Category Archives: Family/Self

Poem – Sachin’s 9th Birthday -2018

Sachin’s 9th Birthday 20 July 2018

He has the style

He has the grip

His soccer his ice hockey

A playful young boy with a smile

He is only 9 years old boy

Plays Sudoku ,   Board games

Has keen interest for Pokémon icons

Sachin is adorable and loving

He has twinkle in his eyes

Sachin brings sunshine in our lives

Our grandson strong and kind

His chat, his words are uplifting

His manners, his delightful hugs

His happy dance moves

So joyful and heartwarming

Hey, Sachin – We wish you

a Very Happy Birthday

and many more to come

nana/nani

Poem – Sachin’s 8th Birthday -2017

POEM – Sachin’s 8th Birthday (20 July 2017)

 

Sachin our grandson

our 8 year old

always with a smile

all polite and playful

so focused on activities

swims goes downhill skiing

plays ice hockey and soccer

8 years old plays piano

occasionally sings

plays video games

our Pokémon fan

little brother to Sitara

instant hugs and embrace

our delight and joy

Sachin brings sunshine

what a boy !

we are so proud

Sachin we love you

you are our star

Happy Birthday

Many more to come

nana/nani

 

 

 

Poem – Sitara’s 11th Birthday -2018

Sitara’s   11th Birthday 05 August 2018

Our Princess has arrived

Her pre-teen years

All absorbing in her thoughts

Quiet is the norm

Sitara is now   11 years old girl

New challenges and anxieties

She remains focused in her tasks

Takes her sports in stride

Swimming, skating , gymnastics

Sitara   is our cool granddaughter

She is mature responsible

Sitara likes her vast reading

Our   caring and attentive girl

Her objective chats

Her warm heart wins hearts

Hey, Sitara – We wish you

a Very Happy Birthday

and many more to come

nana/nani

Poem – Sitara’s 10th Birthday -2017

POEM – Sitara’s 10th Birthday (05 August 2017)

Sitara our granddaughter

our   Angelic Sitara

humble and adorable girl

always with a warm care

our 10 year old angel

almost a pre-teen girl

sweet and charming

her creative mind

her remarkable paintings

swims and figure skates

downhill skiing and snowboarding

10 years old plays piano

read books and comics a great deal

a darling sister to her brother

Sachin just adores her

our shine and spark

Sitara brings joyful outlook

what an angel !

we are so privileged

Sitara   we love you

you are our comfort

Happy Birthday

Many more to come

nana/nani

Poem – Maya’s 7th Birthday – 2018

 

POEM

Maya’s 7th Birthday 07 August 2018

Our granddaughter

A leader born

Full of Confidence

She is forever active

Maya is lively with a smile

Her pleasing amazing art work

She is bubbly winning hearts

Maya is funny and vibrant

Loving sister to Kieran and Priya

The joy of our lives

Our sunshine bright

We have been blessed

With a princess so pretty

Hey, Maya – We wish you

a Very Happy Birthday

and many more to come

Ba/Bapuji

Poem For Kieran’s Birthday -2019

POEM   – Kieran’s 5th Birthday – 12 March 2019

Our sparkling happy grandson

You sparkle with your great smile

Kieran you shine like a diamond

 

You are in Toronto and we are in Deep River

But know that we are with you in our own special way

We are privileged to have you as a grandchild

 

Your politeness wins hearts

Your words are sweet and powerful

Your conversation on phone flutter our hearts

 

Your 5th birthday we celebrate in Deep River

A   highlight for the family

We are delighted that you visiting us with family

 

Your sisters Maya and Priya

Your cousins Sitara and Sachin

All proud of you for your sparkling charm

 

We celebrate your birthday together with gusto

Happy 5th Birthday Kieran

Many more to come

 

Ba and Bapuji

RTC Reunion Gathering in Trinidad & Tobago (Trini) – 12 January to 21 January 2019

We   recently had a Royal Technical College   (Nairobi) reunion in Trinidad & Tobago – between 12 January and 21 January 2019.     The primary co-ordinator was Arun Buch ( curently 77 years old) – who lives in Trinidad and has a Civil Consultancy firm in Port of Spain.   He was assisted by Bhaskar Patel   (who lives in London, U.K), Vish Vaidya (who lives in Toronto, Canada) and others but also by his office staff.

