This post is a continuation of  the earlier posts ”” (Being Grandparents (paternal) -1, Being Grandparents (paternal)- 2,     Being Grandparents (paternal)-3 & Being Grandparents (paternal)-4””””  as the previous  posts were becoming a tad bit busy.

Thursday 10 May 2012

This day Maya   had gone to Huntsville with her mom & grandma   ( maternal ) from Toronto to visit her great grandparents ( Kathy’s parents ). They were to spend a night there .

Same day, Maya’s Ba & Bapuji were driving to Toronto from Deep River – her Bapuji was going to Toronto to attend an AGM of his Engineering Association and also to attend an Award Gala to recognise some selected Engineers for their volunteer service to the Engineering Association.   So on the way to Toronto they also stopped over at Huntsville to meet with Maya and her mom & folks. Maya and her mom had just recently returned back from their international travel to Switzerland where Maya met and coddled by her Aunt Erica and her boyfriend Matt.

Ba & Bapuji had not seen & played with Maya for about a couple of months and she is growing fast – now she is sitting   by herself and crawling etc.   So this was first opportunity for them to see her (in Huntsville!).   Well, when her Ba   & Bapuji arrived at Huntsville, they found Maya was having her afternoon nap. So her Ba & Bapuji spent time with Maya’s Mom & grandma and her great Grandfather. Her Grandmother was away attending a meeting (for Meals on Wheel)   – where she volunteers her time .     After spending about an hour, Ba/Bapuji left as they wanted to be in Toronto before traffic builds up in Toronto.   Maya had remained with her nap – and she was not disturbed at that time as her Ba/Bapuji were to spend time with her   in the coming days when return back to Toronto (from Huntsville) .

As summer is showing sign of appearing and weather becoming hotter (even now in May) , Maya is having a ball of a time. This is at a time even when there is bit of a mayhem at her home in Toronto – as the house is in a renovation phase – old kitchen is gutted and new one is being built – the work is progressing well but Maya requires to play in a restricted/constrined environment. She is holding on well. She goes (of course with her mom and sometime with her dad   like on Tuesday 8 May 2012 – after she returned back from Switzerland) to the park opposite to the house   (right across the road from house) and at time to picnic at other parks in the City.

Maya had her first swimming “lesson” ”” with her dad on Tuesday 8 May 2012   . What a great feeling for both father & daughter ( of course to all of us even far away – but looking at her photo (on her dad’s Facebook) with her dad in the   swimming pool gives us joy).

Wednesday   6 June 2012

Maya has become very active – rolling, crawling and just curious about going places on her own steam . She is becoming more independent and exploring new places in the house.   So last weekend, it happened .   She went down the stairs – getting out of parent’s bedroom – and had a tumble/roll over the  stairway .   Luckily she did not get hurt . So today  the baby gate was installed at the top of the   stair – The following sentiments were expressed in today’s e-mail  (with Maya’s photo exploring  the new gate ) by her mom

” Thanks to Grandpa for his help installing the baby gate last night and to Grandma for entertaining Maya while we struggled to assemble it. (Hopefully the second one will be easier!) As you can see from the photo, Maya is already trying to figure out how to open the gate but so far no luck… hopefully this will avoid any more nasty falls down the treacherous stairs! ”

Thursday 7 June 2012

Today it is her 10-month  birthday and she already is in throes of getting her tooth #8  .  This one seems to be causing her a lot of pain today, as well as a bit of a fever. She was chomping on frozen zucchini purée at her Grandma’s house to try and help with the sore gums.  

And tomorrow morning she is flying off  to Victoria, British Columbia with her mom and to be joined later by her dad (her dad has gone to Chicago for business appointment). She is turning out to be an extensive traveller – having just returned from Switzerland.  

Friday 8 June 2012

Maya & her mom arrived safely at Vancouver, British Columbia after a long flight late in the afternoon. We have arrived safely in BC after a long flight yesterday.

Maya was not feeling too well and has been very fussy, hoarse and drooling, so she might have a throat infection (according to her mom) in addition to the teething. Poor thing!

On Saturday (9 June 2012) Maya sported her nice striped tights – as she was attending a   wedding (her mom’s friend’s wedding) in the afternoon! Her dad also had joined Maya (& her mom) arriving from Chicago – where he had earlier gone for business needs.

The wedding was great . Elizabeth (Sarah’s mom) babysat Maya so that her parents could enjoy the reception.   On Sunday ( 10 June 2012) the family stayed with Sarah’s family in Victoria (who lived in a lovely house by the ocean). Maya was spotted playing with her daddy (climbing over him) at the park . She was definitely feeling a bit better today.

On Monday 11 June 2012 – Maya went and loved her first boat ride! Christopher, Sarah’s dad, was the captain (it’s his new job!) of a  Ferry   and thus   the family got a free tour of Victoria harbour

On Tuesday 12 June 2012 , Maya & parents were having a lovely day in Victoria. They went to a big park where Maya (along with her parents) fed the ducks, went to the playground and visited the petting zoo. Maya was feeling a lot better but still is having major issues with the time change.

Maya returned back to Toronto on Friday 15 June 2012 with her parents and on Saturday 16 June , her Ba/Bapuji   came over from Deep River (via Belleville – where her grandparents went to attend an Engineering Congress on Friday 15 June . Her Bapuji being taking part in volunteering for the Engineering Association)

Her Ba / Bapuji wanted to visit Maya and spend time with her and of course with her parents.   Maya was cuddled and hugged and kissed and played with. Maya did her strut – wanting to go walking across the house holding her Bapuji’s both fingers . She likes to go walking in the newly opened up space – as the old kitchen is now gone with new different and wider kitchen is in place -after renovation done recently.  There is wider place (not constricted ) space available for Maya to traverse.  Maya also went to the park across the road from the house with her Bapuji.   Her Ba/Bapuji returned to Deep River on Monday 17 June .     While in Toronto, her Ba attended a wedding shower on Saturday for Maya’s aunt Heather (her mom’s sister) – she went (car pooled)   with her maternal grandma and great grandma – and with her mom.

Miscellaneous – June 17 to June 29 2012

·                 Maya has now more than 8 teeth and like to show these off   with her stunning smile .   Photos have been taken of her pose with smiling face showing the glittering teeth.

·                 Maya had learnt to cross her fingers -as if wishing for something   or hiding some mischief and then crossing fingers to wish that she is not caught.

·                 She likes to go outdoors (specially it being summer) and always ready to climb into her stroller  (of course with the help of her mom or dad) and sometimes she digs into the stroller’s handle – as if she is hungry or want to sooth her itching gums.

·                 Now that she is trying to stand up and hold on to the edge of the sofa or held by her parents   – it is not surprising that she starts to poke into her dad’s computer   – funny enough that recently she did that but with a twist – also holding a baby story book about robots. This amused her dad quite a bit.

on Wednesday June 27   – her mom wrote on e-mail to the family ” Our playgroup went on a “field trip” to an awesome new playground and splash pad today. The play structure had some cool steps with lots of holes for kids to grab on to so Maya climbed up her first few stairs! ”   A series of photos show the sequence of Maya (Learning to climb stairs!) trying to climb the stairs.

Sunday 8 July 2012

This day Maya arrived in Deep River with her parents – after spending a couple of days in Ottawa.   She is a traveller – hoping from one place to another.

This is a special day as she came to Deep River to spend some 4 days ( upto Thursday) with her Ba, Bapuji and cousins here in Mackey.

The family had organised a welcoming party for her and her parents in the backyard (at Ba/Bapuji house in Deep River) and some of the friends in the Community (East Indian) were there to welcome them. These friends are with whom Sunir has grown with when in Deep River prior to going to University. They were pleased to  welcome Maya in their fold.   Also Ann & her friend Ena ( 90 year old) – acquaintance from Petawawa bridge club – also joined in to welcome Maya. Ann had driven all the way back from Ottawa after playing at a bridge tournament and before going to a barbeque at Pembroke.

Maya got lots of cuddles , hugs and playing times with many adults but more so with Sitara and Sachin.   A birthday cake was lighted and cut by Maya (of course helped by her mom & dad) . Also Sitara and Sachin revelled in the cake cutting and singing ” Happy Birthday . She turned 11 months yesterday but it was decided to celebrate her 1st Birthday early here in Deep River as  it would be difficult to participate in her birthday party at Toronto on 7 August as her cousins would also be celebrating Sitara’s 5th birthday here at Mackey.

After cake cutting and all the fun – she opened many gifts that she was showered with by all those guests who were present.     It was decided to open family gifts on coming Tuesday as otherwise it becomes a bit too much and overbearing for the young baby.

Monday  9 July 2012

Maya went to Lemure Beach in Deep River with   her parents and Ba.  She played in the sand and enjoyed herself.

Maya   is very friendly and have taken to her Ba & Bapuji well and plays with them in the morning after waking up.   She is inquisitive and takes all toys well and work out how to play with each and every one of these toys.   She definitely can play with “shape sorter” and also ring stacking.     She is also very fitting in with Sitara and also with Sachin. They play together like a team.

