Being Grandparents (paternal)- 5
May 18, 2012 on 5:57 am | In Uncategorized | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts — (Being Grandparents (paternal) -1, Being Grandparents (paternal)- 2, Being Grandparents (paternal)-3 & Being Grandparents (paternal)-4—— as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Thursday 10 May 2012
This day Maya had gone to Huntsville with her mom & grandma ( maternal ) from Toronto to visit her great grandparents ( Kathy’s parents ). They were to spend a night there .
Same day, Maya’s Ba & Bapuji were driving to Toronto from Deep River - her Bapuji was going to Toronto to attend an AGM of his Engineering Association and also to attend an Award Gala to recognise some selected Engineers for their volunteer service to the Engineering Association. So on the way to Toronto they also stopped over at Huntsville to meet with Maya and her mom & folks. Maya and her mom had just recently returned back from their international travel to Switzerland where Maya met and coddled by her Aunt Erica and her boyfriend Matt.
Ba & Bapuji had not seen & played with Maya for about a couple of months and she is growing fast - now she is sitting by herself and crawling etc. So this was first opportunity for them to see her (in Huntsville!). Well, when her Ba & Bapuji arrived at Huntsville, they found Maya was having her afternoon nap. So her Ba & Bapuji spent time with Maya’s Mom & grandma and her great Grandfather. Her Grandmother was away attending a meeting (for Meals on Wheel) - where she volunteers her time . After spending about an hour, Ba/Bapuji left as they wanted to be in Toronto before traffic builds up in Toronto. Maya had remained with her nap - and she was not disturbed at that time as her Ba/Bapuji were to spend time with her in the comingh days when return back to Toronto (from Huntsville) .
Being Grandparents -31
May 18, 2012 on 5:55 am | In Uncategorized | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents - 2, Being Grandparents - 3, Being Grandparents - 4, Being Grandparents - 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents -9 , Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12, Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15, Grandparents -16, Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24, Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26, Grandparents-27,Grandparents -28, Grandparents -29 & Grandparents -30) as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Book Reading -Miscellaneous Books Read (2012)
February 5, 2012 on 6:21 am | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Book Reading | Comments OffGeneral Comment: As mentioned earlier posts, I have embarked on writing a few words on all the books that I may read in my retirement.
Since 2011, I have refrained to read serious books - on politics, spirituality, philosophy, society etc but I like to read -so I have gone reading light books to entertain me.
Both my kids have got KINDLE (electronic reading) but i have not . The younger lot like gadgets - new ones all the times but senior like me is finding that to be a bit overwhelming.
These days I am in Mystery books . I have reverted to my teenage passion.
The first book I read after the new year 2012 is Agatha Christie book - which I bought for a dollar from the local (deep River) library, They are discarding many old books .
The book title is ” Five Little Pigs” .This is about a painter (Amyas Crate) who was murdered and his wife got charged and convicted a murderer BUT after 16 years had passed - her daughter (Carla) - who was in her early teens and was on thye cusp of marriage - was not comfortable that her mother was convicted as a murderer and she wanted to find the truth behind the case. She engaged the famous & brilliant detective ” Hercule Poirot” to unravel begind the case. He set about interviewing the old companions of the painter and then lo behold found the Carla’s mother was innocent and the another lady (whose picture the painter was painting) killed him.
The next two books i have recently completed are Perry Mason books. The local librarian had NOT heard about thsio famous fictitious Lawyer - whose books were vary pupular when I was teenager. So I got two books using the “Inter-library” system.
All Perry Mason books are written by Erle Stanley Gardner .
The first Perry Mason book I read recently is ” The Case of the Half-wakened Wife” - a paper back book from Greater Madawaska Public Library, Calabogie, ON.
The second Perry Mason book I read recently is The Case of Foot-Loose Doll ” - a hard cover book from Alliston Public Library , Alliston, ON. This is also a large letter book for visually impaired.
Monday 13 February 2012
Finished reading “The Case of the Glamorous Ghost ” - a Perry Mason book
Wednesday 15 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Terrified Typist ” - a Perry Mason book
Thursday 16 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Lucky Loser ” - a Perry Mason book
Friday 17 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Screaming Woman ” - a Perry Mason book
Saturday 18 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Long-Legged Models ” - a Perry Mason book
Sunday 19 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Waylaid Wolf ” - a Perry Mason book
Note : All above Parry Mason books by Erle Stanley Gardner are part of a book - a thick book with severn Complete Novels,
obtained from Oshawa Public Library by the Deep River library using Inter-Library loan system.
This book is returned to the Deep River Library on completion of reading it . ( Friday 24 Feb 2012)
Saturday 25 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Spurious Spinster ” - a Perry Mason book
Sunday 26 February 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Shoplifter’s Shoe ” - a Perry Mason book
obtained from Turner Branch by the Deep River library using Inter-Library loan system.
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Interesting side show:
Friday 2 March 2012
Finished reading ” The Case of The Worried Waitress ” - a Perry Mason book and then on Sunday 4 March 2012 finished another Perry Mason book titled ” The Case of The Silent Partner ” obtained from Thorold Public Library by the Deep River library using Inter-Library loan system
Between 3 March to 28 March 2012, I have completed reading the following books . A bit delay in writing thsi post -as the something went wrong with the Web-Site but we are up and running.
a) The Mystery of The Blue Train by Agatha Christie ( a discarded book bought from Deep River library).
b) The A.B. C. Murders by Agatha Christie ( a discarded book bought from Deep River library).
c) The White Chapel Conspiracy by Anne Perry ( a discarded book bought from Deep River library).
d) A compendium of books by (This book is bought & given to me by my daughter - as she got to know about my recent interest in mystery books) Readers Digest - 4 books in the big thick volume - all very gripping mysteries. These are:
- Married to a Stranger by Patricia MacDonald
- A Christmas Guest by Anne Perry
- Sailing to Capri by Elizabeth Adler
- The Conjurer’s Bird by Martin Davies
Since then until April 8th - my birthday i have completed reading the following books.
- Death On The Nile - an Agatha Christie mystery book
- Murder in Mesopotamia - an Agatha Christie mystery book
- Murder on the Orient Express - an Agatha Christie book
- Thirteen at Dinner - an Agatha Christie book
- Cards on the Table - an Agatha Christie book
- Recently (last week of April 2012) I have completed reading the Book ” By the Pricking of My Thumbs ” bu Agatha Christie with new characters ( Tuppence & Tommy) as detectives who happen to come upon crime and perpetrators through Tuppence’s trailing & tracking of something that incite her curiosity. This book was loaned to me by Patsy/George.George is one of my card (Bridge) playing colleague and Patsy helps out at the Deep River library.
I have lately started watching Perry Mason episodes on TV - ( recorded on PVR - which I procured along with the HD TV - at 2011 Christmas time . The Perry mason shows are recorded during the week.
- First one is ” The Case of the Fickle Fortune ” watched on 5 February 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Blindman’s Love” watched on 23 February 2012 -
- Then ” The Case of the Angry Deadman “ watched on 23 February 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Nimble Nephew “ watched on 24 February 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Difficult Detour ” watched on 25 February 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Cowardly Lion ” watched on 3 March 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Violent Vest ” watched on 11 March 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Duplicate Daughter ” watched on 17 March 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Flighty Father ” watched on 21 March 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Guilty Clients ” watched on 22 March 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Jealous Journalist ” watched on 23 March 2012
- Then “The Case of the Treacherous Toupe” watched on 30 March 2012
- Then “The Case of the Impatient Partner” watched on 31 March 2012
- Then “The Case of the Missing Melody ” watched on 1 April 2012
- Then “The Case of the Credulous Quarry” watched on 6 April 2012
- Then “The Case of the Posthumous Painter” watched on 7 April 2012
- Then ‘The Case of the Injured Innocent” watched on my 72nd Birthday -8 April 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Ill-Fated Faker ” watched on 13 April 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Roving River’ watched on 14 April 2012
- Then ” The Case of the Crippled Cougar ” watched on 15 April 2012
(Note: All these shows are regularly being beamed on AMI channel ( Channel 48 on Bell Satellite)
Friday 18 May 2012
I just finished reading the book called ” Evolution ” by Stephen Baxter. This book I bought at the Deep River Library at their Book Sale about 10 days before. This is a book in a novel format written based on evolution of mankind. Stretching from the distant past into the remotefuture, from primordial Earth to the stars . Evolution is soaring symphony of struggle, extinction, and survival.
It was slow ead but interseting. The book travelled with me to Toronto on May11-13 where i (with Mrs) had gone to attend an AGM for my Engineering Association . We also spend time with our son, daughter-in-law and Maya (our lovely youngest granddaughter) .
Being Grandparents -30
December 19, 2011 on 7:49 pm | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Family/Self | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents - 2, Being Grandparents - 3, Being Grandparents - 4, Being Grandparents - 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents -9 , Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12, Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15, Grandparents -16, Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24, Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26, Grandparents-27,Grandparents -28 & Grandparents -29) as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Thursday 22 December 2011
Only few days left for the Christmas Day celebrated as by the Christians. However this celebration is also weaved into festivities by non-Christians also all over the world. It is getting to be the end of the Calender year and this leads to holiday spirit to ring in the new year.
It is about this time many people go on vacation to travel to be with their family (who may be in different city, province or country.) With this sort of social movement at this time. Sitara/Sachin’s baby-sitter and family took time off to go away from Deep River to be with their family. So both kids were a bit stranded when their dad was working on Thursday & Friday ( some people have to work to keep the society functioning) .
Well not quite - their nana/nani were very pleased to have Sachin spend the day with them (brought by his mom - who has a free day) on Thursday and Sitara joining them after the school . Sitara was picked up from school by her mom (as she skipped using the school bus as she really cannot dis-embark at her baby-sitter’s home - as the baby-sitter & family had gone away for Christmas) .In the evening their dad joined in after work -all had good dinner.
It was fun the whole day playing with Sachin - who is very mature for his age - likes to talk with his nana/nani & also express his love for nana/nani often times. He is a gentle kid -always with a chuckle and engaging eyes. In the evening after dinner, both Sachin & his sister Sitara had a ball playing together and also with their nana/nani . want to play “monster chasing” and sliding over nana’s legs/feet.
Both kids spent a sleep-over at their nana/nani - this gives them fun time with their nana/nani and also a respite to their parents in the morning when Sitara has to be got ready for school and then brought to her baby-sitters home (where Sitara picks her school bus) . However, her baby-sitter was not available on Friday 23 Dec 2011 (as they had gone away for Christmas) . So her nana took her to school on Friday at 9.00 am and dropped her right at the ‘Kiddie park’ where they play before junior KG class starts. She got picked from the school by her dad . Their mom was working this day and thus could not join in for dinner but kids, their dad & nana/nani had dinner together and after that lots of fun playing different games. They went to Mackey with their dad) (at about 8.30 pm) - they really want to spend more time with their nana/nani and they try to delay but ultimately they had to go as they need their rest and sleep.
