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Diwali Play I wrote & directed Jashoda Shah – 1987

The following play   I wrote for Diwali Program of   Deep River / Pembroke Area East Indian Community   – Saturday 24 October 1987.   The Play was called   ” Ram Recital ”

The Play   was created /written such that almost  all   kids (of the community )  can participate in the play.

The play had music , dances, drama and dialogues   as well as historical Ramayana Theme.

I recently found my hand written script   – and now I have type – written it for posterity .         Please note I have a video of the actual play – somewhere around the house.     Both my kids (Nina & Sunir)   participated in the play   along with other kids of the Esat Indian Community.

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The play

 

Deep River/ Pembroke Area – Diwali Program –   Saturday 24 October 1987

A   Play – playwright / written by Pravin Shah   &   conducted by Jackie Shah

Play title   :   RAM   RECITAL

Actors :   All children from the East Indian Community

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PROLOGUE

Stage : All actors on the stage .    See Sketch 1 for positions.

Curtain :  Opens

Narrator :       To celebrate victory of   ” good over evil ” .

The story of Rama and his victory   over forces of Ravana is depicted

in the drama played by our young people ,The drama is called

” Ram Recital ”

Ram   (echo ) Ram   Ram Ram

Distinguished brothers of Ancient times

Trail Blazers ! Path Finders !

Ram   Laxman   Bharat and Shatrughna

Raghuvanch   family of Ayodhhya

Holy Vibrant land of India

Ancient Rishies and Prayers

Ram   (echo ) Ram   Ram Ram

Banished Ram at shores of Ganges

Lovely Sita and Laxman at side

Brilliance of Yonder years

Forbearance of Vishnu and Brahma

Ram   Sita   and   Laxman   in forests

For   obedience   to father’s wishes

Bharat   anointed   King of   Ayodhhya

With   schemes of   mother   Kaiykai

Pioneering   Bharat   with   brotherly   love

Ultimately   to   rule for brotherly Ram

Lanka   the   pearl of   Indian   ocean

Lustful   powerful   King   Ravana

Sita   Royal   loyal   wife   of   Ram

Beautiful   Arya   Sita   abducted   by Ravana

Ram   Laxman   battle   against   wrong

Ravana   and   cronies slained

Rishies   Hanuman   and   all   peoples

Rejoice   honour   justice   and   peace

World   a   stage   full   of   right   and   wrong

Players   we   are !   with   Ram’s   teachings !

Ram  our  hero   saviour  of  honour

Instill  in  us  love   for   family and   justice

Curtain :    Closes

Act I

STAGE :     All actors move to New Positions   or out of stage

These remain on the stage :

Dasrath       <-     Body gurad

Qeens                         ( Kaiykai, Kausalya, & Sumitra)

Princes                     ( All   princes except   Bharat )

Bharat   goes to Kaiykai       ( off the stage)

Sita

Narrator :

King   Dasrath and Ayodhya kingdom   were   happy since the return of     Ram and Laxman   from their   service to Visvamitra  in his fight     against Demons       and     Rakhshsha.  Ram   was  married to Sita.

One day Dasrath thought he was growing old and he decided to hand   over the throne   to Rama and go to forest for prayers in the Hindu   tradition.

Act 1   is the scene of court when   Dasrath announces this decision.   At   this time Bharat  was away   from Kingdom to visit his mother’s   relatives in Kekaya.

 

CURTAIN :           Opens

Act 1 (contd)

 

Dasrath   :         I am pleased to be with my family.

My sons , my eyes are filled with   joy   to   see   you.

Bharat   is   away   but he is in my thoughts .

Sita is like my daughter.

Ram,   you are a good prince.   You are   helping   me   in the   Royal   duties very ably.

(   Ram   comes   forward   and   gives   his   greetings   by   bowing   )

Ram :           I am your son, a   Prince   of   Raghuvansh.

I am proud to be able to   carry   out   your   commands.   My   brothers   help   me always.

Dasrath :           That is good .   I   am   getting   old   and   I   want   to   spend   time   in   prayers.

And   so,   therefore   I   am announcing   and   it is   my wishes   and   command that   Ram takes over the Kingdom and   pronounced   as   the   King of Ayodhya.

The coronation will be tomorrow.

(   Ram   again comes   forward   and   bows   )

Ram :                       I am   duty bound   to   do   as you command . My brothers are with me.

(   Laxman   comes   forward   and   bows   )

Laxman   :           We   all   brothers   are   very   happy   and we   will   be   with   Ram   at   all   times .

CURTAIN :       Closes.

Act II

Stage :       All actors off   the   stage.

– Ras /   Garba / Dance   Group   come on   stage

Narrator:

With   the  announcement of   Rama’s   coronation , there   was   joy   and

dancing   in   the   street of   Ayodhya.

CURTAIN:               Opens

Ras   /   Graba / Dance

CURTAIN :               Closes   at   the   end   of       Ras   /   Graba / Dance

Act III

Stage:       All   dancers   etc.   off   the   stage

Kaiykai   in   disheveled   attire       lying   on   the   floor with her ornaments   on   the floor

Dasarath   enters   as curtain   opens

Narrator :

When   the   news   of   the   coronation   of   Rama   was   announced ,

Manthra – Kaiykai’s   personal   maid –  was agitated.   She  influenced   Kaiykai  badly and prompted  her to seek kingdom for her son Bharat   instead   of   Ram.