Tuesday 10 July 2012

The cousins came over from Mackey and spend most afternoon and evening together . Maya had a fun time -so did Sitara and Sachin. Sachin liked to play with his SunirMama who would lift him to twirl him in the air and Sitara would play with her ShannonMami who would read books to her.   Maya is the most coy girl and played with everyone.  After dinner, Maya opened birthday gifts from her Ba, Bapuji and cousins and their parents.   She has a car full of toys to lug to Toronto on Thursday.

Wednesday  11 July 2012

Maya’s parents went sailing with Ken in the afternoon – while Maya was dozing with Ba and Bapuji watching her. She was great girl – did not even make a sound until her parents were back.

A well behaved girl and she had a wonderful siesta to shake of tiredness of busy time for last few days.

Of course all days she spent in Deep River she would have a stroll walk with her mom or parents and go downtown or to Tim Horton on the Highway .

Thursday  12 July 2012

This   day Maya said “bye” to Deep River and left at about 9.00 am for Huntsville  – to her great great grandparents  home and from there to her grandparents  cottage to spendweekend there.       Note: At the cottage , she had great time outdoors but got stricken with some ‘sun stroke’ .   She also had a minor accident – she was being in her aunt Heather’s hands when unfortunately Heather tripped.  

Fortunately Maya seems to have recovered from these incidents.

Monday 23 July 2012

This was the first day when Maya was taken for an hour to the “daycare” . This is the place Maya will be spending her time in the coming days when her mom goes to work.

Her mom stayed with   her the whole time -as it was Maya’s first day.

Tuesday 24 July 2012

Today she went to daycare   for the morning part of the day . She was left alone by herself – no mommy there to give her company. Of course there were other kids and many toys.

She endured the separation bravely though broke into crying when mommy arrived to pick her up. It is also emotional for her mommy   – just to leave her baby with strangers.   They survived the day and are becoming ready for the next days to come.

Saturday 28 July 2012

This weekend Maya spent with her dad alone as her mom had gone to cottage to celebrate the “bachelorette party”   for her aunt Heather. It was the first time that her dad has been alone with Maya for an extended period of time.

Maya was very comfortable with being taken care of by her dad.

She has also started using the walker.   Quote from her mom’s e-mail report

” Maya has figured out how to walk with the walker so she has been doing laps up and down the main floor today. (She kind of looks like Gran using her walker!)

The daycare drop off still involved tears on Maya’s part this morning, but I managed to hold it together, so I guess that’s progress 😉 ”

Wednesday   1 August 2012

Unfortunately, Maya developed a fever yesterday while at daycare, so her mom had to leave work early to come pick her up. She seems a bit better today, but still not quite herself, and she is supposed to be 24 hours fever-free before returning to daycare, thus her mom is   working from home today. Fortunately she has the flexibility to do that since she is on a research block.   Hopefully Maya will be all better by tomorrow so her mom can return to her work.

So far it seems that it hasn’t been the smoothest transition to daycare and her mom working but it is a transition time for the baby and also for her mom.

Note:   kids do pick up viruses and other ailments when at school . This is born out from the fact   taht both Maya’s cousins – Sitara & Sachin – are always picking up something or another.   Kids have always to keep fighting the illnesses.

Thursday 2 August 2012

Maya had a little party (to celbrate her upcoming birthday) in the afternoon with some of her friend’s from playgroup.

She enjoyed of her cupcake (devoured in about 10 seconds flat). The name of her two friends in the PlayGroup   -Mia   and Ben .

During the weekend (Sunday 5 August) she had birthday party at her maternal grandparents   – followed by the real birthday party at her parents’ home on 7 August 2012   – her   birthday. She had few friends (with their parents) over.

Now she is well versed with knowing and eating cupcakes   .

Shortly after her birthday – a couple of days later   – she took a couple of steps on her own. So pretty soon she will be walking on her own all over.

Wednesday   22 August 2012

Ba/Bapuji   travelled to Toronto to stay with Maya and family. Her mom’s sister (Heather)   is getting married to Ryan   at the Golf Club (Donalda Club off North York Road) on Saturday 25 August 2012 and Ba.Bapuji will attend the wedding but will stay at home during the dinner/reception -to look after Maya when she would be sleeping . Her parents can then have a worry free celebration at the Club.

On Friday evening Maya went with her parents for rehersal and then dinner at her maternal grandparents home – a pre-wedding dinner by Heather’s in-laws but at her parents’ home. Ba/Bapuji also joined in the dinner and revellery.

On Saturday 25 August 2012   – the wedding was in the afternoon at 5.00 p.m – Maya was to participate as a ” flower girl ” along with Ryan’s two nieces.   Maya (in fact all three girls) was dressed repledently in cute white dress with purple laces and also a purple hair pin.   She was as ever a happy girl – she was accompanied by her mom – holding her one hand – so Maya can walk without falling down. She has just started to take a step on her own and not yet walking by herself. At the end of the long walk to bride/bridegroon alter -she was welcomed by her proud dad and held so warmly by him. Maya and other two “flower girls”   -each was carrying   a silver basket full of flowers -for guest to shower on the newly proclaimed couple.

After the wedding and cocktail thereafter   – Maya was taken by car by her Ba/Bapuji to home and after some play she went to sleep soundly in her nursery room.   Note: At the cocktail, Maya was really photographed, played with and cajoled by many guests – particularly she enjoyed playing   with her Garndma ( Kathy) and also all the great- great grand parents ( Rae & Ken, Opal & Ray) . She was the star – her aunts were all loving her. Her Aunt Heather was in a very resplendant wedding gown and new uncle Ryan was well suited in black.

Maya got a set of gold bangles   to wear during the wedding – however she only wore it during Friday dinner . She also got pink pants & coat from Ba/Bapuji   for her wear.

Ba/Bapuji left for Deep River on Monday (27 August 2012)   after nice time in Toronto – even though her Bapuji was a bit wobbly due to ear infection – his right ear has gone deaf and he is on medication.

Thursday 30 August 2012

Talking to her dad in the evening of Thursday, it was found that she has started to take few steps by herself ( at least 5 or 6 at a time) . Wow! – pretty soon she will be walking by herslf all over.

Note: Over last couple of week Maya has started saying words like “baby”   , “Mummmm”, “Mommy”. She does communicates by signalling or touching. She identifies toys and stuff that she wants and can let know she has completed eating.   If her dad or mom persists feeding her – as a last resort she throws the food on the floor.

Saturday 15 September 2012

This day Maya had a visitor from far away. Her dad’s great uncle (Kantikaka ) had come to visit Canada (via London, UK) from Nairobi ,Kenya. Kantikaka is the eldest brother of her Bapuji. He spent the day at her parents’ home and then went to his froend’s home to spend few days with his friend in Mississauga.   Kantikaka was addressed as “Mota Bapuji” – the elder grandfather for Maya.

He came back to visit again on Wednesday 19 September and stayed at her parents home for three (3) days before going to Deep River with her Bapuji.

Maya’s Ba & Bapuji had come over from Deep River on Friday 14 September 2012   – to spend a week with Maya and her parents – though her dad went to USA on Monday 17 September 2012 (early morning) for   a week.

Note: More writing for interplay   with ” Mota Bapuji ” see my Post ” My Brother Kanti’s visit to Canada “

Saturday 6 October 2012

Today was Maya’s first sleep over at her Grandparents (maternal) home   – this facilitated her parents to attend a wedding ( Brandan’s – Her dad school friend from Deep River) . In fact her dad was Brandon’s main guy (best man) at the wedding.

Sunday 18 November 2012

To-day, Maya’s Ba & Bapuji visited Maya and her parents – coming/driving from Deep River on Friday 16 November 2012 . Her Bapuji was attending a Chapters Leaders Conference (for PEO) & an OSPE Award Gala – staying at Toronto Airport Merriott Hotel for two (2 nights ) .

Note:   at the Gala – her Ba won a Coffee Maker from Personal Insurance Co.

Maya’s parents and Maya had lunch together with her Ba & Bapuji and then after lunch and Maya’s afternoon snooze – it was decided to go to Ram mandir (in Mississauga at 270 Export Blvd, Mississauga, ON L5S 1Y9 – Telphone : (905) 696-8886 )- a Hindu Temple – where there also is Shree Jalaram’s idol .   The Temple -inner sactum) was occupied when Maya with her dad & grandprents (paternal) arrived. Her mom could not join as she was “on call’ from her medical duties and thus rather tied up.

As the main temple area was occupied , it was decided to have a small puja ( thanking Gods for the arrival of Maya on this earth) . This was readily accommodated by one of the presiding priests in the temple.   A puja was offered by Maya , her dad & her grandparents – necessary offerings were made and tilak and “rakhi ” were applied to each member of the family.   The whole process went smoothly- Maya getting engrossed in it   and eventually sitting down near the Ganesh’s Idol and then retriving a portion of the “Prasadi” offered and then eating it joyfully along with her dad.

Her Ba & Bapuji stayed at Maya’s home till Tuesday morning. So on Monday & Tuesday morning, Maya’s Bapuji joined her dad to take Maya (by a stroller) to the Daycare centre on Melrose Road . The Day care centre is very close to where Maya & her parents live.     In the evening of Monday , Maya’s Ba & Bapuji picked her up from the Day care centre – after they had been to a “matinnee”   movie – a 007 movie called SkyFall . This movie was watched at the Cinema on Eglinton Road – movie starting on at 1.00 pm and finishing at 3.35 p.m.   After that they returned back to Lawrence Station (by subway – an underground train) near the Daycare Centre.