Lots of photos were taken   by many and some were uploaded on-line by Amin Pattani .   The uploaded photos can be found   at LINK:

The link to the photos is: http://tinyurl.com/RTC-Reunion-2019

Recently I wrote a dissertation   on   the memories of the trip.

This is what I wrote to all participants of the Reunion -while enclosing my dissertation .

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As time passes and we get busy with our own families and grandchildren along with local colleagues and friends, the   RTC Reunion in Trinidad and Tobago will start taking back stage.

Further as we are aging over the years the memories will fade . So   these photos ( put on line )   by Amin become precious for jogging our memories whenever a need arises.

Many thanks   to Amin and also to our many photographers for such a wonderful job.

Recently my wife Jackie and I went through the whole album and enjoyed the happy memories of good times that we had in Trini.

I have written a short ( or long) dissertation about the wonderful memories of Trini and the good thoughts that go through my mind.

I would like to share that with you all and hopefully you will like it.

Please find it attached FYI.

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Dissertation :

RTC   Reunion Gathering in Trinidad & Tobago (Trini)  Photos/Videos

– 12 January to 21 January 2019

Thanks for all the photos and videos from Trinidad & Tobago RTC Reunion gathering.

What Giovanna, Vish, Ed, Pramod, Pam, Naseem , Amin and others accomplished in recording events by way of   photos & videos is very touching and useful.   Thanks guys . These supplement our own personal photos/videos for the good memories.

The photos/videos provide means for enhancing our memories of good times that we have had together in Trini.    Memories fade as time passes or as we grow older but these photos/videos help to revive these memories.

Recently my wife Jackie and I spent a good hour going through the photos and videos – which kind of led me to think of many happenings for which we do not have real photos/videos – though these happenings are etched in our hearts.

While photos are ideal – they really are an assist to our own personal memories embedded within our own hearts.   The photos and videos embedded within our heart will always be with   us – no matter where we go or what our condition may be.

There are also some actual mementos that we received/got while in Trini – which also provide another prop for remembering our exhilarating visit.

 

These mementos can be listed   as below:

a)   A nice well designed Calendar to commemorate our visit   – with birthday of each participant shown at specific date on the calendar.   So much foresight and work has gone into producing this . Kudos to the smart team.

b) A T-shirt   –   with enchanting Bollywood singsong line . The most male colleagues wore this, with    pride, at one time or another   when visiting places in Trini.

c) A shawl and a scarf (with wild life depicted on it ).  All useful for daily use in our lives.  A   mental video  —   of these being distributed by Bhaskar and Vidula on the first evening on the Hotel Hilton terrace —   is still playing in my heart.

Note: Unfortunately we do not have for future memory any photos/videos showing these mementos.

Memories in my heart

I will give a few example of such wonderful memories in my heart – I am sure each one has his/her own.

1) We were pleasantly surprised for various types   of Indian snacks  which got distributed with love on ferry, at airport or beaches etc.    Vidula, Bhaskar and others – I believe all of them from UK – magically conjure up these goodies at all times – especially when we needed something to bite on.   What a pleasant surprise at all times.

2) Our Colleagues working hard to make all events wonderful. One can see Ed or Vish or others carrying rucksack   stuffed with mike equipment and also lap top computers etc with them wherever we went . And with a smile.

3) Professorial Bus Driver – who gave us very nice account of Trinidad  & Tobago  and fielded questions so easily and well responded.

4)  I was really impressed with the pleasant park lady officer at the Pigeon Point Heritage Park — who when discovered that Arun is a local and senior   — smilingly refunded money to Arun for entry to the beach – without being asked.   What honesty!

5) The walking back to Hilton Hotel from Thai Restaurant.   Late   at night.   It was so invigorating – and we found that it was not so far – Vish knowing the short route.

6)  Oh! the clear sky full of stars and moon – we can see the twinkling stars without having to pull our hoods to protect ourselves from environment.   Such rarity in our lives these days – specially living in cold country Canada .

7) Our conversations with each other – the exchange of life experiences and other warm stories .

Arun Buch with his heartwarming stories of how he had met three (3) great men of the era -Mahatma Gandhi, Mandela and Dalai Lama at different stages of his growth.

8) Late night group gatherings and chit chat with jokes and laughter.

9)    ” My God is awesome ” – an inscription on one of our buses.  So spiritual !   I hope you guys had noticed that.