Kaiykai had  won  two  boons  from  King  Dasarath     earlier before by saving his life during a war with  Rakshasas.   Now   Kaiykai  asks  for fulfillment of  those   two boons.

Act III

CURTAIN :              Opens

Dasarath     enters

He   sees Kaiykai   – lying   on   the   floor   and   all   her   ornaments   on     the floor.

Dasarath :       What’s   the   matter       O,   my   Queen

Tell   me   who   has offended   you

Kaiykai   wails   and   beat   breasts   and   rolls

Dasarath :       My Queen,     please   tell   me.   I   swear   in the   name   of   my     beloved Rama,   I   will   do   anything   to restore   your   peace   of   mind.

Kaiykai :           Do   you   remember   two   boons   you   promised   me.

I   want to   ask   them   now.

Dasarath :           How   can   I   forget ?   You have my word.

You   may ask   for   them

Kaiykai :               Oh!   Indra, Oh!   Varuna.     He   has said   I   can   have   my   boons .

I  ask                                        

                                       One :    My  son  Bharat  shall  be  crowned  as  King

Two :      Ram   is   asked to  go  to Dandaka  Forest   for   14 years.

Dasarath     looked   thunderstruck ,   speechless   and   falls   on   ground .

Dasarath :       Oh! God, Oh! Visnu,       is this punishment   for what I did to Shravan   and to his parents when I was young  ?

I can live  without Kingdom , without  comfort   but   I   cannot   live     without Ram.   Oh !   my Ram.

Shravan , what   happened   when   I   was   young   was   an   accident,   a   mistake .

CURTAIN :                 Closes

Act IV

Stage :   Shravan   lies   near   river   with   arrow   in   his   heart

King   Dasarath (at   younger   age )

Shravan’s   blind parrents

Narrator:

When   Dasarath   was   a   young   prince   he   had   gone   out hunting   in     the   forest.   Dasarath   was   a   very   good   marksman.   From   far   he     heard   a   sound   that   of   an   elephant   drawing   water   through   his   trunk.   He ( Dasarath) shot an arrow assuming it was an elephant.

He   heard a human cry.   ‘ O Dear God ‘   and   found   Shravan   at   the   river bank – hit by his arrow

The   young   boy   was   on a pilgrimage   taking   his   blind   parents   to     various   places   that   they wanted   to   go . Shravan   was   respectful   to   his parents and carried them around .   At this time he had left his parents   to   a   secure   place   and  came to  the  river to  get water for them.

CURTAIN   :                     Opens.

Shravan :           Oh!   Dear   God .

Who   has   shot   this   arrow?

I   have   no   enemy !

Dasarath   heard   the   cry   and   trembled   with   an   unknown   fear

He   comes   to the river   and   looked   at   Shravan

He   became   speechless

Shravan   looks   at   Dasrath   and says:

O,   Why did   you   commit   this   sin?

Who   will   look   after   my   parents?

Dasarath :         I   am   very   sorry .   It   was   a   mistake.     Honest.

Shravan :             Go   to   my   parents .   Give   them   water.

Dasarath :       I   will .     I   am   so   sorry

Shravan :       And   beg   their   forgiveness .

Dasarath   takes water and goes to the blind parents

When the old couple heard the footsteps ,

Old Man :   Dear son , why   did   you take   long     ?

Old woman :   Were   you playing   in   the   water ?

Dasarath :       Holy   father,   Mother

Forgive me . I am not your son

But Dasarath

My arrow accidently hit your

son     and   killed   him

Old man, old woman   :       O, Shravan         O, Shravan

Dasarath :       He   asked   me   to   bring   this   water   to you

Please   forgive   me .   I am   at   your mercy.

Old man :       Your   sin   is   very   grave   indeed.

Old woman :   But   it   was   committed   unknowingly

Old man :       One   thing   is   certain   that   you   too  will   suffer     pangs   of   separation

from   your   beloved   son.

Old woman :     Our   curse   is   that   you   will   also die as we will die with   our son

CURTAIN :           Closes.

Act   V

Stage :                 Ravana   and   Army

Hanuman   and   Army

Sita

Ram   and   Laxman

Narrator   :

Ram went away to forests to keep his father’s word. Laxman and Sita joined him.

King  Dasarath  died  with the pain of separation from his   Ram.

Bharat comes back from Kekaya to find Ram, Laxman and Sita   gone to forest. He tries to get Ram   back but Ram fulfils his father’s   promise and stay in forest , Bharat runs kingdom on behalf of Ram.

Meanwhile in the  forest, Ravana , the King of Lanka kidnapped Sita     and asked her to marry him. Sita  refuges .   Ram went to defend   honour  and bring  Sita  back.

Hanuman  and his   army joins Ram in war against demon Ravana and   finally victory comes.

Act   V (Contd)

CURTAIN :               Opens

( Sita is   sitting   under   a tree guarded by Ravana’s army   )

Hanuman :        O, Ram we   are   with   you.

You   are   protector   of   all   good .

Ram :                    We   have   to defend   our   family, .

Our   nation and   honour .

We   will destroy the   Raksasa   and   evil force.

Your help is timely.

Ravana :             I   have   magic

I   have   heavenly   help.

I   am   invincible

Hanuman :       You   cannot   fight   with   Lord   of   the good .

War   starts

Rama   gives     a   blow   to   Ravana   and   he   dies

There   was   joy and happiness.

CURTAIN :             Closes.