Sunday 25 December 2011
It was the Christmas day ( Santa day) for the kids and their parents. Both nana/nani went to Mackey at 11.30 am to have fun with the kids when opening their gifts . The kids had many gifts from their parents , from each other and from their nana/nani.
Before lunch -all had a few photos taken around the lighted Christmas tree and then the gifts were opened. Kids were waiting patiently for this moment - good kids . They are well behaved and loved the gifts - each one of them - there were many different types. Sachin really enjoyed the stuffed Dinosaur as well as a huge mechenical Dinosaur - making deep threatening sound. Sitara had a remote control car to play with. Both also had a train-set (which run with hand manipulation - no battery )- a big one all installed on a table ( the table came with the train set) . All assembled by their dad the previous day .
After that all had lunch and then few play momnets with nana/nani - then Sachin went for his normal afternoon nap . Sitara then played with her mom, and with her nana or nani and by herself. After Sachin woke up, both kids played with their nana/nani .
After dinner , all were getting a bit tired . nana/nani left for Deep River and kids got ready for their rest for the night.
Holiday schedule after having spent a delightful Christmas Day on Sunday 25 December 2011 at Mackey with kids and their parents.
Monday 26 December 2011 - SunirMama/ShannonMami along with Maya drove to Huntsville (on their way to Deep River) and spend a night with Shannon’s maternal grandparents . Maya had a great time being coddled by her great grandparents .
Sitara & Sachin rested at their home (in Mackey) with their parents –after a hectic, exciting and joyful Christmas Day with so many different gifts.
Nana/nani rested at their home in Deep River - and also making preparation (making bed ready and living room ready for Maya) to make SunirMama/ShannonMami’s visit to Deep River/Mackey and area comfortable and pleasant.
Tuesday 27 December 2011 - Maya arrived in Deep River a bit late in the afternoon with her parents - all drove safely to the destination.
All got relaxed- parents had light lunch ( vegetable soup - freshly made ) and Maya - in her usual smiling way settled down well .
Both Sitara & Sachin came over in the evening with their parents ( after having first gone to a party - at one of their friend’s home in Deep River) . All had dinner together . Both Sitara & Sachin having completely awed by their SunirMama & ShannonMami and also with Maya. They just adore Maya and coddled her and played with her - but also their Mama & mami played with them and had great bonding interactions ( as usual) .
Kids went home late in the evening - having stayed longer than usual to enjoy and play with Maya and with their Mama & Mami. The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground.
Wednesday 28 December 2011 - kids stayed home with their dad as their mom was working on this day and their Mama/Mami - along with Maya- spent time with kids’ nana/nani ( Sunir’s parents) in Deep River . It was a quiet day .
Thursday 29 December 2011 - kids were delighted to come over to Deep River - a bit before lunch- with their parents. They had a lovely time playing with and coddling Maya and also them being coddled by their Mama/Mami. After wonderful lunch, theafternoon was fun except Sachin was to have his usual afternoon nap (in the temporary playpen - being set up in nana’s computer room) . Sitara did craft work with her ShannonMami .
This day was a celebratory day as the family were to exchange gifts for holidays (this is the second gift giving - this is becoming a tradition ) First on Christmas Day - celebrated in Mackey - for Sitara/Sachin there were gifts galore and now today - more gifts from their Mama/Mami & family. Maya had her gifts on Christmas Day - celebrated at her grandparents (Shannon’s parents) in Toronto before driving next day to Huntsvile and then afterwards to Deep River .
Both kids were excited as gift were exchanged before Sachin was to go for his afternoon nap. Both Sitara & Sachin got wonderful gits from their Mama/Mami
Baby Maya too got great gifts from her cousins, Fuva ( uncle) & Fai (Aunt) .
In the evening all had a great dinner together with cheers (with wine) . The kids stayed longer than usual again before returning to Mackey with their parents. The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground .
Friday 30 December 2011
Kids came over to Deep River with their mom ( their dad to come later after finishing some work at home) to play with Maya and their Mama/Mami. Both nana/nani took a breather - only to be there to provide any supporting role. Mama/Mami had gone for cross-country skiing when the kids arrived at Deep River home. But they did come back from skiing within half hour . Kids dad joined in later when lunch was served.
The afternoon went as usul with merry making- playing with Maya, Sitara & Sachin (as became necessary or as wanted by each adult or kid) . Of Course Sachin had his usual afternoon nap.
All kids were a delight. There is o much politeness and smiles . Maya gave many conversation style noises and smiles.
After dinner, all went home to Mackey - this evening they went a bit early than usual as kids’ parents were making preparation for the New Year eve bash (to welcome the new year 2012) to which the whole family was participating -next day on Saturday 31 December 2011.
Saturday 31 December 2011
This is the final day of the year 2011. The kids stayed in Mackey with their parents - later in the morning joined by their nana/nani and also by Maya & her parents ( Kids’ Mama/Mami) .
As usual all had great lunch, played with kids (Sitara, Sachin & Maya) and Sachin had afternoon nap -his normal ) not too much this day - as he was very excited for fun with all the visitors to celebrate the last day of the year.
After dinner and some playing with kids - at 10.00 pm - the adults decied to welcome the new year at that time rather than waiting till mid-night -as the kids had to go to sleep - so using technology - the welcome fireworks were shown from TV ( taped from places like Sydney in Australia) as they get their new year earlier than the northern people -the kids were shown this welcome of new year on TV - everyone welcomed the new year and gave cheers to each other .
The kids then went to bed after a bit of coaxing by parents.
Both nana/nani & Mama/mami & Maya spent the night at Mackey .
Sunday 1 January 2012
Welcome New Year 2012 . In the morning kids got up and Maya was as usual up early - all just had great joyful interaction.
After breakfast -a BlacK Forest cake (baked by kid mom) was brought out. This was not cut the previous night as it was thought appropriate it have it cut on the first day of 2012 - and also it helps to keep the kids away from eating sweets late in the evening before going to sleep .
The cake was cut with much gusto and fun. Sitara helped to cut and distribute the cake for enjoyment. Both Sitara and Sachin enjoyed partaking of the cake - so did the adults. After that their SunirMama/ShannonMami got into the car with Maya and left for Huntsville and then onwards to Toronto - to return to their home. Both nana/nani also then left for Deep River.
Tuesday 3 January 2012
The kids went to Ottawa with their parents for a few days - for vacation.
Friday 6 January 2012 - It seems that the kids are a having a ball of a time in Ottawa per photos etc on their mom’s Facebook entry.
They have been to Museum of Nature, Reptile Musuem etc and have enjoyed all the different animals as well as various dinosaurs sketletons and other features.
Tuesday 10 January 2012
This day kids’ mom (Nina) went for downhill skiing lesson after dinner at nana/nani home in Deep River . The kids had a great time at nana/nani home but they went to Mackey early with their dad (after theri mom left for skiing lesson) .
Saturday 14 January 2012
This day Sachin came to Nana/nanai home early in the morning - dropped by his parents when they were going to Ottawa with Sitara. Sitar had a doctor’s appointment for allergy tests. Sachin brought lots of fun and livened up Saturday for his nana/nani.
Here are the results of Sitara’s allergy test - doen by Dr. Ham Pong.
The below is the message from Sitara’s mom by e-mail.
Sachin was as ususal very loving and playful. He did puzzles and some art work. Played hide & seek ( he likes to play out ”Bad Wolf” from 3 Little Pigs scenerio - for the hide & seek game ) . Always polite and lots of ” I love you ” nana or nani. He went home late about 10.00 pm picked up by his parents - arriving back from Ottawa.
It was a cold day outside - temperature below - 20 degrees - thus Sachin stayed indoors .
Tuesday 17 January 2012
This day winter really arrived . Sachin had come home with his mom and waas just happy to be with his nana/nani . Played with both nana/nani - puzzles, and miscellanous toys etc. Afternoon had his usual nap when his mom went for a dental. Sitara was at school and was picked up by her mom at late afternoon.
She was playful when she came but was showing a bit sulkiness at dinner time. It was rather very taxing if she does not eat normally. It so happened that she must have picked a bug for stomach flu and she later threw up on the living room carpet and all that . Her nana was away at that time - having gone for his bridge card game. Her mom was not there either having gone for downhill ski lesson . After bridge session, nana came home & started to shovel the driveway ( high pile of snow to-day) & then When Kids’s mom came back from her ski lesson, she joined in to help shovelling the snow - which then was aggain helped by kids’ nani who came oput to help also. It was a storm with lots of snow. So three people shovelling snow - helped to do the job faster even when the Municiplaity Road crew threw more snow on the driveway.
The kids and parents spent the night in Deep River as there was lots of snow falling and due to accident -the Hwy 17 was and further the road leading (from Hwy 17) upto Mackey house would not have been plowed at that time.
So it was prudently decided to stay over in Deep River .
However, next day (Wednesday 18 January) Sitara was still feeling down and lo behold - Sachin also got the bug and he threw up and then also had diahorreal attack too. Both kids were down- their mom was worried that the contagion do not spread specially to their nani as well as nana. Both parents had to go to work but nana brought disinfectant (Lysol & also Clorox liquid from Valumart early in the morning ) - spread the Lysol on all knobs , railings and wgereever. Cleaned all chairs, tables etc where kids may have been with Clorox. Nani remained busy cleaning up carpet and verious cloths , towels etc to get the germs eliminated.
Kids were weak but very understanding and trying not to give much trouble to their nana/nani . They did not get anything to eat except some water - 2 figerful only (with pulpless orange juice) . However, Sitara had two slices of raisin bread after she woke up - without any milk . This did not remained in her stomach for too long. She was cool - had her nana read at least three books in the Rec Room downstairs - she played and made puzzles - all with calmness even when her stomach was upset . She had endurance . After a while - the whole shabhang came out upstairs in the living room carpet . The carpet and all the towels- which were kept ready in case - were needed cleaning - keeping nani busy .
Sachin was a bit whining but remained otherwise cool . Both kids were also kept entertained by TV . Their dad came home at lunch time - had taken afternoon off to look after the kids. The kids are fortunate to have loving parents . Their dad then took them to Mackey just after 1.00 pm - so they can ret in their bed and recover there.
Their mom came to Deep River home after her work ( late in the evening about 9.30 pm) and she wanted to be sure that all is okay - she sanitized Sachin’s crib (with Lysol - wiping all over ) before going to Mackey . She wanted to do her best that kids’ nana/nani do not catch the bug.
The next week upto Thursday 25 January 2012
The kid’s dad got down with stomach flu and kids and their mom came and bunked at nana/nani home for two nights ( Tuesday & Wednesday). The kids parents lost their Saab car (on Monday - after the kids were picked up by their dad from the baby-sitter) due to clutch mechanism failure - they used nana/nani spare car ( Chryslar maroon mini-van) . The Saab was ready by Thursday (25 January). Dad recovered in two days . Sitara stayed home on Thursday - has sniffling cough.