Maya was all preppy – talking with her Ba along the way to the home. She notes/spotted the early moon in the sky – which her Ba/Bapuji were not aware of – but she did point the moon out – by saying “mooon”   “mooon”   and raising   her hand towards the moon in the sky.   For a girl of only 15 months -that was quite sharp.

This post is a continuation of  the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents – 2, Being Grandparents – 3, Being Grandparents – 4, Being Grandparents – 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents  -9  ,  Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12,  Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15,    Grandparents -16,  Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24,  Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26, Grandparents-27,Grandparents -28, Grandparents -29 & Grandparents -30)  as the previous  posts were becoming a tad bit busy.

Mid-May 2012
These kids are fortunate that their parents are quite   focussed on the kids’ progress. Over the year, they (both kids – at each one’s level) have had swimming classes, skiing classes, gym and also music classes. The parents take them from Deep River to Petawawa.

Further, they are on travel whenever the parents can take them to new places. They have visited many museums, playgrounds , zoos , marine parks   – from Sudbury to Ottawa to Toronto to Niagara falls to USA etc. They also have gone overseas to beach resorts from Mexico and Cuba.
Just recently they had been to Sudbury (Thursday 5 April to 8 April 2012) and have gone to a resort in Mexico (3 May 2012 to 11May 2012) and after that they returned back (on Monday 21 May 2012) from USA visiting Sunjay’s cousin.

Their nana/nani are very much enriched by the kids’ activities and specially their visits to nana/nani home whenever an opportunity comes . Some sleep over and some times looking after them whenever their parents get tied up elsewhere.

Their nana/nani enjoy their shopping these days as when shopping they have kids in their minds   and buy for kids (even token gifts – something small) whenever they buy food, clothes and miscellaneous – whatever catch their eyes.   They enjoy playfulness , love and smiles by kids.

Saturday 9 June 2012 , the kids went with their parents to   a Petting Zoo in Petawawa and had a great time there – all out doors and with animals. Then on Sunday, Their parents took them to the “Touch the Truck” show in Ottawa . This was exciting and the kids (specially Sachin) enjoyed riding various trucks.   They spent Tuesday 12 June 2012 at their nana/nani home (Sitara was picked up by her nana after school from her baby-sitter’s home) . Note: Sitara goes by bus to her baby-sitter’s home after her junior KG school (at Mckenzie Community School ) .

This day Sachin got a hair-cut by her mom (at his nana/nani home). He is even more handsome with the hair-cut.

Sunday 10 June 2012   to Friday 29 June 2012

Both kids do visit their nana/nani home in Deep River   – mostly on Tuesdays and Thursdays (when their mom is not at work).   What they have been noticing is that their nana/nani home has a new roof , a patio deck in the front of the house   (full width of front ) and also a gazebo at the backyard   -so outdoor picnic can be had without the sun on the head.
A barbeque was arranged on Tuesday 26 June – as the backyard is now ready for such fun. A   fun kiddie swimming pool was also inflated in the yard so the kids can frolic around .

Sitara’s first year of junior KG was ended on Thursday 28 June and now she has no school during the summer months – so she will be spending time at her baby-sitter (Jeannett) home in Deep River – once again with Sachin -as he goes thee regularly.   This day (Thursday 28 June)-in the afternoon-   Sachin went to Ottawa with his dad to consult a dentist specialist for Sachin’s teeth growth.

Sunday 2012 July 01 to Sunday 15 July

This was a momentous time for the kids.

1) They have got a huge trampoline installed by their dad in the front yard close to their   “swing and slide set “.
”   A trampoline is a device consisting of a piece of taut, strong fabric stretched over a steel frame using many coiled springs.   People bounce on trampolines for recreational and competitive purposes.”

” Awesome Pantomime in Ottawa today!! Sitara sat right in the front and asked when she could be in a show too. Sachin got right into it Booing all the villains emphatically and dancing in the isle! Can’t wait until next year!”

A   description of the Pantomime  

Puss in Boots – Pantomime – A family holiday tradition in Britain, the audience is encouraged to cheer for the good guy, boo at the bad guy and even sing along. Adults will love the double entendre, cross dressing actors and local humour. Children will adore the slapstick chases, larger than life animals and general buffoonery. Children, parents and grandparents will laugh until their sides hurt!

Tuesday 20 November 2012

This day both nana/nani returned back from Toronto – having gone there on Friday 16 November 2012 to attend a conference by nana – ( PEO Chapters Leaders Conference and OSPE Award Gala – staying at Toronto Airport Marriott Hotel on Friday & Saturday and then on Sunday/Monday with Maya and her parents (Sunir/Shannon) .

They returned early by 3.00 p.m as Sachin was to come to nana/nani home   – his mom dropped him at about 3.30 pm -and then went to pick up Sitara from school and then take her for the swimming .

Nana was in his computer room when Sachin came over. He was welcomed by his nani . After that Sachin came over   surreptitiously downstairs to the computer room and very politely told his nana that he wants to play with his nana. So his nana goes upstairs with Sachin – there thay play together with play cars and trucks for about   half an hour or so.

Sachin tells his nana that his (nana’s) tea is   ready – his nani had asked him to tell nana about the tea ( by the way at that time his nani was outdoors – sweeping the footpath in front of the house – there were so many squashed cherry blossoms from the tree on the front yard) . So both nana & sachin go in the kitchen and sit atb the table for tea & cookies. Of course Sachin did not have tea but his chocolate milk ( he knew about that- which he had brought with himself from McDonald’s – after his music class in Petawawa and had put the chocolate milk bottle in the Refrigerator) .

After the tea (or milk) & cookies – both retired to Sachin’s room – where they played for a while with soft brown football and as nana was tired from long travel from Toronto – he lies down on the bed with Sachin tucked along with him   . Now the fun starts – nana asked Sachin whether he wants to have any books read. So he collects two (2) Thomas   character books – which are his favourite       . Now nana askes him – would he likes to read those to nana – oh please read to me – says his nana as he was feeling tired from long drive and appreciate the books read to him.

So Sachin – forever a considerate grandson – first get the blankets cover properly over – one for each one and then asks nana to pull the dark curtain down so there is no outside light streaming in the room . Then we have the side light on – Sachin does read the books for nana – of course he really cannot read at his age but he reads by making out story of Thomas looking at all the pictures in each book . And when he completes the first book (in his own   way – making out a nice story) he ends the” book reading ” with an   expression “The End” . He does that for both books as he ends each book.   After the story nana turns over and shuts the side light out and tries to go to sleep . Sachin also goes to sleep . So nana had the best sleep -snooze of the day , week , month , year etc.
What a grandson! – so polite and considerate.

After that his dad came over (when his workday was over ) and then his mom & Sitara came from swimming . When nana woke up – Sitara was in the bathtub having her bath after swimming . Sachin was waken up a bit later by his dad for dinner.   However, plan changed a bit – Sachin went with his dad to Valumart for Grocery Shopping . Others started the dinner and then when Sachin came back from Valumart – his dad & him joined in at the dinner table.

Sitara finished her dinner and so did her nana. Then her nana read her one book (Pinky & Rex) propr to him goinmg way for playing Duplicate bridge ( card   game) at the Luthren Church   on Avon Street.

Saturday 24 November 2012

This day was a packed day for the kids.   After the gym in the morning at Petawawa, they went to Pembroke to watch the play ” The Little Mermaid”   at the Festival Hall (401 Isabella St., Pembroke) at 2.00 p.m in the afternoon with theri parents. Their nana/nani also joined them   to the play. It was very entertaining play by volunteers (mostly kids) from pembroke. After the play, they went with their parents to Tim Horton (on Pembroke St where also the   East Side Mario restaurant is locate) for refreshment and their nana/nani went to Home Depot to buy an outdoor carpet ( 3 ft * 4 ft) -the carpet for the patio in the front of the house in Deep River.   Their nana/nani joined them at Tim Horton and at 5.45 went out to the Pembroke St to watch the Santa parade – which was well done with many lighted floats – some like Thomas engine and boats . So kids were again busy watching the parade – thoug h it was cold and breezee . Thanks to their parents that they had brought correct winter clothing for the kids. Their nana/nani got cold and watched the parade for a short time and then retired to the car for warmth. This is waht their mom wrote on her Facebook   ” Froze out bums off at the Carribean Santa Claus parade in Pembroke.”  
After the parade was over-a bout 6.30 pm – all went (trooped in) to East Side Mario for dinner. Both kids had a great time having dinner and after dinner they went home (to deep River) with their mom & nani ( in their nana’s car) and there they went to sleep . Their dad & nana went in their parents car to Petawawa to pick up a painting commissioned ( by their parents ) from an artist living in Petawawa .   The commissioned painting is called ” Calming Sunset On The Water ” painted by Nina’s friend and an artist Ms Denise Lenoir.

While the kids were having their sleep at nana/nani home, their parents went for a dance party at Deep River Legion hall   . This is what their mom wrote on her Facebook ” And had a fun night out dancing with friends in DR…all in all a fun but full day! ” .