Act   VI

Stage:                     All   actors   on   the stage

See   Sketch   2   for   positions

CURTAIN :             Opens

Narrator:

Ram   returns   to Ayodhya     after 14 years in   forests and   winning war   over   evil .

He   assumes   the   throne   from   Bharat

He   rules   his   kingdom   with   love,   justice   and care   for   common   people.

A   ” Ram Rajya ” followed   and everywhere   there   was   peace,

non-violence   and   respect for   each   other

CURTAN :   Opens

FINALE               —                   with   the   following   songs

1)         Violence   Violence   Go  away

2)               Raghupati   Raghav   Raja   Ram

(Audience   join   in   singing)

3)               Jana Mana   Adhi Nayak   – India’s national song.

(Audience   join   in   singing)

ALL     ACTORS   STAND     AND   CURTSY

play   finishes.

Building Bridges ( in the Indian Sub-continent)

I wrote this article as a response to one of the comments on our chat room ” namaskar” online   -where I posted it

26 December 2019

Building Bridges  

It is always nice to be positive .

With all   the discussions on the subject of   Citizen Amendment Bill in India   – a lot has been said and finally we are encouraged to   ”   In this SEASON OF GOODWILL, all our efforts need to be directed at UNITING and NOT DIVIDING   people.   Let us build bridges to unite peoples rather than barriers to divide them.”   by Mervyn Maciel in his post on “Namaskar”.

This is an exceptional thought .

However , being a Professional Civil Engineer and also having designed and built a few bridges , I can vouch that to build a good and safe bridge one needs good foundations at   each side and a bridge which is correctly designed and built . That need a lot of effort and   also various techniques / technology .

In my outlook,  for those of us who are of   Indian ancestry   , there are two main bridges which need to be built .

1) Between   Pakistan and India   and

2) between   the majority community (the Hindus) and minorities (mainly Muslims) in   India.

Note :   You will all agree that the issue of relation between a majority community and a minority is an   burning issue in all countries of the sub-continent but only in India -this is discussed freely as it is an open society and mature democracy   and   politics plays a part leading to  everyone getting on the bandwagon tooting his or her opinion with a clarion call.   No other country in the sub-continent   (including Pakistan) allows unbridled free expression .

Building bridges  

For the subcontinent the two shores   1) Pakistan and 2) India   are   ” seemingly ”   fractious and weak in their perception of reality – depending on from which side the problem is looked at.    So to build solid foundations  at each shore   — one requires  special preparations and  different approach . That requires special knowledge and experience of previously  built bridges elsewhere.

All other countries of the sub-continent   are small and remain aloof in helping to build the most important bridge  – that is the  friendship between these two big countries.

We need the Indian sub-continent   to move towards peace and prosperity .

 

 

 

 

  • There is a lot of history in the partition of India , before, during and after.   I cannot cover all – as it is the my   article (given below)   is long and thus I have not touched on nuclear weapons , Chinese assistance to Pakistan   for its nuclear and missile capabilities , and betrayal of Vajpayee   after his visit to Pakistan for peace ( remember the Kargil   invasion by Pakistan)   etc.     In India,   many riots resulting in many deaths .

We only hope that peace will happen and bridges will be built by overlooking the past and thinking of the future and progress of all the South Asian countries.   Some adjustments are needed and some patience is needed and  elimination of terrorism is   a must – willingly rather than by use of force.   Extremism in religious dogmas   in 21st Century is a pain in the rear end.

Now let us look at the ground reality – as I see it  .

Unfortunately , I am not an expert nor an academician to properly or correctly assess or talk about this reality.  What I have learnt is from many years of following events    and issues of the sub-continent .   Again   my understanding may be coloured or prejudiced   from my being a Jain/Hindu and a descendent of an Indian Kenyan – whose roots were removed from India almost a century ago.   Remember , In Kenya   – all Indians ( pre-partition) remained friendly and supportive of each other   without wearing their faith/religion   or caste on their sleeves.   Same is true for   those who migrated (away from East Africa)   subsequently to other countries   especially to western countries.

Right now , it appears that a possibility for building  a bridge between these two countries  is remote though not impossible .  They have gone a long way opposite from mutual trust and confidence in each other .

The India partition is the British Empire’s Child .

 

In my opinion , India should thank United Kingdom for its imperialistic move towards partition of its Indian domain.  At the time of independence , this was   not visible or perceived as most Indians ( mostly Hindus) were dreaming of   ” Akhand Bharat ” – their ancient country many millennium ago.  Akhand Bharat (or Akhand Hindustan) is an irredentist term meaning “Undivided India” .

 

However, after over   now more than 70 years of Independence , it is realized that if India had   remained undivided   territorially at independence , the whole country would have exploded     and splintered into many parts -as Muslim population would have numbered more than   35% of the total and they would have created a very chaotic mayhem –   aided by their Muslim brothers in Middle East and elsewhere .   Besides imperialistic   Britain would have dipped its fingers into the chaos and found a renewed footing in the sub-continent .    Complicating the situation , there would have been disputes galore between many   small   kingdoms ( headed by a   “raja ” or a “sheikh” )   and linguistically   different states   -all   pulling for their own selfish bonanza.

 

 

So in short , India should remain forever thankful  to Pakistan   for its creation – it took away the fundamentalist and arrogant Muslims away from India   and concentrated in a confined space which can   somehow be managed – at least that is the outcome most desired.   There were a sizeable Muslim population which remained in India at independence – which is believed   to  unfortunately   have not harmoniously assimilated in the Indian   ethos or nationalistic fervor and viewpoint.