This week their cousin Maya’s mom (in Toronto) also was down with flu and Maya’s dad had to take a couple of days off work to stay home to look after Maya and her mom.
Monday 23 January 2012
This day saw a frightening expereince for the kids. The road from Mackey to Deep River was slippery due to wet snow falling. Theri mom was hit with black ice - car skidded and went around gfew times on the road - lucky that there was no traffic in the morning on the road - so all ended okay fianaly - a relef to all.
Kids were a bit frighetened especially Sitara as she is now 41/2 years old and can see / understand the danger.
Sunday 29 January 2012
Both nana/nani had gone to Toronto on Friday 27 January - nana had an Engineering Congress to attend and thus used this time also to visit the kids’ cousin Maya and their Mama/Mami
While nana/nani were away- kids had a great time sking on Sunday at Mount Martin Ski Hill in Deep River. This is what Sachin’s mom wrote on her Facebook about Sachin’s enjoyment.
” Is so proud of little Sachin. He skiied down the hill about 6 or 7 times this weekend (a lot for a 2 year old) exclaiming to everyone “I was up there (pointing to the top of the hill) and now I’m down here!!!” He was all smiles and full of pride! 
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Of Course, Sitara is skiing like a pro these days. She enjoys skiing- and that is good for a Canadian girl - growing in a snowbound country - this sport will keep her getting entertained always.
Tuesday 7 January 2012
Oh! this day Sunjay found out from Deep River hospital ER visit that he has inflamed appendix - needs to be operated on. So he had surgery at Pembroke General Hospital at 5.00 pm and was back at home next day in the evening.
So on Tuesday , the kids and mom stayed (sleep over) at Deep River with nana/nani .
The kids and parents bunked down at grardparents - for saftey and healthand comfort.
On Friday 10 January 2012 - kids, their mom and nana/nani went to Hull at Jacques Cartier Park to be at the SnowFlake Kingdom -as put on every year at that park. That gave their dad a quiet time at home to rest and recover from his surgery.
Both Sitara and Sachin enjoyed every minute at the Park - ice sculptures , ice slides, Beaver tail snack and Maple Syrup taffy . push ski chair etc,
After time at the park, all went ( at about 7.10 pm ) to a Thai dinner at a Thai restaurant on Carling Road and then returned back to Deep River -close to mid-night. Note: Somehow Sachin lost one of his favourite (blue) glove . How and where remains a mystery and this was much debated and much effort was expended to search/locate it but to no avail. This gk=love has been located at the Thai restaurant and will be picked up on Feb 23 by nana/nani when they will visit Ottawa.
Sunjay had to be rushed back to Pembroke Hospital emergency on Saturday (11 Feb) late night from Mackey ( having gone to Mackey a few hours before) as it found that he was running a 103 degree temperature. Nina drove him there - and arrived at Hospital just after 1.00 a.m Sunday . Sunjay remaim at the hospital under care .
Nana/nani went to Mackey at 11.30 p.m to remain with the kids ( they were though sleeping at that time) .
Monday 13 February 2012
Sunjay remain at the hospital under care . Kids (along with their mom) were sleeping over at Deep River on Sunday. Sitara was helped by her nana to write Valentine cards for her school and other friends.
She can write in her wiggly way and understand the alphabets and words (names) . So she completed her writing with great fun.
Kids and mom went to Mackey in the evening.
Tuesdsay 14 February 2012
Nana had a colonscopy and getroscopy procedure at Pembroke Hospital where kids’ dad was still recovering from his high tempretaure. Both came home that day - first nana came in the afternoon and kids’s dad came in the evening (picked up by kids’ nana) after his surgeon gave an okay .
Friday 17 February 2012
Kids travelled to Toronto area with their parents - on holidays.
- first stayed at their Mama/mami place for a night - enjoyed company of Maya ( their cute cousin - abot 6months old)
- on Saturday & Sunday at their dad’s uncle in Missssauga
- on Monday -they went to Kitchner at their mom’s friend’s ( Mariam) place
-on Saturday 25 February 2012 -they returned back to Mackey.
Their parents also bought a new car (a VW Passat station wagon - four wheel drive)
From Sunday 26 February 2012 to Thursday 19 April 2012
There is a lot of interface between the kids and grandparents during the above stated time.
They have had a sleep over once. They went to Sudbury with parents (also Jeannette -their baby-sitter- & her family).
They stayed at Towne Place Suites by Marriott Sudbury between Thursday 5 April to 8 April 2012. Kids phoned their nana wishing him a Happy Birthday after arriving back at Mackey on 8 April 2012 . Their nana became 72 year on 8th.
Note: Even Maya was on the phone from Toronto with her daddy/mommy on 8th to wish her Bapuji a Happy Birthday.
The kids also went to Mackenzie High, Deep River with their nani and dad on the evening of Wednesday 18 April 2012 to brouse through kids’ books on sale.
Every visit by kids at nana/nani home bring joy and fun to them (nana/nani). Most of times they (kis) are playful and enjoy playing, painting (with crayons) and Sitara using nana’s computer for kids PBS site. However during this time the computer was out of commssion a couple of times due to “virus” attack warning but this was corrected soon .
Saturday 28 April 2012
This day nana/nani went to Mackey to baby-sit the kids as the parents were invited out to their friends - birthday party (in Anthony, I think). The kids were active. Just physical activities. They played together like a duo team. They ran arounf using the big toy bus (blue one) as the prop . Sachin driving it ( paddled with his feet ) while Sitara climbed on top and balanced herself on top when the toy bus moving ( by Sachin’s paddLe power). They did gymanastics -Sitara doing upside stand ( with feet resting on a wall) etc.
They gii d dinner - had nana read many story books ( mostly Little Miss series books ) and then they went to bed.
However, about 10.00 p.m Sitara woke up with throwing all over on her bed andbeyond. Her nani cleaned hera nd the room & the all the bed sheets , blanket etc and Sitara was resting on the living room sofa - her nana comforting her. But after about another hour or so - she threw up again - smearing her nana and floor around. She was comforted , cleaned and then it was decided to giver her a bath -so she is clean of any crud remaing on the body . After her bath, she went to bed again. Luckily Sachin was asleep when this drama was happening. Their parenst came home form the party and immediately took care of the house - disinfecting etc as Sitara may have pickedd up a stomach flu from somewhere.
It was decided to separate the kids next day - aschin was to be brought to nana/nani home . This is precaution so he does not pick-up the stomach flu.
Being Grandparents (paternal)- 4
December 13, 2011 on 8:17 pm | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Family/Self | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts — Being Grandparents (paternal) -1, Being Grandparents (paternal)- 2 & Being Grandparents (paternal)- 3 —— as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Monday 12 December 2011 - Four-month Check up
The following was sent this day by electronic mail by Maya’s mom :
” Maya weighed in at 13 lb 10 oz today… exactly on the 50th percentile! She is getting so big, already more than double her birth weight! She continues to follow along all her growth curves, with her head up to 40 cm (25%) and her length up to 64 cm (75%). ”
This news has provided so much mental & spiritual happiness to Maya’s Ba & Bapuji. They are savouring the good news and pray for Maya’s continued growth in the coming months and years.
Monday 25 December 2011
Maya travelled to her great grandparents home in Huntsville with her parents. They were on their way to Deep River to spend few days during holidays with her Ba & bapuji. Maya had a great time with her great grandparents in Huntsville. She was coddled and hugged a lot and she did have a good night’s sleep there without waking up during the night. Forv her first Chrismas - she is having a ball of a time . She had constant parties to go since 22 December till now when she is on the road.
Tuesday 26 December 2011
Maya arrived at Deep River at her Ba/Bapuji home just after 1.00 pm on Tuesday - having slept over (enroute) the previous night at her great Grandparents home in Huntsville . Maya gave spnking smile to her Ba/bapuji when she came indoors in the home. She was coddled immediately .
She also did her roll over while in the kitchen on the blanket . She is slowly getting familiar to the technique of rolling over.
Holiday schedule after having spent a delightful Christmas Day on Sunday 25 December 2011 at Mackey with kids and their parents.
Monday 26 December 2011 - Maya went to Huntsville driven there by her parents (on their way to Deep River) and spend a night with her mom’s maternal grandparents . Maya had a great time being coddled by her great grandparents.
Both Ba & Bapuji took time to rest at their home in Deep River - and also making preparation (making bed ready and living room ready for Maya) to make her parents’ visit to Deep River/Mackey and area comfortable and pleasant.
Tuesday 27 December 2011 - Maya arrived in Deep River a bit late in the afternoon with her parents - all drove safely to the destination.
All got relaxed- parents had light lunch ( vegetable soup - freshly made ) and Maya - in her usual smiling way settled down well .
Maya’s cousins (Sitara & Sachin) came over in the evening with their parents ( after having first gone to a party - at one of their friend’s home in Deep River) . All had dinner together . Both Sitara & Sachin were completely awed by their SunirMama & ShannonMami and also with Maya. They just adore Maya and coddled her and played with her - but also their Mama & mami played with them and had great bonding interactions ( as usual) .
Both Sitara & Sachin went home late in the evening (with their parents) - having stayed longer than usual to enjoy and play with Maya and with their Mama & Mami. The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground. Maya was also coddled and hugged by her Fai (Aunt Nina) and by her Fuva ( SunjayUncle).
Wednesday 28 December 2011 - Maya stayed home in Deep River along with her parents - her cousins remaining in Mackey (with their dad) as their mom was working. It was a quiet day for Maya & her parents . Her Ba/Bapuji had a great time playing with Maya.
Thursday 29 December 2011 - Maya’s cousins were delighted to come over to Deep River - a bit before lunch- with their parents. They had a lovely time playing with and coddling Maya and also them being coddled by their Mama/Mami. After wonderful lunch, the afternoon was fun except Sachin was to have his usual afternoon nap (in the temporary playpen - being set up in his nana’s computer room) . Sitara did craft work with her ShannonMami .
This day was a celebratory day as the family were to exchange gifts for holidays (this is the second gift giving - this is becoming a tradition ) Maya had her gifts on Christmas Day - celebrated at her grandparents (Shannon’s parents) in Toronto before driving next day to Huntsvile and then afterwards to Deep River . On Christmas Day - celebrated in Mackey - for Sitara/Sachin there were gifts galore and now today - more gifts from their Mama/Mami & family.
Baby Maya too got great gifts from her cousins, Fuva ( uncle) & Fai (Aunt) . Her cousins were excited as gift were exchanged before Sachin was to go for his afternoon nap. Both Sitara & Sachin got wonderful gits from their Mama/Mami
In the evening all had a great dinner together with cheers (with wine) . Maya went to bed early but her cousins stayed longer than usual again before returning to Mackey with their parents. The weather was aweful with wet snow on the ground .