After the fun night and dancing, theeri parents came over to nana/nani home after mid-night and picked   up the kids (still sleeping) and drove them to Mackey.
Next day on Sunday ,the following was entered into their mom’s Facebook .

“Christmas light have been hung. Getting yard work done. Enjoyjng this gorgeous day outside after the first snowfall of the season! Maybe I can convince someone to put the tree up today too…”

and separately

“the kids are cleaning their rooms so they can have one tree in their rooms then i am dragging the tree upstairs. Sunj is under the deck wiring up the hottub for so we can use it this winter. 🙂“

Between   Saturday 24 November 2012 & Tuesday 26 December 2012

The kids were as usual busy with their swimming, music and gymansics sessions till all outside planned activities stopped for the Christmas   holidays.

They spent some days and  nights (sleep over) with nana/nani – when that become suitable or when the parents were away. The kids loved to have a sleep over at their nana/nani home

On Saturday 15 December 2012 — Nina & kids came over (and thus slept over) as the electric power was gone off -all over Renfrew and beyond– on Friday evening (and the next day Sunjay had to go to work at 7.30 am – some emergency at work place) and thus the house at Mackey did not have water and it was getting a bit cold as heating was off due to power failure.

The Deep River power was restored earlier so it was safer to be in Deep River.   Sunjay also worked on Sunday but that day Mackey power was restored so all went back to Mackey on Sunday evening after dinner at nana/nani home.  

Mackey house have a diesel Generator but it was not started for it was not thought necessary (expecting that power will be restored soon – which it was not)   and Sunjay had to to work early on Saturday.

Apart from  the above disruption (which included  a nice “sleep over” at nana/nani’s) – the kids   – both Sitara & Sachin – at other times  went for skating, skiing and spent time making ‘Snowman’ and by and large enjoying the winter and snow.

They also went to many Christmas parties as well as shopping with their parents. I am sure thay saw and chatted up many Santa Clauses and Sitara also wrote to the Santa Clause at North Pole – from whom she received a reply .

To top it all up – one of Sitara’s painting at her KG class (at MacKenzie Community School) was one of those got picked for publication in the local newspaper (North Renfrew Times) – Christmas pull out section-   of Wednesday 19 December 2012   and she was very happy about that . Both parents   and grandparents were very proud – for her first Newspaper entry. Besides, her painting was in the NRT edition in which one of her nana’s “Letter To Editor” article was also published – re: his anguish at the Shooting at the NewPort School .

Sachin was all excited about the Christmas – at 3 1/2 , he dreams of many toys but also this time he was taken (mesmerised) in by a ” stuffed seahorse” and was asking his mom as where is the Seahorse’s mummy. So Nina went overdrive and spent many happy hours (went in the wee hours)   – finding/developing a design and pattern and then sewing/making a   “mummy seahorse ” – all blue and really a fit to the already existing Sachin’s   baby “stuffed seahorse’.   On Christmas day he got his surprise and went to sleep with these in his arms.

On Tuesday’s   Christmas Party at one of our friends in Deep River (Sam, Kamla & their daughters Asha & Roopa) , both kids had a fun night. They were coddled and played with by all those who were present but by both Asha & Roopa. Also there were Kevin & Hiten ( two brothers) – whom Sitara know from before. Both Sachin & Sitara were very comfortable playing with these 4 youngsters along with the adults present there .

Again, a miracle happened – for which we were not prepared, during the Christmas carol singing – led by Roopa (on the piano) and all joining in (including Sitara – though Sachin was enjoying too but he shyly kept playing his electronic game) and when all the carols were sung and then came to the occassion what other songs to sing – Sitara provided her  input in that – she was not shy at all – feeling free like with her own family.

But more she became an “entertainer ” amd a “performer” herself – helped and encouraged by Roopa and Nina. Sitara sang ( or led singing) three (3) carols – all difficult ones but she knew about these and had remembered the words (lyrics) and sang beautifully. For all present it was surprise entertainment but for nana/nani it was a “magical” moment -to be savoured and remembered .

Our Sitara has come out on stage – first in the NewsPaper and then out at the singing to a live crowd/audience. Her first debut in the public light -a historic moment in her young life.

Bravo – our Christmas 2012 wrote for us a great memory for the future.

On a different note – Her nana’s article on   ” Christmas 2012 ” was published in the North Renfrew Times   edition Tuesday 24 December 2012.

 

This post is a continuation of  the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents – 2, Being Grandparents – 3, Being Grandparents – 4, Being Grandparents – 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents  -9  ,  Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12,  Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15,    Grandparents -16,  Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24,  Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26, Grandparents-27,Grandparents -28 & Grandparents -29)  as the previous  posts were becoming a tad bit busy.

Thursday 22 December 2011

Only few days  left for the Christmas Day celebrated as by  the Christians.    However this celebration is also weaved into festivities by non-Christians also all over the world. It is getting to be the end of the Calender year  and this leads to holiday spirit to ring in the new year.

It is about this time many people go on vacation to travel to be with their  family (who may be in different city, province or country.)   With this sort of social movement at this time. Sitara/Sachin’s baby-sitter and family took time off to go away from Deep River  to be with their family. So both kids were a bit stranded when their dad was  working on Thursday & Friday  ( some people have to work to keep the society functioning) .

Well not quite – their nana/nani were very pleased to have Sachin spend the day with them (brought by his mom – who has a free day) on Thursday and Sitara joining them after the school . Sitara was picked up from school by her mom (as she skipped using the school bus as she really cannot dis-embark at her baby-sitter’s home – as the baby-sitter & family had gone away for Christmas)  .In the evening their  dad joined in after work -all had good dinner.

It was fun the whole day playing with Sachin – who is very mature for his age – likes to talk with his nana/nani & also express his love for nana/nani often times. He is a gentle kid -always with a chuckle and engaging eyes.   In the evening after dinner, both Sachin & his sister Sitara had a ball playing together and also with their nana/nani . want to play “monster chasing”   and sliding over nana’s legs/feet.

Both kids spent a sleep-over at their nana/nani   – this gives them fun time with their nana/nani and also a respite to their parents in the morning when Sitara has to be got ready for school and then brought to her baby-sitters home (where Sitara  picks her school bus) . However, her baby-sitter was not  available on Friday   23 Dec 2011 (as they had gone away for Christmas) . So her nana took her to school on Friday at 9.00 am and dropped her right at the ‘Kiddie park’ where they play before junior KG class starts.   She got picked from the school by her dad  . Their mom was working this day and thus could not join in for dinner but kids, their dad & nana/nani had dinner together and after that lots of fun playing different games.   They went to Mackey with their dad) (at about   8.30 pm) – they really want to spend more time with their nana/nani and they try to delay but ultimately they had to go as they need their rest and sleep.

Sunday 25 December 2011

It was the Christmas day ( Santa day) for the kids and their parents. Both nana/nani went to Mackey at 11.30 am to have fun with the kids when opening their gifts . The kids had many gifts from their parents , from each other and from their nana/nani.

Before lunch -all had a few photos taken around the lighted Christmas tree  and then the gifts were opened. Kids were waiting patiently for this moment  – good kids . They are well behaved and loved the gifts – each one of them – there were many different types. Sachin really enjoyed the stuffed Dinosaur as well as a  huge mechenical Dinosaur  – making deep threatening sound. Sitara had a remote control car to play with. Both also had a train-set (which run with hand manipulation – no battery )- a big one all installed on a table ( the table came with the train set) . All assembled by their dad the previous day .

After that all had lunch and then few play momnets with nana/nani – then Sachin went for his normal afternoon nap . Sitara then played with her mom, and with her nana or nani and by herself.     After Sachin woke up, both kids played with their nana/nani .

After dinner , all were getting a bit tired . nana/nani left for Deep River and kids got ready for their rest for the night.

Holiday schedule after having spent a delightful  Christmas Day on Sunday 25 December 2011 at Mackey with kids and their parents.

Monday 26 December 2011   – SunirMama/ShannonMami along with Maya drove to Huntsville (on their way to Deep River) and spend a night with Shannon’s maternal grandparents . Maya had a great time being coddled by her great grandparents .

Sitara & Sachin rested at their home (in Mackey) with their parents  –after a hectic, exciting and joyful Christmas Day with so many different gifts.

Nana/nani rested at their home in Deep River – and  also making preparation (making bed ready and living room ready for Maya) to make SunirMama/ShannonMami’s visit to Deep River/Mackey and area comfortable and pleasant.

Tuesday 27 December 2011 – Maya arrived in Deep River a bit late in the afternoon with her parents – all drove safely to the destination.

All got relaxed- parents had light lunch ( vegetable soup – freshly made ) and Maya – in her usual smiling way settled down well .

Both Sitara & Sachin came over in the evening with their parents ( after having first gone to a party – at one of their friend’s home in Deep River) . All had dinner together . Both Sitara & Sachin having completely awed by their SunirMama & ShannonMami and also with Maya. They just adore Maya and   coddled her and played with her – but also their Mama & mami played with them and had great bonding interactions ( as usual) .

Kids went home late in the evening – having stayed longer than usual to enjoy and play with Maya and with their Mama & Mami.   The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground.