With Pakistan moving towards radicalization from the very onset of partition   ( immediately after the death of Mr. Jinnah – their   independence leader )   and   its coveting desire for   annexing     Kashmir prematurely led to   wars with India.    Pakistan was under belief that Hindus are weak   – one Muslim is stronger than 12 Hindus – that was the idiom they had   proliferated .

 

Most in Pakistan were (and are even now) so radicalized that they did (do) not want to associate at all with India and looked to Arabs as their ancestors and dumped their Indian heritage – even though most of these have been converted from Hindus by coercion and by inflicting major torturous atrocities on Hindus by various Muslim invaders and their ilk .   Many Pakistanis have propagated   themselves   as descendent of these cruel   invaders .

That’s the rub – How can a bridge be built?

In Pakistan , History books were changed   since many years   to reflect this false narrative for young Pakistanis to   be completely removed from their association from India .

Further, Pakistanis were   also mesmerized by the call for Pakistanis to retake India from the weak Hindus The ambition was  to reestablish Muslim rule in India – similar to what was before during  Mughal  time.

India should thank Pakistan for this unfortunate/unusual   call   – as this probably  resulted in Sardar Vallbhabhai’s success in persuading almost every princely state to accede to India. Sardar Patel was  the first Deputy Prime Minister of India.    He led the task of forging a united India, successfully integrating into the newly independent nation those British colonial provinces that had been “allocated” to India. Besides those provinces that had been under direct British rule, approximately 565 self-governing princely states had been released from British suzerainty by the Indian Independence Act of 1947.

The state of Jammu and Kashmir, which had a predominantly Muslim population but a Hindu leader, shared borders with both India and West Pakistan. The argument over which nation would incorporate the state led to the first incursion by Pakistan forces into Kashmir which led to India-Pakistan War in 1947”“48.

Now most of the Indian forces were diverted   to Kashmir sphere –  with the backdrop of  India’s   foreign policy of non-alignment   along with effort to   develop friendship with China   and   the coinage of  “Hindi-Chini bhai bhai ” dictum.    However, China betrayed that dictum and attacked India in 1962 over border dispute and defeating India badly .

 

This encouraged Pakistan to start a war with India in 1965. The conflict began following Pakistan’s Operation Gibraltar, which was designed to infiltrate forces into Jammu and Kashmir to precipitate an insurgency against Indian rule.   No one won this war   but   with Line of   Control established dividing Kashmir into two parts.

All that pushed Nehru’s doctrine of peaceful   friendly relations with nations of the world out of the window.     So with Gandiji’s pacifist doctrine and Nehru naiveté –India was not prepared for wars and its army was ill-equipped. This all was finally dumped and India moved to   procure sophisticated   armaments and equipment including   air force planes.   Of Course America was NOT happy to help India and that led to India – Soviet Union   coming together on military supplies.   It must be realized that Gandhiji’s   constant  refrain in favour of Pakistan after the partition led eventually to his untimely and unfortunate   assassination by a Hindu zealot   in 1948.

Gandhiji ‘s motto always was to Hindu Muslim amity and he had integrated Alla in his prayers along with Jesus and Ram.     in !915 he started the India’s struggle for India’s independence with many twists and turns but always keeping  human dignity and love for all as  the pillar of his struggle,     Unfortunately, most Muslims of India ( and that include those in present day Pakistan & BanglaDesh ) never quite reciprocated his call for amity.  They used his humanity as   a joke   and played to have a separate   homeland and ridicule Hindus for their so-called weakness.     Gandhiji was  a non-violent & peace loving person   and not like Mao of China   or Stalin of Russia who knew who were their enemies and eliminated them . Gandhiji would go to any length to placate the Muslims so a united India can be had.   These people fooled him and also Nehru too.   So the partition .

After partition , the   Pakistan’s   political situation   was shaky and military government took over   . Pakistan has spent several decades under military rule (1958 ”“ 1971, 1977 ”“ 1988, 1999 ”“ 2008).

Gen. Ayub Khan     —     1958 – 1971

General Zia-ul-Haq —- 1977-1988

Gen. Pervez Musharraf   —- 1999-2008

During   Gen Ayub Khan’s time –     the Pakistani military junta based in West Pakistan launched Operation Searchlight against the people of East Pakistan on the night of 25 March 1971. It pursued the systematic elimination of nationalist Bengali civilians, students, intelligentsia, religious minorities and armed personnel.   A genocidal   attack on their own people !     Indian military intervened and   aided the Pakistani Bengalis   to fight the barbaric   attack on civilians.  The war ended on   16 December 1971 with some 91000 Pakistani soldiers s surrendering to the Indian military.  This was despite American siding with the genocidal regime in Pakistan .

East Pakistan separated from Pakistan and became a new nation – Bangladesh

This   resulted in   the destruction of   the notion perpetrated by Pakistan (and some Muslims in India)   that 1 (one) Muslim is stronger than 12 Hindus.   What a come down !     This humiliation of defeat and surrender of Pakistani   military personnel to the Indian military – is still a strong resenting issue within Pakistan.   India  should thank Pakistan for  this opportunity  to remove the myth in their collective narrative.

During General Zia-ul-Haq time –  the Russians took over Afghanistan (in 1979) and American wanted to remove them   – for this the radicalized Pakistan got an opportunity   to join the Americans .   The   Indians had proclaimed itself to be non-aligned at early years of independence   and Americans   took it wrongly and bracketed India with Russians.