Friday 30 December 2011
Maya’s cousins came over to Deep River with their mom ( their dad to come later after finishing some work at home ) to play with her and their Mama/Mami. Both Ba/Bapuji took a breather - only to be there to provide any supporting role. Maya’s parents had gone for cross-country skiing while Maya was looked after by Ba/Bapuji (she having gone to sleep) when her cousins had arrived at Deep River home. But they did come back from skiing within half hour . Maya’s Fuva joined in later when lunch was served.
The afternoon went as usual with merry making- playing with Maya, Sitara & Sachin (as became necessary or as wanted by each adult or kid) . Of Course Sachin had his usual afternoon nap.
All kids were a delight. There is so much politeness and smiles . Maya gave many conversation style noises and smiles.
After dinner, Maya cousins & their parents went home to Mackey - this evening they went a bit early than usual as Maya’s Fai/Fuva were making preparation for the New Year eve bash (to welcome the new year 2012) to which the whole family was participating -next day on Saturday 31 December 2011.
Saturday 31 December 2011
This is the final day of the year 2011. Maya, her parents and her Ba/Bapuji joined Maya’s cousins (& their parents) in Mackey
As usual all had great lunch, played with kids (Sitara, Sachin & Maya) and Sachin had afternoon nap -his normal - not too much this day - as he was very excited for fun with all the visitors to celebrate the last day of the year.
After dinner and some playing with kids - at 10.00 pm - the adults decided to welcome the new year at that time rather than waiting till mid-night -as the kids had to go to sleep - so using technology - the welcome fireworks were shown from TV ( taped from places like Sydney in Australia) as they get their new year earlier than the northern people -the kids were shown this welcome of new year on TV - everyone welcomed the new year and gave cheers to each other .
Maya cousins went went to bed after a bit of coaxing by parents. Maya , of course had gone earlier to bed wishing everyone a happy new year ( by her chuckles and smiles).
Both Ba/Bapuji , Maya & her parents spent the night at Mackey .
Sunday 1 January 2012
Welcome New Year 2012 . In the morning kids got up and Maya was as usual up early - all just had great joyful interaction.
After breakfast -a BlacK Forest cake (baked by Maya’s Fai) was brought out. This was not cut the previous night as it was thought appropriate it have it cut on the first day of 2012 - and also it helps to keep the kids away from eating sweets late in the evening before going to sleep .
The cake was cut with much gusto and fun - maya looking in . Her cousin, Sitara , helped to cut and distribute the cake for enjoyment. Both Sitara and Sachin enjoyed partaking of the cake - so did the adults. After that Maya & her parents into the car left for Huntsville and then onwards to Toronto - to return to their home. Both Ba/Bapuji also then left for Deep River.
Thursday 5 January 2012
This is a milestone day for Maya .After learning and enjoying rolling as demonstrated during her visit to Deep River past week - she has now graduated to having solid food. Here is what her mom said on her e-mail (subject title being - Maya’s first meal )! of this date.
” Below are a few photos from Maya’s first taste of food last night. (The proportions are 4 parts breastmilk to 1 part rice cereal, so it seems silly to call it starting “solids”!) She really enjoyed it and seemed very interested in the new experience… grabbing for the spoon, banging her fists on the high chair tray, etc. A large proportion of the cereal ended up on the bib, the high chair or her chin, but I think some ended up in her tummy. We will try rice cereal a couple more times and then graduate to bananas!”
Wow!
Friday 27 January 2012
This day Maya’s Ba/Bapuji visited her in the evening at Toronto home - they were in Toronto as her Bapuji had a meeting (at Professional Engineering building at 40 Sheppard Av.,Toronto for Penta Rewgion Congress) . So this was close to their Hotel ( Novotel, North York) . This day also her dad had a minor surgery on his gums in the mouth - and he was kind of in pain - thus on pain killer medicine.
Maya entertained herself and all adults by jumping in the Jolly Jumper - with happy screams and fun.
Again, Ba/Bapujui visited Maya and family on Saturday evening and had great time . Ba/Bapuji still staying at the hotel
On Sunday 29 January 2012 , Maya had gone out in the morning with her parents to a party and returning back at home around 3.00 p.m. Her Ba/Bapuji came after that for a visit and sleep over for the night before returning to Deep River on Monday. Her other (maternal) grandparents came over for dinner and all had a good (take out East Indian dinner ordered by her mom) dinner together along with Maya. Maya is very comfortbale in her high chair and she eat very satisfactorily while sitting on the chair.
On Monday 30 January 2012, both Ba/Bapuji left early in the morning (a bout 9.00 am) for Deep River- having enjoyed all the fun with Maya and her parents.
Tuesday 31 January 2012
This day was a momentous day for Maya . She cut her first tooth ( just approaching her 6 month birthday in a week) - a middle one in the lower jaw of the mouth. Congratulations.
Tuesday 7 Feb 2011
Maya has achieved her 6 months birthday -and celebrated it with attempting to sit . She did it though for few moments at a time.
From Wednesady 8 February to 19th April 2012.
This is the time Maya started crawling, eating solid food and just being a great girl.
She has gone to Switzerland with her mommy on Wednesday 18 April 2012 for visting her aunt Erica - who is working there. This is her first air travel.
Her Ba & Bapuji have not seen her since 29 January 2012 but always they were kept informed by her mom with timely photos and crisp tit-tat.
Jusy week or so before, she was a bit sick (mouth being sore) but recovered for the travel.
Wednesday 25 April 2012
It was a pleasant news that both Maya & her mom (Shannon) arrived safely back from Switzerland yesterday ( 24 April 2012).
As per Maya’s mom :
” We made it home after a long journey yesterday. Maya was very good on the trip, but she is so active so she wasn’t happy to just sit in one place for more than a few minutes! In Zurich airport I discovered a great family lounge with tons of toys, changing tables, high chairs, etc. Unfortunately I only came across this wonder 15 minutes before we had to board, but it helped Maya burn off some steam with some new toys to explore (first picture). On the plane I was very lucky to book an aisle seat in a section of three and the middle seat ended up empty, so Maya had somewhere to sit (second picture), even if it was only for a few minutes at a time! We spent a lot of time walking/crawling up and down the aisles and Maya charmed everyone with her toothy grin ”
Sunday 29 April 2012
Since her return back from Switzerland, Maya has been a centre of her dad’s attention. She is being coddled and just getting all the time he can give her even though her parents are busy getting the kitchen area of their hosue being renovated ( by a contractor) . Notwithstanding this is a very involved job (along with other normal jobs) they find and devote good time with Maya. Maya remains a very joyful and attentitve girl.
On Thursday 26 April 2012 Maya and her mom were very happy to welcome Sunir home !!! Family reunion!
Note: Sunir had a business (for his company) travel to Texas during the time when Maya & her mom were away in Switrzerland.
Being Grandparents -29
December 4, 2011 on 7:15 pm | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Family/Self | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents - 2, Being Grandparents - 3, Being Grandparents - 4, Being Grandparents - 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents -9 , Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12, Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15, Grandparents -16, Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24, Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26, Grandparents-27 & Grandparents -28 ) as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Wednesday 30 November 2011
This last day of November 2011 is a memorable one. It brought the first snow of the season - it was not only snow but wet snow with icy condition. The icy snow clung to tree branches - putting heavy weight - drooping the tree branches low. Quite a few trees & branches broke and resulted in widespread power blackout in the area. Power in Deep River went out sometime around 11.00 a.m. - thus no warm lunch. Kids’ nana made do with a bowl of cereal. Nani did not even had lunch. The power was restored sometime about 3.00 p.m . However, the highway road from Deep River towards Mattawa was blocked and also the road towards Chalk River too - due to some accidents.
Power in the kids’ home in Mackey was not restored and the gravel road to their home was blocked by fallen trees and icy snow. So the kids’ parents decided to stay over the night in Deep River at nana/nani home until the road situation and weather is improved. Nana’s afternoon bridge game in Deep River library was also cancelled due to no light . So all had a great dinner together and kids played with nana & nani -had books read to them - all having a jolly time.
Next day - Thursday 1 December 2011 - Sachin & Nina spent at nana/nani home (being Thursday, Nina being off work as usual) . Sitara went to her junior KG school - taken by her dad in the morning to her Baby-sitter home -from where Sitara takes her school bus after having breakfast at her baby-sitter place. In the evening, all had dinner together after Sitara came back from school ( having picked up by her dad from the baby-sitter home) . Sachin had a great time playing at naan/nani home during the day.
Friday 2 December 2011
This day Sitara had a special day . She was with her dad after school -who took/treated her for dinner at Burger King in Deep River and after that he accompanied her to a play ” Wizard of Oz ” at Childs Auditorium at Mackenzie Community School . This is her second play in as many weeks. Last week she went with her parents & Sachin to see the play called “Alladin” at Pembroke. Sachin did not go to see Wizard of Oz. He spent the day with his mom in Mackey resting.
Note: Both nana/nani saw the play ” Wizard of Oz” on Saturday . So on Sunday, tid-bits wwere excahged between them & Sitara - especially about the Witch of the Wild West.
Sunday 4 December 2011
This day was of anticipation . First the kids were to come home in Deep River to help decorate the Christmas tree and then for all to go out in the evening to watch the Deerp River Santa parade.
But also all were waiting anxiously to hear from Toronto that Maya (Kids’ infant cousin) & her parents have come back from Cuba safely and having had a good time there. Note: At the time when Maya & parents went to Cuba last Saturday- both Maya & her mom (Shannon) were sick & miserable with cold . This had raised a bit of anxiety level in grandparents.
Good news were received from Toronto in the evening that all have arrived back in Toronto safely and with better health . This topped the day having had good time with Sitara & Sachin during the day. Both Sachin & Sitara were excited to decorate the Christmas Tree . Sitara came with her nana downstairs in the basement to collect all the ornaments for decoration . There was lot of jolly time and kids helped to decorate the tree with great aplomb and keen perception for where to put various ornaments. Each Kid also got a present of a Santa Clause ornament (red in Santa outfit) from their nana/nani but they decided to take these to their own home in Mackey to put the ornament on the Christmas tree there.
In the evening before dinner- all went out to Deep River downtown to watch the Santa parade. Both Sachin & Sitara were excited- they waited with anticipation to watch the parade. Sachin expressed his thoughts that first will come Police Car & then Santa. He was right in his deduction. 2 1/2 year old have figured out the sequence. Both kids played around (while waiting for the parade to come) with other kids who also have come out to watch the parade.
When the parade came around all the kids stood in awe and they were entertained by the various floats and their attendants -who came bearing gifts (of candies) . The parade lasted half hour. The Giant Tiger float was much admired. Kids, their parents & nana/nani came home after that. All had dinner. The kids were hungry -so much that they ate their food fast and without fuss at all. After that they all went home to Mackey after spending some time to play with nana/nani and each other.