Wednesday 28 December 2011 – kids stayed home with their dad as their mom was working on this day and their Mama/Mami – along with Maya- spent time with kids’ nana/nani ( Sunir’s parents) in Deep River . It was a quiet day .

Thursday 29 December 2011 – kids were delighted to come over to Deep River – a bit before lunch- with their parents. They had a lovely time playing with and coddling Maya and also them being coddled by their Mama/Mami.   After wonderful lunch, theafternoon was fun except Sachin was to have his usual afternoon  nap  (in the temporary playpen – being set up in nana’s computer room) .     Sitara did craft work with her ShannonMami .

This day was a celebratory day as the family were to exchange gifts for holidays (this is the second gift giving – this is becoming a tradition   ) First on Christmas Day – celebrated in Mackey – for Sitara/Sachin there were gifts galore and now today – more gifts from their Mama/Mami & family.   Maya had her gifts on Christmas Day – celebrated at her grandparents (Shannon’s parents) in Toronto before driving next day to Huntsvile and then afterwards to Deep River .

Both kids were excited as gift were exchanged before Sachin was to go for his afternoon nap. Both Sitara & Sachin got wonderful gits from their Mama/Mami

Baby Maya too got great gifts from her cousins, Fuva ( uncle) & Fai (Aunt) .

In the evening all had a great dinner together  with cheers (with wine) .   The kids stayed longer than usual again before returning  to Mackey  with  their parents.   The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground .

Friday 30 December 2011

Kids came over to Deep River with their mom ( their dad to come later after finishing some work at home) to play with Maya and their Mama/Mami.  Both nana/nani took a breather – only to be there to provide any supporting role.   Mama/Mami had gone for cross-country skiing when the kids arrived at Deep River home.   But they did come back from skiing within half hour .   Kids dad joined in later when lunch was served.

The afternoon went as usul with merry making- playing with Maya, Sitara & Sachin   (as became necessary or as wanted by each adult or kid) . Of Course Sachin had his usual afternoon nap.

All kids were a delight.   There is o much politeness and smiles . Maya gave many conversation style noises and smiles.

After dinner, all went home to Mackey – this evening they went a bit early than usual as kids’ parents  were making preparation for the New Year eve  bash (to welcome the new year 2012) to which the whole family was participating -next day on Saturday 31 December 2011.

Saturday 31 December  2011

This is the final day of the year 2011. The kids stayed  in Mackey with their parents  – later in the morning joined by their nana/nani  and also by Maya & her parents ( Kids’ Mama/Mami) .

As usual all had great lunch, played with kids (Sitara, Sachin & Maya)    and  Sachin had afternoon nap -his normal  ) not too much this day –   as he was very excited for fun with all the visitors  to celebrate the last day of the year.

After dinner and some playing with kids – at 10.00 pm – the adults decied to welcome the new year at that time rather   than waiting till mid-night -as the kids had to go to sleep – so using technology – the welcome fireworks were shown from TV ( taped from places like Sydney in Australia) as they get their new year earlier than the northern    people -the kids were shown this welcome of new year on TV – everyone welcomed the new year and gave cheers to each other .

The kids then went to bed after a bit of coaxing by parents.

Both nana/nani & Mama/mami & Maya spent the night at Mackey .

Sunday 1 January 2012

Welcome  New Year 2012 .     In the morning kids got up and Maya was as usual up early – all just had great joyful interaction.

After breakfast -a BlacK Forest cake   (baked by kid mom) was brought out. This was not cut the previous night as it was thought appropriate it have it cut on the first day of 2012 – and also it helps to keep the kids away from eating sweets late in the evening before going to sleep .

The cake was cut with much gusto and fun. Sitara helped to cut and distribute the cake for enjoyment. Both Sitara and Sachin enjoyed partaking of the cake – so did the adults.     After that their SunirMama/ShannonMami got into the car with Maya and left for Huntsville and then onwards to Toronto – to return to their home.     Both nana/nani also then left for Deep River.

Tuesday 3 January 2012

The kids went to Ottawa with their parents for a few days – for vacation.

Friday 6 January 2012   –  It seems that the kids are a having a ball of a time in Ottawa per photos etc on their mom’s Facebook entry.

They have been to Museum of Nature, Reptile Musuem etc and have enjoyed all the different animals as well as various dinosaurs sketletons and  other features.

Tuesday 10 January 2012

This day kids’ mom (Nina) went for downhill skiing lesson after dinner at nana/nani home in Deep River  . The kids had a great time at nana/nani home but they went to Mackey early with their dad (after theri mom left for skiing lesson)  .

Saturday 14 January 2012

This day Sachin came to Nana/nanai home early in the morning – dropped by his parents when they were going to Ottawa with Sitara. Sitar had a doctor’s appointment for allergy tests.   Sachin brought lots of fun and livened up Saturday for his nana/nani.

Here are the results of Sitara’s allergy test – doen by Dr. Ham Pong.

The below is the message from Sitara’s mom by e-mail.

Sachin was as ususal very loving and playful. He did puzzles and some art work. Played hide & seek ( he likes to play out  “Bad Wolf” from 3 Little Pigs scenerio – for the hide & seek game  ) .   Always polite and lots of ” I love you ” nana   or nani.   He went home late about 10.00 pm picked up by his parents – arriving back from Ottawa.

It was a cold day  outside – temperature  below – 20 degrees – thus Sachin stayed indoors .

Tuesday 17 January 2012

This day winter really arrived . Sachin had come home with his mom and waas just happy to be with his nana/nani . Played with both nana/nani – puzzles, and miscellanous toys etc. Afternoon had his usual nap when his mom went for a dental. Sitara was at school and was picked up by her mom at late afternoon.

She was playful when she came but was showing a bit sulkiness at dinner time. It was rather very taxing if she does not eat   normally. It so happened that         she must have picked a bug for stomach flu and she later threw up on the living room carpet and all that .   Her nana was away at that time – having gone for his bridge card game.  Her mom was not there either having gone for downhill ski lesson .   After bridge session, nana came home & started to shovel the driveway ( high pile of snow to-day) & then When Kids’s mom came back from her ski lesson, she  joined in to help shovelling the snow – which then was  aggain helped by kids’ nani who came oput to help also. It was a storm with lots of snow. So three people shovelling snow – helped to do the job faster even when the Municiplaity Road crew threw more snow on the driveway.

The kids and parents spent the night in Deep River as there was lots of snow falling and due to accident -the Hwy 17 was  and further the road leading (from Hwy 17) upto Mackey house  would not have been plowed at that time.

So it was prudently decided to stay over in Deep River .

However, next day (Wednesday 18 January) Sitara was   still feeling down and lo behold – Sachin also got the bug and he   threw up and then also had diahorreal attack too.   Both kids were down- their mom was worried that the contagion do not spread specially to their nani as well as nana.   Both parents had to go to work   but nana brought  disinfectant (Lysol & also Clorox liquid from Valumart early in the morning  ) – spread the Lysol on all knobs , railings and wgereever. Cleaned all chairs, tables etc where kids may have  been with Clorox.       Nani   remained busy cleaning up carpet and verious cloths , towels etc to get the germs eliminated.

Kids were weak but very understanding and trying not to give much trouble to their nana/nani . They did not get anything to eat except some water – 2 figerful only (with pulpless orange juice) . However, Sitara had two slices of raisin bread after she    woke up – without any milk .     This did not remained in her   stomach for too long.   She was cool – had her nana read at least three books in the Rec Room downstairs  – she played and made puzzles – all with calmness even when her stomach was upset . She had endurance .     After a   while – the whole shabhang came out upstairs in the living room carpet . The carpet and all the towels- which were kept ready in case – were needed cleaning  – keeping nani busy  .

Sachin was  a bit whining but remained   otherwise  cool . Both kids were also kept entertained by TV . Their dad came home at lunch time – had taken afternoon off to look after the kids. The kids are fortunate to have loving parents  . Their dad then took them to Mackey just  after 1.00 pm – so they can ret in their bed and  recover there.

Their mom came to Deep River home after her work ( late in the evening about 9.30 pm) and she wanted to be sure that all is okay – she sanitized Sachin’s crib  (with Lysol –  wiping all over ) before going to Mackey  .  She wanted to do her best that kids’ nana/nani do not catch the bug.

The next week upto Thursday 25 January 2012

The kid’s dad got down with stomach flu   and kids and their mom came and bunked at nana/nani home for two nights ( Tuesday & Wednesday). The kids parents lost their Saab car (on Monday – after the kids were picked up by their dad from the baby-sitter) due to clutch mechanism failure – they used nana/nani spare car ( Chryslar maroon mini-van) . The Saab was ready by Thursday (25 January). Dad recovered in two days . Sitara stayed home on Thursday – has sniffling cough.

This week their cousin Maya’s mom (in Toronto) also was down with flu and Maya’s dad had to take a couple of days off work to stay home to look after Maya and her mom.

Monday 23 January 2012

This day saw a frightening expereince for the kids. The road from Mackey to Deep River was slippery due to wet snow falling. Theri mom was hit with black ice – car skidded and went around gfew times on the road – lucky that there was no traffic in the morning on the road – so all ended okay fianaly – a relef to all.

Kids were a bit frighetened especially Sitara   as she is now 41/2   years old and can see / understand the danger.

