revered prime minister of India   for taking Pakistan head-on and helping East Pakistan to separate and become an independent nation ( BanglaDesh )   She also stood up against the mayhem created by   Bhindranwale in Punjab.   Her  assassination resulted in a spontaneous backlash   (as claimed by some in India). Throngs of masses ran rampage killing many Sikhs in New Delhi  – even their neighbors   and colleagues.  This also spread in some other parts of India .   It seems some people found an excuse and took advantage for personal gains or revenge.   This spontaneity is not   recognized/acknowledged  by many disgruntled Sikhs and specially those who lost   their loved ones .

Also lack of   speedy corrective action (     or perceived slow action ) by the authorities led to charge (by some Sikhs and Human Rights activists) of    deliberate vengeance style killing of many innocent Sikhs . This is the root of continuing simmering feeling of gross injustice to the Sikhs.   It is terrible and hurting if one feels betrayed by their own   Government   and friends and neighbors .  Even after so many years (some 30 years plus ) no   acceptable action to bring the perpetrators ( or their perceived leaders) to justice by   Authorities  is noted.

So the aftermath of this mass killing   (and resulting frustration in Sikh Community) was felt in Canada when an Air India Flight 182 was sabotaged (with a bomb ).   The Flight ( Emperor Kanishka ) operating on the Toronto-Montreal-London-Delhi was destroyed by a bomb at an altitude of 31,000 feet (9,400  m)   on 23 June 1985,. It crashed into the Atlantic Ocean while in Irish airspace. A total of 329 people were killed, including 268 Canadian citizens, 27 British citizens and 24 Indian citizens.   Most Canadian citizens were of Indian origin   – who were initially referred to as Indian citizens by the then Canadian Government .

One of my friends lost his whole family – very talented family . I was shocked -so were many others . We were also   shocked that the Canadian Government has missed identifying these as Canadian Citizens . Fortunately I was the President of Jain Society (in Toronto   at that time) and I got an opportunity (along with others) to be interviewed by the CBC radio.   I brought this anomaly in identifying the lost persons as Indian Citizens (instead of them being Canadian Citizens) by the then Canadian Prime Minister and my speech remained/repeated   on CBC radio   for at least a couple of days.   This anomaly was finally corrected by the Canadian Government . I am glad for my small contribution to the conversation at that time.

What bugs me most that the RCMP and other Canadian Government Authorities seem to have botched the investigations, trial and punishment of the Sikh terrorists   who planned blowing up a plane.   It seems that there was some cover-up  and softness towards the perpetrators.     At that time, most western Governments were not in favour of India (as it was   wrongly considered pro-Russia – India just being non-aligned ) and Pakistan’s star was high above.   Any mischief to India was sort of acceptable – specially by Britain and USA and thus it includes Canada.

In the mean time the Sikh Community has built itself in Canada numerically, economically and in recent years politically.   Some of these Sikhs (the pro-Khalistan activists) have   remained aloof from normal Indian socials and advancement . They celebrate their Diwali at the Canadian Parliament Building as a separate event . They join by in mass numbers the main political parties of Canada and thus influence the election of political leaders . They also   contribute money liberally for campaigning elections .   In British Columbia and Brampton (Toronto, Ontario) , they have numbers for putting forward political candidates besides supporting other Canadian candidates.

Some of these people are committed and dedicated to developing their own history separate from India history . It is fortunate that most Sikhs in India (as well as in Diaspora)   do not subscribe to this fallacy. All these parades and glorifying known terrorists and killers in Canada is having   a mixed reaction. Only now after recent trip by Prime Minster Trudeau visit to India , the local Canadians and the political class is   recognizing   the danger in supporting such parades and dialogues.   It also   works against Canada’s interest now that India is becoming economically sound and a major developing country with about   3 trillion dollar economy.  Hopefully, the 1984 episode is resolved properly in India   and justice is delivered.   Besides Sikhs here in Canada cannot forever be embroiled themselves in issues in India – that is if Sikhs want to become   real Canadians and participate in the  Governments as political leaders.

For positive outcome ,   the Sikhs should concentrate in the well-being of Canada , all its citizens   and cannot harbour silent animosity towards innocent   Indians either in Canada or India or for that matter anywhere in the world.   Sikhs in India have moved forward and they are as usual most model citizens of India.

I believe that Sikhs have their work cut out for them if they want to pursue the cause of Sikhs either in Canada or elsewhere -including India.  Their roots will always be in India as most Sikhs’ spiritual bond is centered around Golden Temple in Amritsar in Punjab, India .    Though they have some historical places in Pakistan too.

The Sikhs who want to be active in pursuing acceptance and justice and a homeland should take a different tack -which is positive and helpful in making Sikhs model world citizens. By keeping external attire similar to many known Islamist terrorists ( with long flowing beards and frown on their faces ) only complicates their task.   I understand that said Sikh attire with colorful turban is a required necessity for their religious and spiritual identity – and so be it . But if this is associated with violent behaviour at home or in Gurudwaras or against innocent individuals   (even sporadic) do cause   a concern as to their attitude.

I believe those Sikhs who are so much active in the Community fighting for   justice for their cause should pose and note that many of us are supportive of their demand and looking for resolution of such incident.   However what I skim in various cases in India – from Bhopal Disaster and other atrocities, rapes and frauds   – in many cases the justice is delayed, denied or compromised from negligence or deliberate manipulating by powers to be .  Only way forward is to strengthen the democracy and many institutions of democracy in India. Which incidentally cannot be achieved by violent means – specially by running protests in Canada with display of photos of known killers of Canadian Citizens  . Many   Indians are active in India for such   an outcome .

Our Canadian Sikhs   or those Sikhs who are residing in the Diaspora can help achieve their objective of justice and respect in India by being themselves of higher morals and desist from any violent vengeance type activities.   They can establish a friendlier relations with other overseas Indians – individually and collectively – which will bring eventual better results.

The Diaspora Sikhs can use their knowledge and wealth and positive attitude to help solve many of Punjab’s social and economical woes.   Punjab is supposed to be number 1 province of India but have squandered its development possibilities by politics tied to religious happenings.

There is the issue of use of drugs in Punjab – drugs being smuggled from Pakistan . These smugglers have become a kind of conduits for traitorous activities against the security of the country.   Overseas Sikhs can provide  relevant technical, medical and educational support to stem the drug use amongst Punjab’s young population .     In the process , the overseas Sikhs can encourage peace movement between India and Pakistan.

If we look around here in Canada or USA or UK   , we see hard working Sikhs in all fields which include Industry and construction   (real estate) and have been very successful – and that is why they can support financially many of the political parties at in one way or another. This acumen is very useful and necessary for the industrial development of   Punjab and other parts of India .   Why can The Sikhs take up the call like Jews who developed Israel .

My final thoughts   turn to what I call moral downgrade in some of our Canadian Punjabi youths   (men)   -who go to India for marriage – get a dowry   and then leave the girls there abandoned and return to Canada – with loot of dowry in their pocket. These type of incidents have been reported in the press – why these so-called Sikh leaders in Canada do not take steps to stem such behavior. May be they have done it but I have not heard/read about any such activity.

Finally winning the world for Sikh nation is an admirable yearning but first of all the violent arrogant attitude need   to be removed -even though the Sikhs are a   martial race – only by recognizing that the flowering of the Sikh Community has come about by sacrifice of many Hindu families over hundreds of years   when many Hindus have   had  offered/sacrificed   their first born towards the Sikh growth

Pravin Shah