Monday 5 December 2011
This day Sachin was dropped off in the evening by his dad at his nana/nani home. Sachin was to have a sleep over as that day his dad was going to Ottawa (on his way to a day meeting in Toronto next day). Sitara was to go with her dad to Ottawa and stay night at a hotel where her mom was to join them late after work. That is her mom would travel from Deep River after 9.00 pm and join Sitara & her dad at the hotel. Sitara had a doctor’s appointment for allergy tests. So her mom will take her to the doctor. So all in all, Sachin came for the sleep over . He enjoyed nana/nani company and played with them . All had good dinner and was as usual a gentleman ( gentleboy). There is so much love in him and politeness -which is rare in a kid who is only 2 1/2 year old. He likes to converse and please his nana/nani. His favourite sentence is “I love you nana. I love you so much” or “I love you nani . I love you so much”.
He is very regular with his activities. He keeps his time for sleeps or naps .
On Tuesday 6 December 2011 he woke up early at about 8.00 a.m - had his milk and then joined in with nana/nani for breakfast. He would not start his breakfast until a place was made for his sister, Sitara . He wanted all things (Sitara’s placemat, plates etc) all on the table and a chair was kept booked for her. he love shis sister and would remember her for all things. He did the same thing for luncha nd dinner. What a loving brother that Sitara has.
After breakfast, nana/nani took him to Pt Alexander library for his FEN play time. He had a great time there - topped by a puppet show on a Ginger Bread cookie -which he (and other kids) enjoyed immensely.
His food intake at all times (breakfast, liunch and dinner) was excellent and without fuss. He seemed to be enjoying eating with his nana/nani.
Well his mom got delayed coming back to Deep River/Mackey from Ottawa -so it was decided that Sachin will spend another night at his nana/nani home and both his mom & Sitara would go to Mackey directly without stopping over at Deep River. Sachin will be picked by his mom next day at 8.00am and then he &7 Sitara will be ferried to their baby-sitter’s home in Deep River . From there Sitara will take (after breakfast at her baby-sitter home) a school bus to go to her junior KG school at Mackenzie Community School. Note: Sitara had her allergy tests done in Ottawa and it was found that she is allerigic to all types of nuts and peanuts particularly.
Friday 9 December 2011
This day Sitara’s nana/nani got call from her mom that she received a call from her school that Sitara was not feeling well - a bit of continouos coughing . So nana/nani went to the school and picked up Sitara in the morning about 10.30 am. and she stayed at nana/nani home. She rested well at home and in the evening was joined by Sachin & her dad for dinner - before going back to Mackey.
Saturday 10 December 2011
Nann/nani went to Mackey in the afternoon to look after the kids as their parents were going out on a Social in the evening - a dinner program by their dad’s workplace. It ws decided to go to Mackey to avoid kids to have to travel from Mackey to Deep River (to nana/nani home) and then back. Nana/nani stayed the night - the kids called it sleep over. They loved it and enjoyed being with their nana/nani. Wonderful kids - very polite, considerate and playful kids. They wanted nana read books (children story books) to them prior to going to sleep. Both nana/nani read books as each had one grandparent at one time.
On Sunday (11 December 2011) Sitara came to Deep River with nana/nani as it was her swimming class - this would avoid her mom to go from work and bring her back to swimming class. In the afternooon, Sitara got an opportunity to see on TV a movie on Wizard of Oz -with both nana/nani. She enjoyed it much . She just has seen a play (by Deep Rivers artists) last week at Childs Auditorium at Mackenzie Community School -so she was fresh with all the dialogue and action. However she did say that she liked the “Strawman”at the live play better (because he was more clumpsy ) than the one in the movie.
At swimming, at about finish time for her class, Sitara got heavy cough and spilled the mucous into water - so the swimming pool was evacuated and closed for disinfection.
Note: During next Sunday, Sitara did well in swimming (her last session for the season) and met all the requirements to move to next level. So during next session, she will be in the next level of swimming.
On this day, nana/nani got a sort of testimonial ( thank you note) from kids mom on her Facebook page. Below is verbatim from nina’s facebook entry. And the response from nana/nani .
Nina Facebook Quote:
Diwali - 2011
November 9, 2011 on 8:57 am | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Poems-Birthdays, Family/Self | Comments OffThis year’s Diwali was special to the family as our newest granddaughter was visiting Deep River from Toronto first time after her arrival on this good earth . She was to celebrate her first Diwali & a New Year with the family.
Both her cousins (Sitara- 4+ year old and Sachin- 2+ year old) were excited to learn that Maya will be coming. The East Indian Community of the Renfrew County had a Diwali program organised for Saturday 5 November 2011 at Lions Hall in Chlak River, ON. Apart from spending quality time with the family at home in Deep River, Maya & her parents (Shannon & Sunir) also participated in the said Diwali program . Some 120 people (East Indians and their friends of other ethnic background) attended the program. It was a lovely and lively program - with delicious Indian food (catered by an Ottawa Restauranteur), dances by community children (on Bollywood songs), a magic show by a local magician (Steven Anthony) and at the end - Gujarati Gurba and Punjabi Bhangra dances joined by public.
During this program , Maya’s Bapuji (that is me) and Sitara & Sachin’s nana (that is me) gave a small talk on Diwali and recited a poem. The poem was written by one of my colleagues, Gerhard, on a Cyber Forum who ihas this excellent ability to craft poems on social issues.
Below is my speech as written for delivery at the Diwali function on Saturday 7 November, 2011 - which was delivered - of course with some ‘as-lib” modifications but by and large keeping it intact in content and substance.
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Speech
East Indian Community of Renfrew County - Diwali, 2011 Celebration- Saturday 5 November 2011 at Lions Hall, Chalk River,Ontario
Hi Everyone,
This year’s Diwali was on Wednesday 26 October. I would like to wish you all a Happy Diwali & a very successful New Year.
Those who do not know me, my name is Pravin Shah and my family and I are residents of Deep River since 1986. I am retired from employment since 2007. Since my retirement, we have been gifted with three (3) loving grandchildren - 2 here in Deep River and our newest one in Toronto.
Diwali is a time for rejoicing and renewal as we celebrate the triumph of good over evil and light over darkness. Diwali is an auspicious festival celebrated by Hindus, Sikhs and Jains all over the world with great enthusiasm and excitement. Diwali is also popularly known as ” The Festival Of Light ” .
The Hindus celebrate this festival to commemorate the homecoming of Lord Rama after 14 year-long exile and his victory over the mythological demon Ravana. The Sikhs observe Diwali to celebrate the release in 1619 of Guru Hargobind Ji. For Jains, this festival carries the essence of spiritual upliftment because it marks the achievement of Nirvana or Moksha by Lord Mahavira, the last Tirthankara.
Spectacular lights, firecrackers, irresistible traditional sweets and sending gifts to dear ones mark the celebration of Diwali.
On Diwali families gather together and share variety of food and sweets. It is also common to send Diwali greeting cards to family members, relatives and friends. Recently however it is becoming more popular to send Diwali eCards or Diwali SMS.
The Diwali also culminates to the Hindu New Year.
In Canada, we celebrate Diwali with gusto.
In the Renfrew County (our own area), Diwali represents more than merely a religious festival. It represents and is a tableau of Indian culture, brotherhood and warmth by all peoples (of different religions and background) who have migrated from India. This also include peoples who have migrated from other parts of the Indian sub-continent.
Diwali Festival is getting recognised by various national political and social leaderships in many Western countries including Canada - which helps to generate understanding and friendship between various communities.
Here in Canada, the 11th National Diwali Celebration was hosted on Thursday, October 20 at the Canadian Museum of Civilization across from the Parliament Hill . Prime Minister Harper expressed his happiness that Diwali celebration at the Parliament Hill has grown into a truly national event.
On Diwali day - in a video message, the President of the Unites States Barack Obama spoke on Diwali and wished to all those who observe this sacred holiday in US and around the world, Happy Diwali and Saal Mubarak.
In United Kingdom , Speaking at a Diwali Party, at his official residence of 10 Downing Street , British Prime Minister David Cameron said that Diwali being the festival of a triumph of good over evil and also the death of a devil, perhaps there is some resonance in understanding that the recent death of Col Gaddafi of Libya is the victory of good over the evil in true Diwali sentiments. Cameron later said that of all the parties he hosted, his children found the Diwali party “by far the most exciting”.
In our Canadian context, the Diwali is celebrated during Autumn months , so I would like to recite a poem reflecting the Autumnal peace and our human spirit for resoluteness.
This poem is written by my friend Mr. Gerhard Fürst . Gerhard is born in Germany but got his education in US. He taught almost 38 years in US and many other countries. He has sent his greetings and best wishes for Diwali to all.
Shalom, Salaam, Shanti, Ahimsa….
The sun is shining,
but the air outside
is brisk, cold and fall-like.
Autumn has made its entrance.
The trees are showing off
their fall-fashionably colorful dream coats
Nature is splendid.
It amazes us every time.
Nature can also be daunting.
It can subdue us,
or it can elevate the spirit.
It is too nice to be inside;
so. let me attend to some
garden chores and duties to be done,
mowing the lawn,
collecting fallen leaves,
and while doing so,
thinking about the passage of time,
reflecting on life
and all of its seasons,
its surprises, its beauty,
its challenges,
even its adversity
which could subdue
and even destroy.
We need to be strong,
within and without.
We need to be resolute,
in order to carry on,
in order to survive,
God willing…
By His good grace…
Fall is also a season of harvest.
may the fruits of your labors
be plentiful!
I would like to take this opportunity to welcome our newest granddaughter (3 Months old), Maya Jashoda Knights Shah, for her first visit to Deep River from Toronto to celebrate her first Diwali and New Year with her cousins Sitara and Sachin Mistry as well as with the family and the East Indian Community.
And to express our great happiness and joy, the family has decided to make a small contribution to the Deep River & District Hospital towards purchase of capital equipment..
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Being Grandparents -28
October 12, 2011 on 6:22 pm | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Family/Self | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts (Being Grandparents ,Being Grandparents - 2, Being Grandparents - 3, Being Grandparents - 4, Being Grandparents - 5, Being Grandparents -6,Being Grandparents -7, Being Grandparents -8 , Being Grandparents -9 , Being Grandparents -10, Being Grandparents -11, Being Grandparents -12, Being Grandparents -13, Grandparents -14, Grandparents -15, Grandparents -16, Grandparents -17, Grandparents -18,Grandparents -19, Grandparents -20, Grandparents -21, Grandparents -22, Grandparents -23, Grandparents -24, Grandparents -25, Grandparents -26 & Grandparents -27 ) as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Thursday 6 October 2011
This day both kids , Sitara & sachin, had dental checkup .Sachin had yet not developed 4 molars.
Also Sachin went for Speech Assessment at FEN. It is assessed that he is doing well but a hearing assessment may be useful.
Sunjay joined Sitara at school during lunch time as the class was having a safety talk by Town Fire Dept and others.
After lunch the both kids and parents travelled to Toronto to play with Maya (their cousin - 2 month old) and also to go to “Raas garba” dance celebration in Toronto. Sitara & Sachin travelled to Toronto with their parents in their Saab car. They had great time together with Maya.