Sunday 29 January 2012

Both nana/nani had gone to Toronto on Friday 27 January – nana had an Engineering Congress to attend and thus used this time also to visit the kids’ cousin Maya and their Mama/Mami

While nana/nani were away- kids had a great time sking on Sunday at Mount Martin Ski Hill in Deep River. This is what Sachin’s mom wrote on her Facebook about Sachin’s enjoyment.

” Is so proud of little Sachin. He skiied down the hill about 6 or 7 times this weekend (a lot for a 2 year old) exclaiming to everyone “I was up there (pointing to the top of the hill) and now I’m down here!!!” He was all smiles and full of pride! 🙂     “

Of Course, Sitara is skiing like a pro these days. She enjoys skiing- and that is good for a Canadian girl – growing in a snowbound country – this sport will keep her getting entertained always.

Tuesday 7 January 2012

Oh! this day Sunjay found out from Deep River hospital ER visit that he has inflamed appendix – needs to be operated on. So he had surgery at Pembroke General Hospital at 5.00 pm and was back at home next day in the evening.

So on Tuesday  , the kids and mom stayed (sleep over) at Deep River with nana/nani .

The kids and parents bunked down at grardparents  – for saftey and healthand comfort.

On Friday 10 January 2012 – kids, their mom and nana/nani went to  Hull at Jacques Cartier Park to be at the SnowFlake Kingdom -as put on every year at that park.   That gave their dad a quiet time at home to rest and recover from his surgery.

Both Sitara and Sachin enjoyed every minute at the Park – ice sculptures , ice slides, Beaver tail snack and Maple Syrup taffy . push ski chair etc,

After time at the park, all went ( at about 7.10 pm ) to a Thai dinner at a Thai restaurant on Carling Road and then returned back to Deep River -close to mid-night.   Note: Somehow Sachin lost one of his favourite (blue) glove . How and where remains a mystery and this was much debated and much effort was expended to search/locate it but to no avail. This gk=love has been located at the Thai restaurant and will be picked up on Feb 23 by nana/nani when they  will visit Ottawa.

Sunjay had to be rushed back to Pembroke  Hospital emergency on Saturday (11 Feb) late night from Mackey ( having gone to Mackey a few hours before) as it found that he was running a 103 degree temperature.   Nina drove him there – and arrived at Hospital just after 1.00 a.m Sunday .   Sunjay remaim at the hospital under care .

Nana/nani went to Mackey at 11.30 p.m to remain with the kids ( they were though sleeping at that time) .

Monday 13 February 2012

Sunjay remain at the hospital under care .   Kids (along with their mom) were sleeping over at Deep River on Sunday. Sitara was helped by her nana to write Valentine cards for her school and other friends.

She can write in her wiggly way and understand the alphabets and words (names) . So she completed her writing with great fun.

Kids and mom went to Mackey in the evening.

Tuesdsay 14 February 2012

Nana had a colonscopy  and getroscopy procedure at Pembroke Hospital where kids’ dad was still recovering from his high tempretaure. Both came home that day – first nana came in the afternoon and kids’s dad came in the evening (picked up by kids’ nana) after his  surgeon gave an okay .

Friday 17 February 2012

Kids travelled to Toronto area with their parents – on holidays.

– first stayed at their Mama/mami place for a night – enjoyed company of Maya (  their cute cousin – abot 6months old)

– on Saturday & Sunday  at their dad’s uncle in Missssauga

– on Monday -they went to Kitchner at their mom’s friend’s ( Mariam) place

-on Saturday 25 February 2012 -they returned back to Mackey.

Their parents also bought a new car (a VW Passat station wagon – four wheel drive)

From   Sunday 26 February 2012 to Thursday 19 April 2012

There is a lot of interface between the kids and grandparents during the above stated time.

They have had a sleep over once. They went to Sudbury with parents (also Jeannette -their baby-sitter- & her family).

They stayed at Towne Place Suites by Marriott Sudbury between Thursday 5 April to 8 April 2012. Kids phoned their nana wishing him a Happy Birthday after arriving back at Mackey on 8 April 2012 . Their nana became 72 year on 8th.

Note: Even Maya was on the phone from Toronto with her daddy/mommy   on 8th to wish her Bapuji a Happy Birthday.

The kids also went to Mackenzie High, Deep River   with their nani and dad on the evening of Wednesday 18 April 2012 to brouse through kids’ books on sale.

Every visit by kids at nana/nani home bring joy and fun to them (nana/nani). Most of times they (kis) are playful   and enjoy playing, painting (with crayons) and Sitara   using nana’s computer for kids PBS site. However during this time the computer was out of commssion a couple of times due to “virus”   attack warning but this was corrected soon .

Saturday 28 April 2012

This day nana/nani went to Mackey to baby-sit the kids as the parents were invited out to their friends – birthday party (in Anthony, I think).   The kids were active. Just physical activities. They   played together like a duo team. They ran arounf using the big toy bus (blue one) as the prop . Sachin   driving it ( paddled with his feet ) while Sitara climbed on top and balanced herself on top when the toy bus moving ( by Sachin’s paddLe power). They did gymanastics -Sitara doing upside stand ( with feet resting on a wall) etc.

They had dinner – had nana read many story books ( mostly Little Miss series books ) and then they went to bed.

However, about 10.00 p.m Sitara woke up with throwing all over on her bed andbeyond. Her nani cleaned hera nd the room & the all the bed sheets , blanket etc and Sitara was resting on the living room sofa – her nana comforting her. But after about   another hour or so – she threw up again – smearing her nana and floor around.   She was comforted , cleaned and then it was decided to giver her a bath -so she is clean of any crud remaing on the body . After her bath, she   went to bed again. Luckily Sachin was asleep when this drama was happening.   Their parenst came home form the party and immediately took care of the house – disinfecting etc as Sitara may have pickedd up a stomach flu from somewhere.

It was decided to separate the kids next day – Sachin was to be brought to nana/nani home . This is precaution so he does not pick-up the stomach flu.

This post is a continuation of  the earlier posts ”” Being Grandparents (paternal) -1, Being Grandparents (paternal)- 2   &    Being Grandparents (paternal)-  3 ——  as the previous  posts were becoming a tad bit busy.

Monday 12 December 2011   –   Four-month Check up

The following was  sent this day by electronic mail by Maya’s mom  :

” Maya weighed in at 13 lb 10 oz today… exactly on the 50th percentile! She is getting so big, already more than double her birth weight! She continues to follow along all her growth curves, with her head up to 40 cm (25%) and her length up to 64 cm (75%).   ”

This news has provided so much mental & spiritual happiness to Maya’s Ba & Bapuji. They are savouring the good news   and pray for Maya’s continued growth in the coming months and years.

Monday 25 December 2011

Maya travelled to her great grandparents home  in Huntsville with her parents. They were on their way to Deep River   to spend few  days during holidays with her Ba & bapuji. Maya had a   great time with her great grandparents in Huntsville. She was coddled and hugged a lot  and she did have a good night’s sleep there without waking up during the night.   Forv her first Chrismas – she is having a ball of a time . She had constant parties to go since 22 December till now   when she is on the road.

Tuesday 26 December 2011

Maya arrived at Deep River at her Ba/Bapuji home just after 1.00 pm on Tuesday – having slept over (enroute) the previous night at her great Grandparents home in Huntsville . Maya gave spnking smile to her Ba/bapuji when she came indoors in the home. She was coddled immediately .

She also did her roll over while in the kitchen on the blanket . She is slowly getting familiar to the technique of rolling over.

Holiday schedule after having spent a delightful  Christmas Day on Sunday 25 December 2011 at Mackey with kids and their parents.

Monday 26 December 2011   –   Maya went  to Huntsville driven there by her parents (on their way to Deep River) and spend a night with her mom’s maternal grandparents . Maya had a great time being coddled by her great grandparents.

Both Ba & Bapuji took time to rest at their home in Deep River – and  also making preparation (making bed ready and living room ready for Maya) to make her parents’  visit to Deep River/Mackey and area comfortable and pleasant.

Tuesday 27 December 2011 – Maya arrived in Deep River a bit late in the afternoon with her parents – all drove safely to the destination.

All got relaxed- parents had light lunch ( vegetable soup – freshly made ) and Maya – in her usual smiling way settled down well .

Maya’s cousins  (Sitara & Sachin) came over in the evening with their parents ( after having first gone to a party – at one of their friend”™s home in Deep River) . All had dinner together . Both Sitara & Sachin were completely awed by their SunirMama & ShannonMami and also with Maya. They just adore Maya and   coddled her and played with her – but also their Mama & mami played with them and had great bonding interactions ( as usual) .

Both Sitara & Sachin  went home late in the evening (with their parents) – having stayed longer than usual to enjoy and play with Maya and with their Mama & Mami.   The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground. Maya was also coddled and hugged by her Fai (Aunt Nina) and by her Fuva ( SunjayUncle).

Wednesday 28 December 2011 –   Maya  stayed home in Deep River along with her parents – her cousins remaining in Mackey (with their dad)  as their mom was working. It was a quiet day for Maya & her parents . Her Ba/Bapuji had a great time playing with Maya.