10)   Fabulous breakfast at both hotels. The omelet chef(s) – so friendly and always with a   smile.

11) For us – that is my wife who is allergic to milk products – we found at both hotels – they had alternative   most times. That was very satisfying to us as it took away our concern .

12)   What we saw and observed – freedom. Men & women together & equal working for the good of the country.

13) Lack of people on both the islands ( Trinidad & Tobago).

14) When we arrived at Piarco Airport (Port of Spain)  on 12 January at 3.30 pm – busses were there to pick us up with Arun & Bhaskar also there. So much care . Promptness was seen all the time .

15) Excellent quality tap water , clean washroom facilities and general cleanliness   – what a pleasant relaxed environment.

16)   We travelled by Caribbean Airlines from Toronto – excellent service – Wheel chair support with smile and added care & concern.

17) Associated with T & T gathering – is the 6 hr drive to Toronto – January cold cold winter weather   & again driving back to Deep River (6 hours) – all during winter time. Luckily for me – the weather both times was somewhat  conducive   – did not have any storm or heavy now fall . What a break! This driving will always remain the high point – for making the trip successful.

18)  Charity – Thanks to Arun Buch & team – for juggling up some spare cash for donating to a Charity in Trinidad.     What a majestic and   satisfying  end.

 

 

Miracles of Christmas ( celebrating Christmas 2018 )

This article   was written to celebrate Christmas 2018. It has been circulated widely ( by e-mail) to many of friends and colleagues . Also it has been sent to local newspaper (North Renfrew Times) for publication.

Miracles of Christmas   ( celebrating Christmas 2018 )

With   winter setting in and snow in our backyard it seems that the Christmas is around the corner . With all the Christmas movies on Television, lights and decorations around the town , we are   looking forward to welcome the Santa Clause and enjoy the warmth of his jingle, laughter and joy.

Christmas is coming, with all its frippery and solemnity, its tinsel and hymns.   Our heart is in rhythm with the environment with warmth for our neighbors, colleagues , family and friends.

Christmas bestows magical touch   to our hearts. The celebration of Christmas has gone   global. It has jumped the Christian boundary and have penetrated in all cultures and societies the world over.   The image of Santa Clause delivering   gifts of toys to the kids around the world has mesmerized all.

We all enjoy the festivities and celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ on this earth.   He was a   personification of divine attributes that lie underlain in a human soul. This coming of Jesus was heralded and anointed by the three wise men from the East . The history of his struggles and ultimate crucifixion is well known and recited many times by his followers and others.

Lord Jesus’ message of   Love Thy Neighbors , Turn your other cheek,   Be warm and compassionate to all, Forgive   yourself and also your enemies   are time-tested messages which , if followed genuinely, can bring all nearer to Godly experience.

Christmas   brings out stories of   miracles experienced in daily lives of faithful . Miracles happen when true and genuine faith is observed   and then trusting Lord to do the helping as and where required.

One can read   “on line ” stories of miracles at Christmas time   –   which are told and described with care and true belief.  Reader’s Digest published in December 2017 issue   some   of these true stories about Christmas miracles from readers   that little details can turn an ordinary Christmas into a cherished   memory.

LINK: https://www.rd.com/true-stories/inspiring/christmas-miracles-true-stories/

I am sure that many of us have   personal story of miracles in our lives and most miracles happen around auspicious time like Christmas.

Remembering the miracles of Christmas is a great way to retain a sense of childlike wonder as we seek to keep the Lord at the center of it all.

On a larger world view   – we see miracles all around us. To my mind, the change of seasons, rising of the sun and moon,   gardens and living creatures all around us   under different conditions/circumstances is a   portrayal of miracles .

If we open our eyes , we can see miracles  affecting our community here in Deep River every day   –   a well run small town with excellent water supply, road systems, garbage collection , Police and Emergency Services etc. These  are well   organized and maintained. We have a fine   hospital, and many recreational activities . The most miraculous happening is excellent volunteering   by town’s citizens for myriad and varied activities.

I am always in wonderment when   I see dedication, commitment, education and training of many coaches of various activities in the Town  – who spend their time with smile to teach, coach and pass on their knowledge to our young and upcoming generation. Long days and week-ends are accepted with care and dedication.