Kids also participated (along with their parents) in the Indian “Raas-Garba” function for Navaratri in Toronto on Saturday 8 October 2011.
The kids returned back to Mackey on Monday 10 October 2011 - with their mom as their dad stayed behind for his office work. Unfortunately on the last day ( Sunday night or early Monday morning) Sachin had fallen sick with Croup. He was treated at Sick Children hospital- taken there at 4.00 a.m in the morning . He had to have an IV also as his heart rate were found a tad bit higher (than normal) for a 2 year old kid.
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About Croup
Croup is a condition that causes an inflammation of the upper airways — the voice box (larynx) and windpipe (trachea). It often leads to a barking cough or hoarseness, especially when a child cries.
Most cases of croup are caused by viruses. Those involved are usually parainfluenza virus (which accounts for most cases). Croup is most common — and symptoms are most severe — in children 6 months to 3 years old, but can affect older kids, too.
Most cases of viral croup are mild and can be treated at home, though rarely it can be severe and even life-threatening. Some children are more prone to developing croup when they get a viral upper respiratory infection.
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Sachin seems to be okay. Nina will take him for checkup with Family doctor on Thursday 13 October 2011. She took a day off on Wednesday (12 October ) to be with Sachin. Nana/nani have not yet seen him since his return from Toronto ( Nina is safeguarding nana/nani from any infection). Of course nana/nani will see him on Thursday 13 October 2011′
Sitara is with her nana/nani since she came back from Toronto - both nana/nani enjoy getting her ready for her school etc. She is so mature for her age . She is just a doll and very social and enjoys her nana/nani care.
Thursday 20 October 2011
The kids were again travelling to Toronto with their parents . This was possible as Sachin had recovered from his previous sickness (during earlier visit to Toronto) . They were to stay with Nina’s friend Priyanka and her husband Aman. Priyanka/Aman have two kids , the eldest a girl about Sitara’s age and younger one is a boy about Sachin’s age. Priyanka/Aman had organised a Diwali Party for their Deep River friends and spouses on Saturday 22 October 2011 . It was called “Deep River Diwali Reunion”. The kids had a lovely time and they had many kids of their age to play with.
(Unfortunately Sunir/Shannon & Maya could not participate as they had gone to Montreal - as Sunir had some business need).
They arrived back to Mackey on Sunday 23 October 2011 at about 5.00 p.m - and Sitara then came to Deep River with her mom for her swimming class at 6.00p.m at Mackenzie pool.
Monday 24 October 2011 and Tuesday 25 October 2011, the kids and parents had dinner at nana/nani home in Deep River.
Nina was off work as usual on Tuesday (25 October 2011).She had planned to go to Sitara’s KG class KG in the afternoon while Sachin spent the afternoon at naan/nani place - getting his afternoon nap. This was to discuss with young kids the Diwali & its significance but mainly work with them to make some Diwali craft. This is Canadian Diversity in culture at work. Nina found that Sitara interacts well with the other kids at school and enjoy being there. Nina also told them a story, showed them some of Sitara`s outfits and had them make and decorate diyas. Everyone made such nice Diwali crafts in the class (all kids are about 4 years old).
Thursday 27 October 2011
This day the kids went to Pembroke with their parents. Nina has as usual Thursdays off from work and their dad took vacation day to be with them. This day being New Year in Indian Calender, parents wanted to spend time with the kids . They went to visit the Hugli’s farm at teh outskirt OF Pembroke. This si the farm where kids parents got married in August of 2004.
After Hugli’s farm visit all went to Boston Pizza (in Pembroke) for dinner - where their nana/nani joined the family. - a real family affair to celebrate the New Year . The other family (Maya & her parents) could not join as they were far in Toronto - though all the family will meet on the weekend of 4/5 November 2011 as the local East Indian Community has organised a Diwali function on Saturday 5 November 2011 (at Lions Hall in Chalk River) -when Maya and her parents wiil be coming from Toronto to participate and celebrate Diwali here in Deep River.
Saturday 29 October 2011
Sitara showed was a bit under the weather in the morning . So was Sachin - so Sachinhad to skip his gym class. On Sunday 30 October, they were both taken to Emerg. in Deep River in the evening. Sitara has ear infection in both ears - in the canal and Sachin had congestion. Next day is Halloween day - hopefully they will recover enough to enjoy the fun of ” Trick or Treating “.
Monday 31 October 2011
Both kids seem to have weathered their illness after taking the medicine on Sunday night . Sitara went tyo her KG clas and Sachin went to his Baby-Sitter (Jeannet). Though Sitara also goes to the Baby-Sitter from where she takes a school bus to & from the School , Both kids were picked up by their dad at 5.00 p.m from the Baby-Sitter’s home and after that they came to nana/nani home - to get ready for Halloween “trick or treat” outing in Deep River. Their mom also came early from work to enjoy with them their Halloween.
They got ready - Sitara as a princess (pink dress) and Sachin as Jack ( pirate with black outfit) . But before they got dressed up for the Trick or Treat outing - they helped to decorate two (2) huge pumpkins that their dad had earlier (in the morning) brought to nana/nani home. Each one decorated one pumpkin - both were diligent and enjoyed doing the decoration. Both pupmkins were put outdoors in front . These pumpkins were very much praised by many who had come in the evening for their ” Trick or Treat “ fun at nana/nani home. The kids were taken out by their parents- all went walking in the neighborhood -mostly on around the home. Later Sachin was dropped home ( after a sojourn of about 1 1/2 hours “Trick or Treating) for his supper as he was heeling hungry. Sitara continued and went far a field in the car with her parents . They came back home and had dinner and spent relaxed quality time with thier nana/nani and also with parents. They went Mackey much late in the evening.
Saturday 5 November 2011
This year’s Diwali was on Wednesday 26 October 2011 but was celebrated by the Renfrew County East India Community on Saturday 5 November 2011.
Both kids were excited to celebrate this year’s Diwali as their cousin (our newest grandaughter, Maya - the daughter of their ShannonMami & SunirMama) have had come from Toronto (with her parents) to celbrate her first Diwali & Hindu New Year . Maya is turning to 3 months old on Monday 7 November 2011.
The other details of the Diwali program and the fun kids had at the program can be accessed from the article ( titled “Diwali-2011″) on the website.
Maya left ( with her parents ) the Diwali party early for home so she can have her sleep and rest.
On Sunday (6 November 2011) morning Maya got up early. She was all pleasant and charming with broad smiles and with beautiful twinkle in the eyes. She was coddled by her Ba & Bapuji while her parents had opportunity to take time to rest. She was placed on blankets on the living room carpet and both Ba & Bapuji played with her- sometimes with infant toys. Maya then went to sleep for 45 minutes . That was very refreshing.
Both Sitara & Sachin came over with their parents to play with Maya and also to spend time with her parents . Moreover this day (being Maya & her parents being here in Deep River) , it was an opportune time to celebrate Sunjay’s (Sitara & Sachin’s dad - Maya’s Fuva) upcoming birthday - his birthday being on Saturday 12 November 2011- (when both Ba & Bapuji will be in Toronto -to attend an Engineering conference — of course also Maya & her parents would also have returned back to Toronto after a short visit to Deep River to celebrate Diwali with the family and the East Indian Community.)
Before lunch . a ceremonial cake ( baked by Maya’s Ba - Sitara/Sachin’s nani), with candles (Sitara helped to place the candles on the Cake) was carried from kitchen by Sitara & her nani with birthday song -to living room where Sunjay was sitting with the family -all having small talk about many things. Everyone joined in the birthday celebration with song and chatter, It was also recognised that it was also Maya’s 3-month birthday (on 7 November 2011) and also of Maya’s Ba’s birthday (on 15 November 2011) .
The cake was taken to the Dining Room table - candles were blown off ( with a wish) by Sunjay and cake was then cut by Sunjay helped by both Sitara and Sachin.
The cake was eaten at that time by Sitara & Sachin - the adults felt to leave eating cake after the lunch. This was done once the lunch was over. All had great time during lunch . Both Sitara & Sachin also enjoyed the lunch - even though having eaten the cake before. Maya was a well behaved baby during lunch and kept all enthralled by her cooing and smiles.
After lunch, there were gifts for all from the grandparents (for Sunjay’s birthday , for Diwali to all , for celebrating motherhood to Shannon & for being Faiba ( Maya’s paternal auntie) to Nina .
Sachin left early to go to Mackey with his dad as he needed to have his afternoon nap. Though he did not want to go but it was necessary for his rest.
Sitara had more time to spend with Maya - first she was alone without Sachin being here and second that her swimming Class at Mackenzie Pool was cancelled for some reason. Sitara usually goes for her swimming class on Sundays at 6.00 p.m Sitara spent this time to play with all but more with Maya. She laid besides Maya on the living room carpet caressing and coddling Maya her . She also played with Maya with the infant toys . At one time when Sitara was alone in the living room -laid along Maya- Sitara entertained Maya with nursery songs (the songs that she knew). That was very touching - love oozing out from a 4 year old girl for her infant cousin.
Sitara and he mom left about 7.00 p.m for home to Mackey . Sitara was heavy hearted - she did not want to go but being a 4 year mature girl she did go though a bit reluctantly.
Firday 11 November 2011
Both nana/nani went to Toronto as nana was attending an Engineering conference (Chapter Leaders) and an Award Gala for some selected prominent Professional Engineers . Nani however (after attending a Chapter’s 50th Anniversary dinner on Friday at Toronto Airport Marriott hotel) went to kids Mama/Mami home to stay with their ShannonMami -as she was alone with Maya - their SunirMama havoing gone to California on business.
Both nana/nani returned back from Toronto on Monday 14 November 2011 and on the way to Deep River- stopped over at Mackey in the evening (about 6.00 p.m) - by that time kids were home (Sitara from her KG school and Sachin from his Baby-sitter) - both picked by their dad from the baby-Sitter’s home in Deep River.
The kids were having dinner when nana/nani arrived. After dinner both kids played with their nana/nani -with toys and also reading of books. Nana/nani left about 7.30 pm as that was getting nearer to kids’ sleeping time.
Well on Tuesday 15 November 2011 - kids came to nana/nani home - Sachin with his mom as she was not working that day and Sachin did not go to the baby-sitter’s home . Sachin usually do not go to baby-sitter’s home on the days when his mom is not on work duty . Sitara came to her nana/nani home after her KG school - being picked up by her dad from the baby-sitter’s home. This day was their nani’s birthday and kids celebrtaed the ocaasion joining the adults in the family . A sumptuous dinner was had - kazoos were trumpeted by the kids , candles on the cake were blownoff and the chocolate cake was cut and enjoyed by all. Kids participated as usual with gusto. Both Sitara and sachin has also prepared a birth day greeting card for their nani. Sitara (now only 2 months in her 4 year- old KG class) have started writing -and she spelled out and wrote on the card her and her brother’s name as signatories . Sachin prepared a star-studded flower as decoration -all helped by his mom.