For Americans   Pakistan was   a friendlier   country and an ally. This led to Pakistan   becoming stronger with infusion of latest American weapons and also training of Mujahideen fighters for Afghanistan.

Once the Russians   quit Afghanistan in 1989 , the Americans   left Pakistan in the lurch – with   thousands of Mujahideen fighters   left loose.   There was fundamentalist development   and Pakistan had many these Mujahideen fighters and Pakistan   took the opportunity to divert them to Kashmir and sent them as terrorists   to disrupt Indian rule in their part of Kashmir.    However, the Mujahideen fighters also   created havoc in Pakistan   with thousands killed within Pakistan – more than what they could inflict on India .       This situation In Pakistan was God sent to India   because it showed to the Indian Muslims   as to the real nature of Pakistanis and it was not worth siding with Pakistan – as the Muslims of India would not be spared from   abuse.   Already Pakistan under   General Zia-ul-Haq had declared Ahmadis as not Muslims and Mohajirs (Muslims from Indian   Bihar) settled in Pakistan Sindh province  were   being harassed and also the shias   in Pakistan were   killed many times by Mujahideen terrorists.

For some years after India’s independence, the Indian Muslims  acted like a 5th Column in India for Pakistan . They would cheer loudly Pakistan cricket teams against India , help in many terrorist activities that Pakistan perpetrated in India   and bullied Hindus whenever they desire . They   talk   with ” in your face ” attitude.   They carried on their shoulders – the glow of Mughal rule in India and look down on The Hindus.   They   missed the part that Hindus are the majority community in India and they are their neighbours   and for them to live peacefully it is in their interest to be friendly   with the neighbours – especially those who are in power   . In fact they went opposite for many years – deliberately rioting,   creating mayhem and killings of Hindus -all copy of what Pakistanis were encouraging.   However, slowly but definitely Hindus   started retaliating , and with Pakistan   itself in dire state it did not or could not provide any meaningful support to Indian Muslims .    So thanks to Pakistan for their inhuman behaviour   -which discouraged Indian Muslims to relay on these monsters.

If Muslims of India consider themselves as Indians than what is stopping them to be Indians. India is   free society. There are many political parties in India (including Congress) who are acquiescing to Muslims’   demand   for hajj Support, jobs , money for education,   Allowances for Imams etc. -all for getting their   democratic Votes      But what Muslims need is to be fair and go for equal demands for others apart for Muslims only and also fight for the Hindus   need.

They cannot be parochial and expect all to   look after Muslim interests   only . Why can a Muslim not stand up openly and say freely Jai Hind.   Why Can   a Muslim not stand up openly and say freely   that Kashmir belong to India . Why can an Indian Muslim not stand up openly and say that they are annoyed that Hindus from Kashmir have been thrown out by radical Muslims   (and terrorists from Pakistan) .   Why can a Indian Muslim   not stand up and recognize their largest neighbours  and their   traditions and culture — when living in India.   Why an Indian Muslim cannot be an Indian and a proud Indian   rather than looking at Pakistan   and   so called Umma?

The Muslins who got space in India should openly accept if not apologize for Muslim atrocities toward Hindus and Sikhs over millennia and  hope that the Hindus have already put   that behind them .

Muslims should note of the modern day revival of the Hindu culture and traditions with integrating with modern education and technology and be   proud of that development –   like they would be proud for the revival of their own   culture and traditions within the bound of Indian   diversity.

Hindus should follow their age old dictum of   ” tolerance” and acceptance of other cultures , of diversity and mosaic of India.   Inclusivity is the stepping   stone for  development   and   living in modern 21st Century.

Then  you will see   a bridge being established between the Hindus and Muslims .

And that would,  possibly ,   lead to a bridge being built between India and Pakistan .

And hopefully peace can shower on the Indian Sub-continent.

Books read in 2019

Following is the list of books I read during 2019 . Most   of the books I read are light and for fun.

1) Tara Road by Maeve Binchy. 7 august 2018.
Author of Circle of Friends.
2) Alex Cross by James Patterson. 31 July 2018.
3) The Lake House by James Patterson   23 August 2018
4) The Child in Time by Ian McEwan 01 Sept 2018 at Knights cottage in Severn. Sunir family, nina family ( except Sunjay) and us 2 nights.
5) Merely Married by Adrian Devereau ___1 October 2018
6) book by Abraham Verghese. Cutting the Stone — Mid Oct 2018
7) two Chicken Soup books   -a) Chicken Soup for the Mother’s Soul b)   A 4th course of Chicken Soup for the soul by 4 authors.
8) ” Calico Joe ” by John Grisham — December
3rd.
9) Jude’s Law     —-   book by Lori Foster. A romance book. 18 December 2018
10) ” To Wed A Wicked Prince ” by Jane Feather   a romance book in   1775 England.
11) Bullseye- by JAMES Patterson   & Michael   Ledwidge.
10 Feb 2019.
12) Compulsion ( an Alex Delaware novel) by Jonathan Kellerman – 15 February ,   2018 10
13)     “murder is forever   ” by James Patterson also Home Sweet Murder. – in one book . 26 Feb 2019.
14) ” The Firm ” by John Grisham – 23 March 2019.
15) ” Candlelight Christmas ” — by Susan Wiggins ( a romance   book ) . 28 March 2019
16) ” Delicious ” by Adrianne Lee – a romance book . 31 March 2019
17) Honeymoon by James Patterson & Howard Rough an — 12 April, 2019.
18) Ready for love by Debbie Macomber – 18 April 2019.- romance book.
19) The Jihad Ultimatum by John D. Randall – 17 June 2019.