Thursday 29 December 2011 – Maya’s cousins  were delighted to come over to Deep River – a bit before lunch- with their parents. They had a lovely time playing with and coddling Maya and also them being coddled by their Mama/Mami.   After wonderful lunch, the afternoon was fun except Sachin was to have his usual afternoon  nap  (in the temporary playpen – being set up in his nana”™s computer room) .     Sitara did craft work with her ShannonMami .

This day was a celebratory day as the family were to exchange gifts for holidays (this is the second gift giving – this is becoming a tradition   ) Maya had her gifts on Christmas Day – celebrated at her grandparents (Shannon”™s parents) in Toronto before driving next day to Huntsvile and then afterwards to Deep River .    On Christmas Day – celebrated in Mackey – for Sitara/Sachin there were gifts galore and now today – more gifts from their Mama/Mami & family.

Baby Maya too got great gifts from her cousins, Fuva ( uncle) & Fai (Aunt) .   Her cousins  were excited as gift were exchanged before Sachin was to go for his afternoon nap. Both Sitara & Sachin got wonderful gits from their Mama/Mami

In the evening all had a great dinner together  with cheers (with wine) .   Maya went to bed early but her cousins  stayed longer than usual again before returning  to Mackey  with  their parents.   The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground .

Friday 30 December 2011

Maya’s cousins  came over to Deep River with their mom ( their dad to come later after finishing some work at home ) to play with her and their Mama/Mami.  Both Ba/Bapuji took a breather – only to be there to provide any supporting role.   Maya’s parents had  gone for cross-country skiing while Maya was looked after by Ba/Bapuji (she having gone to sleep) when her cousins  had arrived at Deep River home.   But they did come back from skiing within half hour .   Maya’s Fuva  joined in later when lunch was served.

The afternoon went as usual with merry making- playing with Maya, Sitara & Sachin   (as became necessary or as wanted by each adult or kid) . Of Course Sachin had his usual afternoon nap.

All kids were a delight.   There is so much politeness and smiles . Maya gave many conversation style noises and smiles.

After dinner, Maya cousins & their parents  went home to Mackey – this evening they went a bit early than usual as Maya’s Fai/Fuva  were making preparation for the New Year eve  bash (to welcome the new year 2012) to which the whole family was participating -next day on Saturday 31 December 2011.

Saturday 31 December  2011

This is the final day of the year 2011.   Maya, her parents and her Ba/Bapuji joined Maya’s cousins (& their parents)  in Mackey

As usual all had great lunch, played with kids (Sitara, Sachin & Maya)    and  Sachin had afternoon nap -his normal  – not too much this day –   as he was very excited for fun with all the visitors  to celebrate the last day of the year.

After dinner and some playing with kids – at 10.00 pm – the adults decided to welcome the new year at that time rather   than waiting till mid-night -as the kids had to go to sleep – so using technology – the welcome fireworks were shown from TV ( taped from places like Sydney in Australia) as they get their new year earlier than the northern    people -the kids were shown this welcome of new year on TV – everyone welcomed the new year and gave cheers to each other .

Maya cousins went  went to bed after a bit of coaxing by parents. Maya , of course had gone earlier to bed wishing everyone a happy new year ( by her   chuckles  and smiles).

Both Ba/Bapuji ,  Maya   & her parents spent the night at Mackey .

Sunday 1 January 2012

Welcome  New Year 2012 .     In the morning kids got up and Maya was as usual up early – all just had great joyful interaction.

After breakfast -a BlacK Forest cake   (baked by Maya’s Fai) was brought out. This was not cut the previous night as it was thought appropriate it have it cut on the first day of 2012 – and also it helps to keep the kids away from eating sweets late in the evening before going to sleep .

The cake was cut with much gusto and fun – maya looking in . Her cousin, Sitara , helped to cut and distribute the cake for enjoyment. Both Sitara and Sachin enjoyed partaking of the cake – so did the adults.     After that Maya & her parents  into the car  left for Huntsville and then onwards to Toronto – to return to their home.     Both Ba/Bapuji   also then left for Deep River.

Thursday 5 January 2012

This is a milestone day for Maya .After learning and enjoying rolling as demonstrated during her visit to Deep River past week – she has now graduated to having solid food.   Here is what her mom said on her e-mail (subject title being – Maya’s first meal )! of this date.

” Below are a few photos from Maya’s first taste of food last night. (The proportions are 4 parts breastmilk to 1 part rice cereal, so it seems silly to call it starting “solids”!) She really enjoyed it and seemed very interested in the new experience… grabbing for the spoon, banging her fists on the high chair tray, etc. A large proportion of the cereal ended up on the bib, the high chair or her chin, but I think some ended up in her tummy. We will try rice cereal a couple more times and then graduate to bananas!”

Wow!

Friday 27 January 2012

This day Maya’s Ba/Bapuji visited her in the evening at Toronto home – they were in Toronto as her Bapuji had a meeting (at Professional Engineering building at 40 Sheppard Av.,Toronto for Penta Rewgion Congress) . So this was close  to their Hotel ( Novotel, North York) . This day also her dad had a minor surgery on his gums in the mouth – and he was kind of in pain – thus on pain killer medicine.

Maya entertained herself and  all adults by jumping in the Jolly Jumper – with happy screams and fun.

Again, Ba/Bapujui visited Maya and family on Saturday evening and had great time .   Ba/Bapuji still staying at the hotel

On Sunday 29 January 2012 , Maya had gone out in the morning with her parents to a party and returning back at home around 3.00 p.m. Her Ba/Bapuji came after that for a visit and sleep over for the night before returning to Deep River on Monday.     Her other (maternal) grandparents came over for dinner and all had a good (take out East Indian dinner ordered by her mom) dinner together along with Maya. Maya is very comfortbale in her high chair and she eat very satisfactorily while sitting on the chair.

On Monday 30  January 2012, both Ba/Bapuji left early in the morning (a bout 9.00 am) for Deep River- having enjoyed all the fun with Maya and her parents.

Tuesday 31 January 2012

This day was a momentous day for Maya . She cut her first tooth ( just approaching her 6 month birthday in a week) – a middle one in the lower jaw of the mouth. Congratulations.

Tuesday 7 Feb 2011

Maya has achieved her 6 months birthday -and celebrated it with attempting to sit . She did it though for few moments at a time.

From Wednesady 8 February to 19th April 2012.

This is the time Maya started crawling, eating solid food   and just being a great girl.

She has gone to Switzerland with her mommy on Wednesday 18 April 2012 for visting her aunt Erica – who is working there. This is her first air travel.

Her Ba & Bapuji have not seen her since   29 January 2012 but always they were kept informed by her mom with timely photos and crisp tit-tat.

Jusy week or so before, she was a bit sick (mouth being sore) but recovered for the travel.

Wednesday 25 April 2012

It was a pleasant news that   both Maya & her mom (Shannon) arrived safely back from Switzerland yesterday ( 24 April 2012).

As per Maya’s mom :

” We made it home after a long journey yesterday. Maya was very good on the trip, but she is so active so she wasn’t happy to just sit in one place for more than a few minutes! In Zurich airport I discovered a great family lounge with tons of toys, changing tables, high chairs, etc. Unfortunately I only came across this wonder 15 minutes before we had to board, but it helped Maya burn off some steam with some new toys to explore (first picture). On the plane I was very lucky to book an aisle seat in a section of three and the middle seat ended up empty, so Maya had somewhere to sit (second picture), even if it was only for a few minutes at a time! We spent a lot of time walking/crawling up and down the aisles and Maya charmed everyone with her toothy grin 🙂 ”

Sunday 29 April 2012
Since her return back from Switzerland, Maya has been a centre of her dad’s attention. She is being coddled and just getting all the time he can give her even though her parents are busy getting the kitchen area of their hosue being renovated ( by a contractor) . Notwithstanding this is a very involved job (along with other normal jobs) they find and devote good time with Maya.   Maya remains a very joyful and attentitve girl.

On Thursday 26 April 2012 Maya and her mom were very happy to welcome Sunir home   !!! Family reunion!

Note: Sunir had a business (for his company) travel to Texas during the time when Maya & her mom were away in Switrzerland.

This post is a continuation of  the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents – 2, Being Grandparents – 3, Being Grandparents – 4, Being Grandparents – 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents  -9  ,  Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12,  Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15,    Grandparents -16,  Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24,  Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26, Grandparents-27 & Grandparents -28 )  as the previous  posts were becoming a tad bit busy.

Wednesday 30 November 2011

This last day of November 2011 is a memorable one. It brought the first snow of the season –  it was not only snow but wet snow with icy condition. The icy snow clung to tree branches – putting heavy weight   – drooping the tree branches low. Quite a few trees & branches  broke and resulted in widespread power blackout in the area.   Power in Deep River went out sometime around 11.00 a.m. – thus no warm lunch. Kids’ nana made do with a bowl of cereal.   Nani did not even had lunch.   The power was restored sometime about 3.00 p.m . However, the highway  road from Deep River towards Mattawa was blocked and also the road towards Chalk River too   – due to some accidents.

Power in the  kids’ home in Mackey was not restored and the gravel road to their home was blocked by fallen trees and icy snow.   So the kids’ parents decided to stay over the night in Deep River at nana/nani home until the road situation and weather is improved. Nana’s afternoon bridge game in Deep River library was also cancelled due to no light .     So all had a great dinner together and kids played with nana & nani -had books read to them  – all having a jolly time.