After the aprty , Kids had quiet time to play with their nana & nani . They then went home to Mackey with their parents.
Thursday 17 November 2011
Sachin had come with his mom to nana/nani home at about lunch time. He was relaxed, very friendly and played a bit with his nana/nani before lunch . After lunch, he was tired and went for his usual afternoon nap. While he was napping ( and being looked after by his nani) , his mom and nana went to the Pine Beach in Deep River to collect a couple of bucketful of sand from the beach for their sandbox in Mackey home ( sandbox to be placed in the Sun Room for winter playing).
This day it was a Teacher/Parent meeting day at Sitara’s school (Mackenzie Community School, Deep River) - so her parents went to school at 4.00 pm to meet with her teacher Mrs. Cox. Hence , her nana went to pick Sitara up at her baby-sitter’s home. Sitara has good report.
After dinner, there was play and fun. Their dad went to his Jiu-Jitsu class. Jiu=Jitsu is a martial art, combat sport, and a self -defense system that focuses on grappling and especially ground fighting.
Kids went home to Mackey at about 8.30 pm with their mom. It is always fun to play with both the kids . They are very constructive and they show love for both their nana & their nani and want to play with them. They really like playing slide (sliding on nana’s body - nana sitting on the sofa and stretching his legs out) . Both take turn - climbing the side black sofa using their purple chair as climbing step (one of the two small kid’s chairs that nana/nani have for the kids to play in Deep River) - and then jumping on nana’s belly and from there sliding down to the carpetted floor .
Saturday 19 November 2011
Both Sitara & Sachin had gone in the morning for their gym classses at DunDonald Hall (in Petawawa) with their parents . After gym and lunch at Petawawa, Sachin went to Mackey with his dad (for his afternoon nap) and Sitara went with hor mom to a birthday party (Sitara’s friend Savannah) in Deep River. As told by her mom, at the party Sitara did ice skating without any need for stability support .
After the party, Sitara & her mom came to nana/nani home and they were joined by Sachin & his dad (they came from Mackey - Sachin was in the car as he was not brought into the house ) - all were going to Pembroke to enjoy a play called Alladin. The play was at the Festive Hall in Pembroke. They left for Pembroke at about 4.30 pm - Sitara giving hug to her nani & nana.
Tuesday 22 November 2011
This day Sachin went for music class in Petawawa. This was his last class for the season. There were only two(2) kids for this class. His mom took him there and after the music class they came to nana/nani home in Deep River, where they joined in lunch and in the evening Sitara came from her school -having picked up by her dad at her baby-sitter’s home (after the school bus drop off) . All had dinner together and kids had time to play with nana & nani after dinner. They left for Mackey at about 7.30 p.m - their nanahad gone to play bridge( card game) at 7.00 p.m.
Thursday 24 November 2011
Sachin to go to Ottawa with his mom for 1) teeth examination & 2) for hearing tests.
This is what his mom said on her Facebook
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Being Grandparents (paternal)- 3
October 12, 2011 on 5:57 pm | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Family/Self | Comments OffThis post is a continuation of the earlier posts — Being Grandparents (paternal) -1 & Being Grandparents (paternal)- 2 as the previous posts were becoming a tad bit busy.
Thursday 6 October 2011
This day Maya’s cousins from Mackey came to visit her. Both Sitara & Sachin travelled to Toronto with their parents in their Saab car. They had great time together. The cousins returned back to Mackey on Monday 10 October 2011 - with their mom as their dad stayed behind for his office work. Unfortunately on the last day ( Sunday night or early Monday morning) Sachin had fallen sick with Croup. He was treated at Sick Children hospital- taken there at 4.00 a.m in the morning . He had to have an IV also as his heart rate were found a tad bit higher (than normal) for a 2 year old kid.
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About Croup
Croup is a condition that causes an inflammation of the upper airways — the voice box (larynx) and windpipe (trachea). It often leads to a barking cough or hoarseness, especially when a child cries.
Most cases of croup are caused by viruses. Those involved are usually parainfluenza virus (which accounts for most cases). Croup is most common — and symptoms are most severe — in children 6 months to 3 years old, but can affect older kids, too.
Most cases of viral croup are mild and can be treated at home, though rarely it can be severe and even life-threatening. Some children are more prone to developing croup when they get a viral upper respiratory infection.
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Maya however was oblivious to this as she is just an infant but she she held herself well .
Tuesday 11 October 2011
Maya had her two-month checkup this day (morning time) -taken by her mom to the clinic. She had done well and had two shots (vaccination) . She cried only for a few minutes at the time and then was quite happy for the next 2 hours while she & her mom visited her great gran and great grandpa.
Afterwards she was a bit cranky and possibly sore and could not take the infant Tylenol -which when given - she coughed and choked and threw it all up… poor girl.
Maya is growing like a champ! She is up to 11 lb 4 oz!!! (50% ile). Her head is 38cm (25% ile) and she is nice and long at 59cm (75% ile)!
Her dad was away this day to California (on office business) missing her .
Sunday 16 October 2011
It seems Maya was getting flavour of Halloween early as her parents were dressing her with Haloween outfits and savouring the beauty that was Maya.
Maya’s photo in orange pumpkin emboidered outfit was corculated for all to enjoy the beautiful baby .
Friday 21 October 2011
Maya went to Montreal - in French milieu with her parents. Her dad had a business appointment there so the family decided to make it a vacation weekend.
Sitara and Sachin were travelling to Toronto with their parents this weekend to participate in a Diwali Party organised by (Nina & Sunir) Deep River friend, Priyanka . Sunir /Shannon & maya were also invited but they had to skip that due to visit to Montreal . Though Maya missed her cousins from Mackey, she was okay as she had a great visit in Montreal with her mom taking her places (when her dad was busy with his business appointment) .
This is what her mom said in her e-mail with a photo of a visit to the biodome .
” Maya aime Montreal ‘.
She loved looking at all the different ecosystems, especially the rainforest (where this photo was taken). Her mom had some delicious croissants for breakfast and both enjoying Montreal . Of Course Sunir was at his business meeting.
Monday 31 October 2011
Maya’s first Halloween day was exciting to say the least. She was part of a competition at her dad’s office for Costume Contest ‘11.
Her dad had posed himself as a Pumpkin farmer -holding Maya - dressed in splendid orange pumpkiny outfit in his arms . Her bapuji commented on the Contest website that
” Maya rocks with her dad Sunir, She is just pumpkinly – remind me of Haloween”.
Her mom had also circulated (to friends and family members) a latest photo of Maya in a different Halloween costume dress (orange) -where Maya seems to be giving a scaring scream. Atta girl - you are in a halloween spirit here.
Maya had a run of Halloween “Trick or Treat” outing with her parents in the neighbourhood on the Halloween day - at known homes.
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Friday 4 November to Monday 7 November 2011 - Visit to Deep River & Diwali celebration .
Maya
Friday 4 August 2011
She came, she conquered and she left. That is Maya , Ba & Bapuji’s VIP.
Maya arrived in Deep River on Friday late at night about 10.00 p.m - her first visit to Deep River . She came from Toronto with her parents driven in a rental silver Nissan (Altima 25S) saloon car . She was carried into her Ba/bapuji’s home nicely saddled in her car seat . She was waking up from her sleep — earlier induced by running car - being in the car from Huntsville after stopping over at her maternal Great Grandma/Grandpa home at Huntsville.
Maya is getting to be 3 months old (born on 7 August 2011) . Both ba/Bapuji welcomed her Indian style - giving her “Good Luck” money and kissed her. She was a bit groggy as she was getting up from her sleep but after a few squeals -s he was taken by her mom to her already prepared crib - to continue her sleep.
It was surmised that her squeals were a bit “Croupy” in sound - which signified a congestion in her chest. It being cold and furnace being on with heat - it was decided to start up a humidifier and a vapouriser . The vapouriser was placed in her room for the night while the humidifier was left in the living room (which was shut off after about an hour) .
Next day on Saturday ( 5 November 2011) , she woke up early . She came into the kitchen with her mom. Bapuji was up also and was getting ready to have his breakfast . Maya gave her most captivating smile to Bapuji -which send him to all happiness. She also responded to Bapuji’s baby talk to her . She was most charming. Her mom fed her changed her when her Ba also was ready to coddle her. Ba held her in her arms and played with her. Thuis allowed her mom went back to sleep -to get rest . Ba played with her on the carpet and then she was placed on a layer baby blankets with infant toys around her. She played with both Ba & bapuji and picked a toy and try that out in her mouth. After a bit of playing with her Ba/Bapuji she went to sleep and slept by herself for 3/4 of an hour.
Maya went for a stroll (in her stroller) outdoors with her parents in the morning before lunch. . She had a bird’s eye view of Deep River from the stroller -and went downtown and stopped over with her parents at the Coffee Shop . After they returned back from the stroll and had lunch- Maya had a nap before getting ready to go out to Diwali party. She got ready at about 3.00 p.m and after all adults were ready - everyone went by car ( her parents and Maya in one car and Ba/bapuji in another car) to Lions Hall in Chalk River to celebrate Diwali with the East Indian Community and others of a larger community who came as guests.
Her cousins Sitara & Sachin came later at the party as they had other activities to attend to.
It was a bit of a surprise that our invited guest , Anne, to the party was already at the Lions Hall parking waiting for us . Anne is one of Bapuji’s Petawawa bridge card playing colleagues - who came out earlier (with other two ladies - Bapuji’s bridge colleagues) to celebrate Maya’s first month’s birthday ( a lunch at Deep River PetroCanada restaurant) .
At the parking lot, Anne got introduced to Maya , Shannon & Sunir . Anne was so excited and pleased to see Maya . She had a gift for Maya (and also for her Ba (Jackie) . Sunir/Shannon wished Anne a happy 65th birthday -so did Bapuji. Anne was a bit surprised for that . (Bapuji had earlier informed Sunir/Shannon about Anne’s birthday). Ba was already gone into the Lions Hall -so Anne did not meet her at that time. However, immediately when all arrived in the Lions Hall , Ba was there at the entrance. So both Anne & Ba exchanged pleasantries.
The Diwali program was excellent. Maya took all happenings in her small strides. She got introduced to many Community friends by her parents . Maya also took part in Puja and did Aarti too - all with her parents. Anne was there all along.
Both Sitara and Sachin (Maya’s cousins) arrived a bit later but joined to enjoy the entertainment program & after that the Magic Show by magician Steve . At one point when Sitara was sitting next to her ShannonMami - Bapuji brought Maya to her. Oh! Sitara -so lovingly caressed her then kissed her cheek. That was very moving. During the entertainment program, bapuji gave a short talk on Diwali & also recited a poem on Autumnal peace . At that time Bapuji publicly welcomed Maya to her first visit to Deep River to celebrate her first Diwali & Indian (Hindu) New Year and to commemorate this visit her Bapuji announced a small contribution to the Deep River & District Hospital towards purchase of capital equipment.