19) Rescued by a Rancher   by Mindy Neff ( a romance story ) – 05 May 2019.
20) Fairy Tale Weddings by Debbie Macomber -16 May 2019. – romance book   two stories ( Cindy and the Prince & Some kind of Wonderful ).
21) French Kiss by Susan Johnson – 5 June 2019 . – a romance book.j
22) Marrying Walker McKee by Lori Copeland – 2 July 2019 – a romance story.
23) Merry Christmas , Alex Cross   by James Patterson. – mid- August 2019
24)Home in Seattle by Debbie Macomber   – 8 September 2019.
25) Patriot Attack   written by Kyle Mills   – a cover tone novel – 29 September 2019
26) Unexpected son ( Hometown Reunion novel) by Marissa Carroll   – 06 October 2019
27) Night School by Lee Child ( Jack Reache r -the military guy as an investigator –15 October 2019
28) Touched by Angels   by Debbie Macomber- 25 October 2019
29)Garden of Beasts   by Jeffery   Deaver – 7 November 2019.
30) Summer on Blossom Street by Debbie Macomber   -22 November 2019.
31) One Little Sin by Liz Carlyle – 2 December 2019
32) Empire’s Child by Ram Nik Shah – completed by end of November.   This is a book about Kenya and British
Immigration laws.
33) London Bridges by James Patterson ( Alex Cross novel) – 9 December 20190
34) @ Christmas Angel by Jo Beverley – 16 December 2019. a romance book.
Angel
35 ) The 17th , The Suspect by James Patterson   & G. Maxine Petroleum – 30 December 2019.

 

POEM – Nina at 45 – 14 December 2019

 

Nina at   45 – 14 December 2019

Today is a very special day

 

It is your birthday but it’s the day

when we first saw our angel.

You are God’s gift to us

Shree   Jalaram   we thank you

It is time in your life for adventure

You with Sunjay at your side

Sitara and Sachin enveloping you

Love of   Sunir and Shannon

Blessings of your parents

 

You have launched   Deep River’s Pharmacy

 

What   a thrill !   It’s your trophy

It’s a journey for success

Hard work and Professionalism

That you exude so confidently

 

Your smile and charm will win laurels

 

We walk in the air for your giant step

We are proud  , the whole family

We are with you all the way

This birthday is a very special day

 

We wish a very Happy   Birthday

We pray for your success always.

 

Family Christmas Celebration -2019

I penned the following article on Christmas celebration and have sent it to our local newspaper (North Renfrew Times) for publication – on 12 December 2019 . They may or may not publish. It is their xprerogative . However, as per every year , I will circulate and send by e-mail the article to my family members, friends , colleagues , contacts and social groups I am associated with.

12 December 2019

Family Christmas Celebration

Come November, cold season starts and mood changes for Christmas holidays.

One by one houses get lit by outside lights and strings of lights add festive mood to the populace. There is magic in the air.

At night the whole street becomes heavenly – sometimes with snow on the ground.

The Christmas holidays are secularized with decorated Christmas tree, artful display of lights and Santa Clause doing his Ho! Ho! Ho! Even those of us who are not Christians by faith are also celebrating Christmas with gusto. Christmas is celebrated around the world in many countries with or without large Christian population.

Kids are looking forward to have Santa Clause bring gifts for them and their friends – there would be laughter with caring and sharing. One need not be a Christian in partaking in the festivities. There is the underlying message of love, sacrifice and being compassionate for all when we celebrate the birth of Lord Jesus. These values are the foundation of caring and sharing society for peaceful and progressive existence.

For us, the family start xpreparing for visits and family get together. My son’s family phoned from Toronto early in November that they will be coming over to Deep River during Christmas. This is our family holiday tradition since many years. My daughter& family are nearby – thus we have a very nice get together. All grandchildren – 3 from Toronto and 2 nearby – have wonderful time. They are so loving and playful with each other – making grandparents very ecstatic.

The children love to see each other and spend the day playing games and sharing their new gifts and toys that Santa Claus brought for each of them.

We feel fortunate to have our family together during Christmas holidays.
Every year, we are fortunate to attend a Christmas Party at Ken and Leela Philipose”™home here in Deep River. This has become a cherished annual family holiday tradition within the local East Indian Community. Ken & Leela have been hosting this celebration of Christmas since long – since many years as I remember – more or less from the year we settled in Deep River in 1986.

Their Christmas Party is open to people of all faiths. The guests attend with gusto and excitement and join the hosts in carol singing, enjoying snacks and drinks and warmth of each other”™s company. There is much laughter and merriment during the Party.

I understand that both Ken and Leela are Saint Thomas Christians, also called Syrian Christians of India, who trace their origins to the evangelistic activity of Thomas the Apostle in the 1st century. According to history, Saint Thomas, one of the disciples of Christ, came the South Indian Kerala coast in in the 1st century. Kerala is known for their paddy fields, coconut trees, rivers, backwaters and houseboats. People of Kerala have a literacy rate, the highest in India.

As Deep Riverites for many years both Ken and Leela are socially active and have philanthropic hearts. Recently they contributed a large sum ($19,000.00) to our Hospital Foundation towards capital equipment purchase.