Next day –   Thursday 1 December 2011 – Sachin & Nina spent at nana/nani home (being Thursday, Nina being off work as usual) . Sitara went to her junior KG school – taken by her dad in the morning to her Baby-sitter home -from where Sitara takes her school bus after having breakfast at her baby-sitter place.     In the evening, all had dinner together after Sitara came back from school ( having picked up   by her dad from the baby-sitter home) . Sachin had a great time playing at naan/nani home during the day.

Friday 2 December 2011

This day Sitara had a special day .   She was with her dad after school -who took/treated her for dinner at Burger King in Deep River and after that he accompanied her to a play ” Wizard of Oz ” at Childs Auditorium at Mackenzie Community School . This is her second play in  as many  weeks. Last week  she went with her parents & Sachin to see the play called “Alladin” at Pembroke.   Sachin did not go to see Wizard of Oz. He spent the day with his mom in Mackey resting.  

Note: Both nana/nani saw the play ” Wizard of Oz” on Saturday .   So on Sunday, tid-bits wwere excahged between them & Sitara – especially about the Witch of the Wild West.

Sunday 4 December 2011

This day was of anticipation . First the kids were to come home in Deep River to help decorate the Christmas tree and then for all to go out in the evening to watch the Deerp River Santa parade.

But also all were waiting anxiously to hear from Toronto that Maya (Kids’ infant cousin) & her parents have come back from Cuba safely and having had a good time there.   Note: At the time when Maya & parents went to Cuba last Saturday- both Maya & her mom (Shannon) were sick & miserable with cold . This had raised a bit of anxiety level in grandparents.

Good news were received  from Toronto in the evening that all have arrived back in Toronto safely and with better health . This topped the day having had good time with Sitara &  Sachin during the day.     Both Sachin & Sitara were excited to decorate the Christmas Tree . Sitara came with her nana downstairs in the basement to collect all the ornaments for decoration . There was lot of jolly time and kids helped to decorate the tree with great aplomb and keen perception for where to put various ornaments.   Each Kid also got a present of a Santa Clause ornament   (red in Santa outfit)  from  their nana/nani but they decided to take these to their own home in Mackey to put the ornament on the Christmas tree there.

In the evening before dinner- all went out to Deep River downtown to watch the Santa parade.   Both Sachin & Sitara were excited- they waited with anticipation to watch the parade. Sachin expressed his thoughts that first  will come Police Car  & then  Santa.   He was right in his deduction.     2 1/2 year old have figured out the sequence.   Both kids played around (while waiting for the parade to come) with other kids who also have come out to watch the parade.

When the parade came around all the kids stood in awe and they were entertained by the various floats and their attendants -who came bearing gifts (of candies) . The parade lasted half hour. The Giant Tiger float was much admired.   Kids, their parents & nana/nani came home after that. All had dinner. The kids were hungry -so much that they ate their food fast and without fuss at all.     After that they all went home to Mackey after spending some time to play with nana/nani and each other.

Monday   5 December 2011

This day Sachin was dropped off in the evening by his dad at his nana/nani home. Sachin was to have a sleep over as that day his dad was going to Ottawa (on his way to a day meeting in Toronto next day).    Sitara  was to go with her dad to Ottawa and stay night at a hotel where her mom was to join them late after work.   That is her mom would travel from Deep River after 9.00 pm and join Sitara & her dad at the hotel. Sitara had a doctor’s appointment for allergy tests. So her mom will take her to the doctor. So all in all, Sachin came for the sleep over . He enjoyed nana/nani company and played with them . All had good dinner and was as usual a gentleman ( gentleboy). There is so much love in him and politeness -which is rare in a kid who is only 2 1/2 year old.   He likes to converse and please his nana/nani. His favourite sentence is “I love you nana. I love you so much”     or “I love you nani . I love you so much”.

He is very regular with his activities. He keeps his time for sleeps or naps .    

On Tuesday 6 December 2011 he woke up early at about 8.00 a.m – had his milk and then joined in with nana/nani for breakfast. He would not start his breakfast until a place was made for his sister, Sitara . He wanted all things (Sitara’s placemat, plates etc)  all on the table and a chair was kept booked for her. he love shis sister and would remember her for all things.   He did the same thing for luncha nd dinner.   What a loving brother that Sitara has.

After breakfast, nana/nani took him to Pt Alexander library for his FEN play time. He had a great time  there – topped by a puppet show on a Ginger Bread cookie  -which he (and other kids) enjoyed immensely.

His food intake at all times (breakfast, liunch and dinner) was excellent and without fuss. He seemed to be enjoying eating with his nana/nani.  

Well his mom got delayed coming back to Deep River/Mackey from Ottawa  -so it was decided that Sachin will spend another night at his nana/nani home and both his mom & Sitara would go to Mackey directly without stopping over at Deep River.   Sachin will be picked by his mom next day at 8.00am and then he &7 Sitara will be ferried to their  baby-sitter’s home in Deep River . From there Sitara will take (after breakfast at her baby-sitter home) a school bus to go to her junior KG school  at Mackenzie Community School. Note: Sitara had her allergy tests done in Ottawa and it was found that she is allerigic to all types of nuts and peanuts particularly.

Friday 9 December 2011

This day Sitara’s nana/nani got call from her mom that she received a call from her school that Sitara was not feeling well – a bit of continouos coughing . So nana/nani went to the school and picked up Sitara in the morning about 10.30 am. and she stayed at nana/nani home. She rested well at home and in the evening was joined by Sachin & her dad for dinner – before going back to Mackey.

Saturday 10 December 2011

Nann/nani went to Mackey in the afternoon to look after the kids as their parents were going out on a Social in the evening  – a dinner program by their dad’s workplace. It ws decided to go to Mackey to avoid kids to have to travel from Mackey to Deep River (to nana/nani home) and then back. Nana/nani stayed the night – the kids called it sleep over.   They loved it and enjoyed being with their nana/nani. Wonderful kids – very polite, considerate and   playful kids. They wanted   nana read books   (children story books) to them prior to going to sleep.  Both nana/nani read books as each had one grandparent at one time.    

On Sunday (11 December  2011) Sitara came to Deep River  with nana/nani as it was her swimming class – this would avoid her mom to go from work and bring her back to swimming class.   In the afternooon, Sitara got an opportunity to see on TV a movie on Wizard of Oz -with both nana/nani. She enjoyed it much . She just has seen a play (by Deep Rivers artists) last week at Childs Auditorium   at Mackenzie Community School -so she was fresh with all the dialogue and action.   However she did say that she liked the “Strawman”at the live play  better (because he was more clumpsy ) than the one in the movie.    

At swimming, at about  finish time for her class, Sitara got heavy cough and spilled the mucous into water    – so the swimming pool was evacuated and closed for disinfection.

Note: During next Sunday, Sitara did well in swimming   (her last session for the season) and met all the requirements to move to next level. So during next session, she will be in the next level of swimming.

On this day, nana/nani got a sort of testimonial ( thank you note) from kids mom on her Facebook page.  Below is verbatim from nina’s facebook entry. And the response from nana/nani  .

Nina Facebook Quote:

” Thank you yo my wonderful parents. You have totally been there for us this week especially but always. With all the doctors appointments, meetings in Toronto, Sitara sick today and the help you are giving us on the weekend!!! We are so lucky to have you here with us!!! xo   “

Response    

” We have tremendous fun with the two wonderful, polite, playful and conversationalist grandkids. Both Sitara ( 4 1/2) and Sachin (2 1/2) are so similar in their conduct and care.      

Grandparents (nana/nani)”

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Thursday   16 December 2911
This day it was planned to go to Mackey to celebrate Nina’s  (Kid’s mom) birthday -which was yesterday – and could not be celebrated on Wednesday as Nina was working that day and would come home late.
Also during the day on Thursday,  it was found that kids’ baby-sitter would be away that day – so nana/nani volunteered to pick Sitara up from school at the end of the day and after that go to Mackey. This way Sitara could be home early .   So she was picked up at 3.50 pm from school . However at the class when Sitara got ready to come home – her nana  found that she had no gloves.  Upon enquiry it was found that she had left the gloves at the school  Kiddie Park. So all three (Sitara, nana/nani) trundled up to the Kiddie park – where nani went out to the grounds and looked for the gloves.  She found these after a bit of walking & looking.  The red   gloves were retrieved.
After that all went to Mackey. Sachin was home with his mom as she was not working on this day.    
Both nana/nani played with the kids before dinner – all waiting for their dad who had not arrived from work. This day he got delayed due to emergency at work. and thus dinner was started without him but  he joined in at the tail end of the dinner time. After that all celebrated Nina’s birthday – nani had prepared a chocolate cake (as requested by Sitara) . Te cake was with lighted candles – kids sang “Happy Birthday”  to their mom and helped cut the cake and all had a piece.
Nina is the first born. She arrived exactly nine (9)  months after nana/nani arrived in Canada . It was a surprise  but our loving daughter chose to be born at that time – which was very transformative to nana/nani and she gave us a reason to adopt Canada well – never letting   nana/nani to miss home -so far away.