After the Magic Show (by Steven Anthony) and dinner , there was time for free floor dancing - initially Gujarati Gurba and then Punjabi Bhangra. Sitara was all into it with her nice Indian purple outfit adorned with a soft purple “duppatta“. She was very particular to have the “duppatta” . Sachin also took part in dancing with great enthusiasm.
Maya was not to be left behind. She danced carried by her Faiba (Nina) on the floor a few minutes but more with her Bapuji. All had good dinner and all in all good fun at the function.
Maya left with her parents early for home so she can have her sleep and rest.
On Sunday (6 November) morning Maya got up early. She was all pleasant and charming with broad smiles and with beautiful twinkle in the eyes. She was coddled by her Ba & Bapuji while her parents had opportunity to take time to rest. She was placed on blankets on the living room carpet and both Ba & Bapuji played with her- sometimes with infant toys. Maya then went to sleep for 45 minutes . That was very refreshing.
Both Sitara & Sachin came over with their parents to play with Maya and also to spend time with her parents . Moreover this day (being Maya & her parents being here in Deep River) , it was an opportune time to celebrate Sunjay’s (Sitara & Sachin’s dad - Maya’s Fuva) upcoming birthday - his birthday being on Saturday 12 November 2011- (when both Ba & Bapuji will be in Toronto -to attend an Engineering conference — of course also Maya & her parents would also have returned back to Toronto after a short visit to Deep River to celebrate Diwali with the family and the East Indian Community.)
Before lunch . a ceremonial cake ( baked by Maya’s Ba - Sitara/Sachin’s nani), with candles (Sitara helped to place the candles on the Cake) was carried from kitchen by Sitara & her nani with birthday song -to living room where Sunjay was sitting with the family -all having small talk about many things. Everyone joined in the birthday celebration with song and chatter, It was also recognised that it was also Maya’s 3-month birthday (on 7 November 2011) and also of Maya’s Ba’s birthday (on 15 November 2011) .
The cake was taken to the Dining Room table - candles were blown off ( with a wish) by Sunjay and cake was then cut by Sunjay helped by both Sitara and Sachin.
The cake was eaten at that time by Sitara & Sachin - the adults felt to leave eating cake after the lunch. This was done once the lunch was over. All had great time during lunch . Both Sitara & Sachin also enjoyed the lunch - even though having eaten the cake before. Maya was a well behaved baby during lunch and kept all enthralled by her cooing and smiles.
After lunch, there were gifts for all from the grandparents (for Sunjay’s birthday , for Diwali to all , for celebrating motherhood to Shannon & for being Faiba ( Maya’s paternal auntie) to Nina .
Sachin left early to go to Mackey with his dad as he needed to have his afternoon nap. Though he did not want to go but it was necessary for his rest.
Sitara had more time to spend with Maya - first she was alone without Sachin being here and second that her swimming Class at Mackenzie Pool was cancelled for some reason. Sitara usually goes for her swimming class on Sundays at 6.00 p.m Sitara spent this time to play with all but more with Maya. She laid besides Maya on the living room carpet caressing and coddling Maya her . She also played with Maya with the infant toys . At one time when Sitara was alone in the living room -laid along Maya- Sitara entertained Maya with nursery songs (the songs that she knew). That was very touching - love oozing out from a 4 year old girl for her infant cousin.
Sitara and he mom left about 7.00 p.m for home to Mackey . Sitara was heavy hearted - she did not want to go but being a 4 year mature girl she did go though reluctantly.
After that Maya went to sleep in the crib and adults (her parents & grandparents) took opportunity to play bridge (card game) for about an hour. This was a distraction for fun — to have after the day’s entertainment with Maya.
Monday 7 November 2011
Maya was up as usual early and she was greeted with Happy 3 months Birthday by her Ba and a bit after by her Bapuji . The parents had some time to rest but then they had to get ready early too as they had plans to depart for Toronto early . Lo Behold ! both Sitara & Sachin also came from Mackey (before going to their Baby-sitter home & then For Sitar to go to School) . This morning meeting resulted in all three grandchildren gathered around their grandma on the living room carpet -when a nice pose for a joint photo was established and photos taken. All three children were united in hugs and on their grandma’s lap. Both Sitara & Sachin said bye to Maya - kissed her and then gave hugs to their ShannonMami & SunirMama .
Maya went out on a walk with her mom prior to getting ready to go to Toronto. Maya left with her parents for Toronto at about 10.00 a.m - the car drove away quietly leaving behind many good impressions and sprinkles of love and warmth . The grandparents will miss Maya - but they have already started looking and enjoying many photos and video clips left behind.
On the way, they stopped in Huntsville at Maya’s maternal great grandparents and arrived safely at Toronto around 7.45 pm. Maya had a successful long drive away from home. In the past she had gone away a few times to the cottage country and once to Niagara Falls. Atta girl!
She came, she conquered and she left. That is Maya , Ba & Bapuji’s VIP.
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Saturday 26 November 2011
This day Maya goes to Cuba - her first plane ride (air-flight) to a foreign country. Of course with her parents, Grandparents (maternal) & others - who have been invited to attend a wedding of Shannon’s family friend. Unfortunately before the flight (two to three days before) both Maya & Shannon had been suffering from cold.
Sunday 4 December 2011
This day was of anticipation . First Sitara & Sachin (Maya’s cousins living here close to Deep River) were to come home in Deep River to help decorate the Christmas tree and then for all to go out in the evening to watch the Deep River Santa parade. But also all were waiting anxiously to hear from Toronto that Maya & her parents have come back from Cuba safely and having had a good time there.
Note: At the time when Maya & parents went to Cuba last Saturday- both Maya & her mom (Shannon) were sick & miserable with cold .
This had raised a bit of anxiety level in grandparents. Good news were received from Toronto in the evening that all have arrived back in Toronto safely and with better health . This topped the day having had good time with Sitara & Sachin during the day.
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Here is Maya’s view of the Cuban experience as articulated by her Grandma (maternal), Kathy, who also was with her during the visit to Cuba. This writing was received by electronic mail on December 08, 2011 at 10.00 pm Maya’s Trip to Cuba: Nov 26 – Dec 4, 2011 (as told to her grandma) My parents and I went on an airplane and I showed my passport.
Cuba is nice but you have to wear a hat. I don’t like that. But you can have bare feet. I like that except when someone splashes cold water on my toes. One day we went to a wedding and I wore pink shoes. But only for a few minutes. A lot of people like to sit still in Cuba and read a book. I don’t like that. So some people took me for a walk. I didn’t even know them all but they were quite nice. One day at the beach I got sand in my ears, eyes, nose, bellybutton, mouth and everywhere else. Then I had a shower and a bath with Mommy. After that we didn’t go to the beach. Usually I went everywhere with Mommy and Daddy but one night I didn’t. I was already asleep so I didn’t know it was just Grandma in the room. In the airport on the way home, Daddy had to wake me up and take me out of my stroller to get my photo taken, so they could compare it to my passport to see if I was really me. That was funny. Cuba has lots of things to look at but nothing as interesting as my Winkel toy. M.J.K.S. ————————————————– Wednesday 7 December 2011 To-day Maya is 4 months old. Her photo taken in Toronto to-day by her mom shows tahts he has now grown and graduaated to sit in a “bumbo” seat. It thrilled her Ba & bapuji most that Maya graduated to the ‘bumbo” seat. She has her signature conversational smile (in the photo) which wins hearts . Note: To-day is a special day for her Ba/Bapuji - as they bought a new 40″ SHARP HD Led TV and had that delivered and put together at home in Deep River. Saturday 10 December 2011 According to her mom’s e-mail posted today to family & friends , Maya seems to be getting in the spirit of celebrating her first Christmas and today is the first Christmas party that she will be participating in. This is what her mom wrote ” Maya is all set for our Christmas party today… minus her party dress, of course! “ Atta girl. She likes to be coddled. She gives smiles which are so friendlythat there is no doubt that she will be star of the party.
Maya - a humourous article written by Maya’s Maternal grandma (Kathy)
September 29, 2011 on 4:59 am | In Miscellaneous Musings!, Family/Self | Comments OffMaya is very fortunate to have loving maternal grandparents - close by in Toronto
Maya’s maternal grandparents (Kathy & Doug) live not too far from Maya’s parents’ home in Toronto and thus Maya gets an immense opportunity to be coddled, kissed and hugged often by them.
Recently , Kathy wrote an interesting humourous article in her Church’s ( Fairlawn Avenue United Church) Fall 2011 issue newspaper. The Title: ” My Goofy Remarkable Family” and the article is hilarious and really excellent.
It is reproduced here - See Below:
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Family Tiesfall2011
By Kathleen
My Goofy Remarkable Family
Let me start by saying that my husband is not goofy. I might have called his pineapple shirt goofy. I may have hinted that certain remarks made to his daughters (or worse, their heart-throbs) were tending that way.
But by no means did I ever think he could be nominated Goofiest Guy. Yet here he emailed me a few weeks ago to advise he’d be going to a GOOF tournament in September. Imagine, trying out for top goofiness! (Okay, he probably meant GOLF – although some might think they are one and the same.)
But if anyone should be in a contest, it’s our new granddaughter, Maya. Clearly a ten out of ten.
Yet she was barely born when my daughter reported that Maya was “unremarkable.”
“That’s good, Mom,” she explained. “In medical terms, you don’t want anything to be remarkable. It means there’s something wrong.”
That may be all very well in doctor-speak, but Grandma knows that infant is remarkable, not unremarkable.
“You’re wrong,” I say, staring endlessly at her fingers (piano player), mouth (sweetheart), legs (gymnast) and facial expressions (Oscar material). “There has never been such a remarkable baby.”
You don’t believe me? Here’s an example. When she was born, her stomach was the size of a chickpea and three days later it was the size of a walnut. Is that remarkable or what?
After only three weeks on earth, Maya developed a talent for crying intermittently all evening and half the night. My son-in-law, finding neither hunger nor wet diapers to be the explanation, diagnosed “existential terror.” He didn’t say so, but I’m sure he agrees with me that this proves her to be a remarkable philosopher at such a tender age.
She furrows her little brow and I see her thinking, “Why am I here?” just prior to an outburst of wailing.
If you witnessed it, you would appreciate just how remarkable she is.
Recently Maya had her passport photo taken. She managed to sit up straight, open her eyes, refrain from crying or smiling – all without any part of Mommy’s body in the picture.
It only took 30 tries. I call that remarkable for a one-month-old. I guess she really wants to go on that family trip!
I got to thinking. Could remarkable and goofy be related? Maya likes doing Grandpa’s goofy exercises (remarkable! She can touch her toes). Grandpa looks kind of goofy when he opens his eyes wide and his teeth touch his chin, all three inches from her face. But look what follows. She’s practically doing a downward dog! It’s pretty remarkable.
Maybe they should go in a tournament together: the Most Remarkably Goofy Tournament. With him on goofy and her acing remarkable, the possibilities are limitless for this family.
I can’t wait to see what’s next!
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