These coaches/teachers are an embodiment of miracles especially when I see such joy and smile on our grandkids’   faces. Day in and day out.

In a broader sense , I have also noted an interesting miracle (sort of) at our Deep River Bridge Club.   Since I started playing in 2007, I have seen transformation in partnerships. There are now many couples who play as partners – a symbol of   love and respect. Of course , friendships are also   developed but when one sees a couple playing together as partners with cool and calmness – it is definitely bordering on a miracle.

The heart is thrilled and joyous that on the eve of 2018 Christmas, we have   some positive news items . The ” ground breaking ” ceremony   was held recently for a New Apartment Development right in the center of the Deep River town.   It seems contract agreement has been tentatively reached between the employer and professional employees at the Chalk River Laboratories. These news items infuse stability in our lives .     Christmas miracles !!

 

My wife (Jackie Shah) and I wish you all a life full of happy miracles.

Merry Christmas to you and your family . We also wish you all a very Happy Holiday and a successful New Year.

 

POEM – Our Priya – 2 year old ( Birthday Poem)

Poem written by her Bapuji celebrating her 2nd birthday ( Priya born on 22 December 2016).   She lives in Toronto with her parents and siblings (Maya & Kieran)

Priya – 2nd Year Birthday Poem   – 22 December 2018

A confident girl

very self assured

She always tries all activities

like a grown-up kid

A great companion to her siblings

 Her warm sister Maya

Her charming brother Kieran

Priya is super girl

Our Superstar

Her bold adventures are amazing

She has grace and great moves too

Her smile captures the heaven

What a bubbly girl

She makes her parents ga ga

Grandparents are all in awe

Her cuddling   cousins

Sitara and Sachin adore her

Our little girl loves life

Spreading such joy and happiness

We love you Priya

Your talk fascinates us all

Happy  2nd Birthday

We are proud of you

Ba and Bapuji

Love you   a lot

Love you a lot

Happy 2nd Birthday our amazing girl

 

Diwali 2018 – Renfrew County

The following is the little note   i wrote and circulated to all members of the Renfrew County Indian Community via deepem@googlegroups.com .

Dear friends ,

Diwali 2018 – Renfrew County

The auspicious Diwali party time arrived with a bang on Saturday 03 November 2018.

The Lions Hall in Chalk River was abuzz with laughter, hugs and shakes of hands between friends and also with strangers (most of who have recently arrived and settled down in Renfrew County).

The old mix of professionals have now transformed into mix of professionals and business community members. What a change we have seen in recent years !  We have now seen rejuvenation of the community with young families and many kids amongst us.   This brings excitement and energetic participation in the entertainment programs .

I was also pleasantly surprised to see many non-Indian friends of our community members joining us in this festival of Lights – celebrating  victory of good over evil.  We enjoy freedom, openness and dignity which behooves us to care for our friends and neighbors  and respect for others’ culture and traditions.  It is the premise on which our community survives.  In this country (where we have settled ) there is much camaraderie and equality and it is important that we respect these virtues .   Let us  welcome participation of many of our friends from the larger Canadian Society.

I being a senior and inching towards the ultimate goal , I found the cheers and just playfulness of many of our youngsters – from babies to teenagers to young adults in our Indian garbs at the Diwali party – to be  very enervating . The dances (individual and group) were varied from young kids to adults.  The dances really brought to the fore our cultural diversity with harmonious interplay. This enjoyment of our heritage  brings delight to my old soul and it definitely identified the colorful garden that is the Canadian society of which we have become one type of flowers amongst many others.  May we spread a scent so pleasing to all and sundry in our society.

What is heart pleasing is the selfless effort by many of our volunteers who devoted time and effort to make this party to become a successful and memorable event. Without these volunteers, the function could not have occurred . So I would like to congratulate all the volunteers for their devotion.   I am rather leaving out names as there are many of you who volunteered cheerfully.

However I would be remiss not to mention and thank my dear friend Ken Philipose and his wife Leela – who have taken initiative not only this year but also previous years to provide impetus and leadership to keep this cultural activity alive amongst our community in Renfrew County. This adds a flavour to ” Unity In Diversity”   in the society.  I am sure , hopefully others are stepping in the responsibility.

Happy Diwali to all and my wife Jackie Shah and I wish you all a very successful New Year . We  pray for the immense growth and progress of our community as part of the larger Canadian Community.

Pravin Shah