The main focus of Christmas celebration is the birth of Lord Jesus or Christ. We know that historically Jesus existed and the baby was born to change the world. The basic teaching of Christ is to love your Lord, your God with all thy strength, love your neighbor as thyself and be a peacemaker and pray for your enemies. He also teaches, what you do for the poorest of the poor, you have done for me.
I am not a Christian by faith and I do worship the Almighty under Hindu tradition – which encourages all to be a spiritual person and believe in a higher power. I pray that Christmas 2019 is observed by us keeping in mind the sacrifice and the most illuminating message of Hope that Lord Jesus has brought to the human kind. This will keep us from despair and encourage us for helping actions.

Let yearly Christmas celebration become a pointer to peace and a reminder that there is more to life than fights and arrogation of power and wealth. When we meet our family and friends (during Christmas holidays) let us seek forgiveness for any misdeeds done to them by us and forgive them for any perceived or real misdeeds done by them to us. This will be a gift par excellence!

Pass it on and see the magic!

My wife Jackie and I wish you all a very uplifting Christmas and a Happy New Year. Happy Holidays to all.

The Pharmacy Store – Deep River’s Pharmacy

The newest pharmacy in Deep River is set to open its doors   today – Friday 29th November 2019.   No,   this is yet not the opening day for business but for trying out all systems -computer, credit card , security, dealing with Insurance Companies as well as dealing with local medical personnel and also understandinf the flow of customers.

The actual date the store will be officially open is marked for Monday 02 December 2019 .     The grand Opening Day is planned to be Thursday   19 December 2019.

A chronical describing the evolement of this store is prepared – which is currently kept in private files.

Our Canadian Diversity – Diwali celebration

This article was published in our local Newspaper North Renfrew Times (   a bit edited   to shorten it ) on Wednesady 13 November 2019

3 November 2019

Our Canadian Diversity   – Diwali celebration

The Lions Hall in Chalk River   was buzzing with excitement as more than 200 people, in festive mood,  gathered there   on the evening of   Saturday   2nd November 2019   to celebrate the annual Diwali festival.

The event was organized by the East Indian Community of the Renfrew   County . Many participants came in wonderful  traditional dresses which added color to the event.   It was very heartening that many friends (belonging to different cultures ) also joined in the celebration.   India is a land of diversity   – which is  complementary   to our Canadian society with multi-cultural ethos.

The evening reverberated with cultural entertainment program   lasting for just a little less than two hours.   There were stage dances ,   songs and instrument playing adding to the festivities.     The Indian classical ” Bharat Natyam   ” dance amongst others  was   cheered   and applauded by all .  Young as well as high school kids along with adults (both male and female)   performed   variety   of    musical and dance performances .   The talent of   budding performers was very visible.   That cheered the participants –   and the time just flew by.

After the entertainment program   all   settled down to enjoy the delicious and tasteful   catered Indian food  –   with a number of   traditional choices .    It must be noted that at an Indian / Hindu festival /event – food is always   vegetarian as many in India do not consume meat and when it is devoted to any deity the non-vegetarian food is a no no   – because many Indians do consider all living beings as sacred .

Once coffee/tea and dessert was consumed ,  the participants relaxed, intermingled   and chatted with each other.   In fact they did the intermingling and chatting even before the entertainment program started .    They wished each other Happy Diwali .

This year Diwali,  in fact,  was on Sunday October 27

The finale of the evening started after the meal /dinner , that was when the floor was open for anyone who wants to dance to the rhythmic beats streamed out by the DJ.     Some of recent  Bollywood   as well as Bhangra   tunes   were offered . The floor was thronged by young and old -all freely dancing with so much fun and tempo.   The program started closing down slowly but definitely at about 10.00 pm.  and one by one families started   to return to quiet of their homes

I am sure all celebrated the evening’s Diwali festival with gusto and reverence in heart.

Coming back to Diwali festival – this is celebrated in India since many millennia .

Diwali, the “festival of lights” is the most important festival for Hindus around the globe.

At the present time , it is said that the Diwali is a Hindu festival. However for millennia there was no religion called Hindu religion in India . It was an open society in ancient India   and people were free to debate and decide as to how to further their spiritual beliefs. The free debate and discussions were encouraged,

This then have generated into an amalgam of religious beliefs   – what is in present day known as       Hinduism . Hinduism is unique in that it”™s not a single religion but a compilation of many traditions and philosophies.

The word Hindu or Indu was used by Greeks to denote the country and people living beyond the Indus river. By the 13th century, the word Hindustan began to be used as a popular alternative name for India, meaning the “land of Hindus“.   Eventually, any person of Indian origin who did not practice Abrahamic religions came to be known as a Hindu, thereby encompassing a wide   range of religious beliefs and practices.

The most prominent legend attached to Diwali is that of Lord Rama.  Based on the holy epic Ramayana, the first Diwali was celebrated by the people of Ayodhya to welcome their beloved prince back to his kingdom.

The Ramayana is an ancient Indian epic, composed sometime in the 5th century BCE, about the exile and then return of Rama, prince of Ayodhya;

Lord Rama was a great warrior King who was exiled by his father Dashratha, the King of Ayodhya, along with his wife Sita and his younger brother Lakshman. Lord Rama returned to his Kingdom Ayodhya after 14 years of exile, in which he put an end to the demon Ravana of Lanka.

After this victory of Good over Evil, Rama returned to Ayodhya. In Ayodhya, the people welcomed them by lighting rows of clay lamps  ( ” diyas “)   – when the oil is burnt by the wick .

Over the millennia , the deeper meaning and lessons from Diwali celebration is inferred by the religious leaders   and the public.  Diwali is celebrated for the victory of Good over Evil .

It shows and guides all of us that   good deeds are important and necessary for progress and peace in life.   It is better to be productive and contributory towards progress and   well being of the family, friends and society in general . It is sort of bad and bordering on evil to be disruptive   and vindictive.

This is similar to Christmas. We celebrate the birth of Lord Jesus when celebrating Christmas but the underlying deeper meaning that we celebrate is that God Almighty cares for us and He even would send his only son to earth for our salvation. Christmas teaches us to be sharing and caring.

The   lighting of the ” diyas ” when celebrating Diwali signifies that one needs to get rid of the selfish and materialistic thoughts which frees one from all forms of sadness   and grief.

Diyas” symbolize goodness and purity, and lighting them denotes dispelling darkness and going into light.

Hindus believe that placing a   ‘”diya ” generates positive energy into the environment. The energy generated gives a positive effect on all the living organism. It leads to a spiritual path and provides serenity of mind and soul.

I believe , lighting a candle in a church provides similar serenity of mind and soul. The candle symbolizes light in the darkness of life especially individual life,    Candle light often evokes the warmth of home and family.

As I understand , Hinduism is the world”™s oldest religion, according to many scholars, with roots and customs dating back more than 4,000 years. Today, with about 900 million followers, Hinduism is the third-largest religion behind Christianity and Islam.   Roughly 95 percent of the world”™s Hindus live in India. Because the religion has no specific founder, it”™s difficult to trace its origins and history. Hinduism is unique in that it”™s not a single religion but a compilation of many traditions and philosophies.

So I wish all a Happy Diwali and wish/pray for   spirit of brotherhood and peace.

Here is the thing! – re: my grandson Sachin

Here is the thing.

Well,   Sachin was having a   sleep-over at our house in Deep River on Friday   04 October 2019 while his parents and Sitara scooted off to Ottawa   – as Sitara was attending/visiting  the Carleton University   Faculty of Engineering and Design  next day on Saturday.

We had fun night  enjoying the company of our 10 year old grandson   (Sachin) , enjoyed with him a game of Monopoly   while watching the   Indian TV program called   ” Kaun Benega Crorepatti    ”  in Hindi       — which   translates   to ” Who will become a millionaire   “.       He was well behaved , focused and keen in his game as well as following the TV program   (with English captions given) .   He quietly went to sleep at around 10.30 pm .

Next morning   ( on Saturday ) he   got up ,  freshened   up and   had his breakfast – without any adult interference or help.   He knows where to find his daily needs at his nana/nani place.

What impressed me about him is that right on time – like being on cue –   he disengaged himself from his favourite TV show at 11.00 am and started getting ready for his ice hockey practice .  He put on all necessary   clothing for skating , pads & other gears    including  securing it with tapes where necessary.

So we trotted off to the Deep River Arena at about 11.10 am – him pulling his big bag (with skates, helmet , gloves & other skating gears) out of the house   . He loaded the bag on to the car – saying to his nana that he can handle all that.     Of course his nana helped carrying his Hockey stick and water bottle

At arena, he pulled the bag into the arena building and found the room where he is supposed to put his skates   on and get ready for his practice game.   Well finally he started getting ready -all   by himself – not giving his nana any grief .   However , he did  get stalled   when   trying to put and tying his skates on.   He had realized that though his nana tried to help him tie the skates but really  cannot as there was the need for pushing the skate flaps under the protection pads and then tying the lace tight.   His nana had never done that.   However, as always there are good people around so his nana asked a young man ( who I guess was a skating coach )     to help out   . He did so and had skates on properly . After that he handled himself and put on other gears such as his helmet and gloves   before getting on the   ice.

When the practice   was   over   – Sachin was in the change room   and by himself   removed his skates, gloves , clothing etc   and put these well in the big carry bag   and hauled that to the car and loaded it onto the car by himself.   All so relaxed and without any stress. Nana was really impressed by his independence   and   responsible behaviour.

Now compare the above story to another 10 year old boy many  moons ago. This boy had gone on vacation   (during school break) to his nana/nani home in Thika from Mombasa . It was exciting visit but the young man had not much to do in those days.   One day he wondered off away from main area of residence to a   store room – all by himself as quietly as he can.    There he sneaked into items in the store   room   – just being curious or being naughty !.   There he found   a pair of scissors . Well what one do with a pair   of with a scissors.   The young man became creative   and what he did was interesting.   Luckily he did not cut or damage any of his nana/nani stuff.     But he did was rather funny yet not very responsible. He   cut his hair on his head – trying to be a barber . He felt so happy and thinking he achieved something .

He then came out of the store area and come over to the main residence and his younger uncle   (   ShantiMama ) saw him – he must have had a great laugh   The younger boy looking  ridiculous .

However,   ShantiMama   was concerned – so he took the young boy to a real barber in town -to at least   trim the hair as best as can be . That’s the end of the story.

Who was that young 10-year old boy   many moons ago in Thika.     Of course that boy was Sachin’s nana (that is of course me)  – who was kind of a bit naughty or adventurous without much thinking .  In those days , kids had not much planned structured activities and not much responsibilities except to play   and find activities – self made -to pass time.

What a change one can see in two generations   !